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5 years ago
I'm old and set in my ways, the only Y chromosomes I want in my strippers are the ones I put in her
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5 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
well over 100.
I started counting and just within half an hour of where I live now, I got to over 30 within my lifetime. That isn't counting those that closed and reopened or the ones that changed owners and revamped themselves.
A few notables that I miss dearly, Al's bar in Newark, Stars and bars in Long Branch, Phoenix and club Fahrenheit in Asbury park and club Celebration in Neptune.
I should write up some of the stories form these places.
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5 years ago
Missing details
No cover. Dances are 20 for four minutes. Pay in advance to avoid the bouncer banging on the wall or poking his head in. I think domestic beers are 6 but it has been a few months and im not sure.
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5 years ago
You left out some key information, you were rejected twice. I think you knew what our advice would be if you had included that in the OP. You already know the answer but if you want to try one more time, decide what you want, tell her clearly. if she says no, walk away and take a break from this club.
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5 years ago
"I have in fact asked her out twice" I may have missed that in your previous posts. if you were clear about asking her out, then she would have accepted if she was interested.
She would not say I have to take my daughter to the dentist, it would be I have to take my daughter to the dentist, but I can do Thursday after 6.
Were you clear about what you want, what you are willing to play if P2P and are you willing to go sometime other than the afternoon?
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5 years ago
recap
the choice is between
a once in a lifetime opportunity that also let's you visit a fun city, see old friends and make them jealous, enjoy a wide variety of pleasures, catch a football game and and create unique memories for her and yourself.
or
do something you have done several times already and will do again several times.
There are risks. All the best adventures have risk. From what you've posted I think it is safe to assume the worst that happens is the two of you get on each others' nerves after a day or two. By then you'll have already had a good time. You go your way, she goes her way for the remainder of the trip. You will have some great stories and you will know the two of you can't do more than an over night. The best that happens is you have a weekend that you talk about for years to come.
if that isn't enough to convince, you consider us. Which of these options leads to better follow up posts for us to read? Your TJ visit will read like every other TJ visit. the Houston trip may be uneventful but it has the potential for amazing stories.
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5 years ago
" ...her English was SO limited for so long that absent using a English/Portuguese translation app, I don't know how I could have made my feelings known."
one of my most successful arraignments was with a Brazilian woman with limited English. Flip phones were the latest and greatest tech so no translation apps.
She found an ad for a night club and another for a restaurant in Newark and showed them to me and wrote Saturday 6 oclock and her address.
I took her to dinner, dancing, shows and then her place, my place or a convenient notel. Those were some great times in the Ironbound section of Newark.
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5 years ago
More reasons to pick Houston.
You owe it to her future self. In ten or twenty years she will be going from store to store of the galleria dragging her kids along. She will go to the ladies room and think, that's the stall Warrior bent me over in.
your friends won't be impressed by you going to TJ. They will be if you show up to the party with her.
if she does move there and you go back to see friends, you have her there as well.
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5 years ago
TJ will always be there for you. That 22 year old won't.
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5 years ago
"PUAs who need to sell erudite-sounding theories to the complete morons who buy into their theories on women"
I thought it was a parody the first time I read some PUA nonsense.
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5 years ago
As has already been mentioned, you are already in the friend zone. If she wanted more, she would have told you by now or dropped hints and given up because you haven't responded to those hints.
The best advice I ever received about picking up women was "grow a set and ask her" .
I don't know why the friend zone is dreaded by so many men. Women make good friends. Most people could use another friend or two. Friends often help friends get laid.
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5 years ago
subraman, fair enough. I think we both mean the same thing but we are quibbling over how we say it.
Is this one of those things we are expected to insult each other and create some troll accounts to attack each other ?
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5 years ago
there is no manufactured excuse. From his posts I assume he is open to more P2P sessions.
telling her he is happy to help but that he will not advance her money for sessions that will (probably not) happen in the future, in my opinion, is not passive aggressive. It sets a clear boundary. It is a P2P relationship and he is not stupid.
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5 years ago
She is testing you. Tell her you are happy to help her but you think advancing her money will confuse the situation.
Look for some other things to do in her area and make a weekend of it. A three hour drive for some good sex and a weekend away isn't bad.
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5 years ago
If I had to judge only from photos, I would get dances with you.
Most of us don't judge just on looks. We want to see the dancer move. Some of us want some interaction before we decide.
If you ever make it out to NJ I will do my best to get to the club, have a few dances and give you my honest opinion.
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5 years ago
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AtAboyStill learning to proofread
I've known guys my entire life that don't care for them. Most but not all are into watching porn. I don't understand it but I think I can count on one hand the things I do understand.
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5 years ago
Pork roll is called pork roll. If some one lies to you and calls it taylor ham, ask them to point to that on the package. It says pork roll. Only buy taylor brand pork roll. The grease requires a hard roll. The salt and grease will take a week or two off your life but it is worth it
I will forgive the yuengling but next time try some kane or carton.
If you are a fan of the Boss, head to asbury park for a day. You can hit up centerfolds at night or jump off the parkway at exit 117 and enjoy the corridor of iniquity. Sinsations, DD hazlet, fantasies, GGR, black bettys, XXXV and visions with red zebra, bourbon st and 516 not far away.
A trip to newark for rodizo is worth it but skip the go go bars in newark. Head to elizabeth, linden or rahway.
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5 years ago
You went to freehold? Damn. Literally around the corner from me.
Were did you have that pork chop? Next time get a pork roll egg and cheese sandwich for breakfast.
Yuengling is from PA. I can recomend many fine NJ beers.
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5 years ago
Making this a separate post to keep our thoughts straight.
Did you get to do anything besides hit the strip clubs?
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5 years ago
You could go for a sure thing, DD Manville, ShowPlace in Dover. I think that would be 30 to 40 minutes north of you. Or you can try to build a relationship for next time.
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5 years ago
In general I offer an opportunity to earn it. I'll commit to a few extra lap dances or meet up for some private fun.
It is rare I front the money. You can hand her a thousand dollars in a gold trimmed purse with a marching band behind you and an hour later some dancers will swear you never gave her a penny and you still owe her a thousand dollars.
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5 years ago
"Def slutty brazilians at rest a bit " - I love slutty Brazilians but I cannot get comfortable at RIB.
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5 years ago
I only share that info with established contributing members.
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5 years ago
Would any sane man dfk a RIB dancer?
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5 years ago
I hope you are enjoying our fine state.