Comments by wm2slc

As canny said, I have also had reviews rejected and asked to expand... I had written the review very early one morning after getting back from the club. In retrospect it was a lame review and I did get a bit more specific.. I think the editors are doing a pretty good job, but there will always be exceptions...

I have never been one to sit at the stage until recently... but have found that most clubs I've been to, don't want other dancers sitting with customers that are at the stage. So I go in and sit at the stage, relax and start looking at who I'm interested in. I usually tip just $2 per song for dancers that are hot, some that are not at all interesting to me I will just tip a buck. Things I look for are how the lady looks, of course, but also how she moves and how she reacts to tips. How appreciation is shown is kinda how I determine who I want a dance with. A thank you is not doing it for me. A lean over and a kiss on the cheek, nibble on the ear or the face between the girls is a great way to show appreciation and how a dance will go. I also look at the way the ladies treat the guys that tip a $5. If she is only showing that guy appreciation, then she is going to be an upsell in the lap dance. As far as asking for a lap dance, I don't really care if someone comes up and suggests, but if there is a lady that I want to get one from, I will let her know while she is on stage. A whisper in the ear while she is showing some appreciation... BTW, after a great lap dance, the lady is getting $5s from me at the stage... For drinks, I'll ask if I'm interested in buying that $8 water for the lady.

Ha ha Otto... so true, back then a buck would buy a couple gallons of gas, but no way I'm tippin $8 now.. The main thing is if you are watchin, ya better be tippin. Do what you can do... I try and do $2 for the first song(before they remove the top) and $3 for the next couple. Of course sometimes more, sometimes less depending on the lady and her attitude. Juicebox... $20, $50 and $100 says, you are a good income source and I'm going to play you as long as I can..

Very much like what I have observed when I've been there!

Wow, I live in Panama now and will be in Vegas in Oct and was thinking about making a TJ trip. Guess that is off the itinerary now... Thanks

@Stiletto25... if you need someone to ride in that limo and protect you, let me know... haha

I found that if you always tip big, you are less likely to become a friend, maybe if they want OTC, then they may be intereste... When you are the biggest, or one of the biggest tippers, at that point you become an income source... I have always tipped modestly, but regularly but not the biggest tipper in the place...

I have many dancer friends that I see OTC... some physical some just as very good friends. I've been to their homes, met kids, BFs and even husbands. Of course the ones I have physical relationships with do not have BFs or husbands. I really do think that most consider me family they choose. I've had a couple that have shared problems they are having with $$ and I have offered to help and they tell me.."I'm sharing this as a friend, I can and will handle this, but thanks for your offer." I've even tried to slip them more as tips.. had one, very good friend tell me she knows what I'm doing and thanks, and gave the $50 back to me... Most have some problems, they really want to have some friends to talk with. I'm much older and I think they feel they can tell me things, I can offer advice(probably same things their dads would) and they can listen as it's not from their dads. I know this may be unusual, but I know these ladies are some of my best friends and always will be. My dad once told me, "when making friends, make sure some are beautiful ladies as they are much easier to look at than a bunch of old men" My dad is happy with my choices I think... ha ha BTW, the ones I have physical relationships with, are awesome, and I would give up the physical before the friendship...

Well, being on the upper end of the 50s, I've been going to SC for a lot of years. Some of my best friends are current or former dancers. I just went through my contacts in my phone and there are 33 current or former dancers numbers and many have invited me to their homes. Wow, surprised me. One thing I have found, and have been told, is that the big tippers are usually not the guys they want to be friends with. They are income sources, not friends. I go in on a regular basis, they know that they can depend on me and trust me if they need help. If they need $$ help, I will if I can and most will pay it back. If they do, they know they can ask when they get in a bind again. As for extra? Sure some do, but the ones I really consider close friends, we don't cross that boundary as that would end the friendship and that is more important than "extras". That I get from others...