Comments by alexsa (page 2)

I was in an upstairs room with a dancer in a Puerto Rico club that had such rooms, with PAPER THIN walls, when a gun went off in the adjacent room. Unsurprisingly that's the fastest I've ever gotten dressed in my life (after stuffing my heart back into my chest) and out the door. I was convinced a dozen police cars were going to show up and have everyone arrested. Since then being patted down has never been an issue for me, though it happens rarely. At all my local clubs, everyone has to show ID which I am totally OK with.

There are a couple of fairly stereotypical looking lesbians that frequent my local club. I find their presence oddly comforting but not at all erotic. Alot of the dancers don't know how to take them either. As for the wives and girlfriends, I certainly wish mine did, but I also agree with Shadowcat, it's so commonplace I wonder why it gets so many shrieks and hollers still.

And to fully answer Wondergrl's question 1k has never bought any extras but then again I've never actually asked.

Obviously I spend because I'm a horny guy, but definately overspending is alcohol induced, as the girls look better and better and it becomes easier to suspend disbelief. Personally I think those arseholes who won't allow full nudity and alcohol in the same club really DO know what the're doing. Since I go alone to clubs only about ten times a year I'll drop 500 to 1k and have a great time ( and am probably dubbed a PL by the dancers) until I wonder why I bothered in the morning. With friends I'll spend very little... it's just a bar with eye candy.

It's definately both social and sex. I'm not lonely but do miss the flirting part of dating. I'm too am totally addicted in that I feel driven to go when the few oppurtunities arise (that are above suspicion). I'm married to someone who I think is as perfect for me as I could get, but I wish she liked watching porn and going to strip clubs and was Ok with me doing the same. On the other hand the forbidden nature of going to a club is part of the appeal so maybe I should be careful what I wish for. What I am sure of is that the "denial" nature of a strip club is an essential part of the appeal. Always wanting more of the girl than I can have is the buzz. Knowing that some of you lucky b*****ds have had encounters OTC only enhances that buzz by giving me a glimmer of hope. (And encoraging me to empty my wallet)But if it became commonplace to have sex available at SC's it just wouldn't work as it didn't for me in PR at just such a place.

Ooops..Only just found the glossary...thanks Shadowcat

Can't personally help you, but there are tons of details reviews on theeroticreview.com which is more suited to this question. Also try Deena Duos and Sophia Staks. Most (not all) reviews on all of these ladies are very good. YMMV

Whilst we're at it ROB anyone? I know it's not a good thing, that's all.

Thank you wondergrl. Too many posters (not all of course) seem to claim they speak for every guy. Personally I love enhancements and no it's not because I've never seen any up really close or felt them. I'll always seek out girls who had them done and sadly for me there aren't enough at my local club. I'm glad everyone has different opinions...long live variety.

bmwman69...thank goodness I'm not alone. Sometimes even $10 tips at the rail doesn't work. Perhaps it's low expectations at my local clubs (WV panhandle), they seem happy just getting by, plus there's no grinding or touching for lapdances so fewer customers bother. Anybody ever ask a dancer how they can do better in a club as a customer? Problem is one of the delights of a strip club is having pretty girls come up to me. I never even considered "fear of rejection" being a factor.

$36 with no touching compared to significant roaming at nearby clubs

Yup..good review. I don't think you got all that lucky with your one dancer. This is pretty close to my usual experience.

I think you must be lucky or have serious game to be getting all that for 20. Even at 40 I find it variable from hands on everywhere but the girl repeatedly pulled away to "change positions", from a Brit milf, to full DATY and DATO from a pretty Romanian...fun times.

YMMV is the rule here, but you were incredibly unlucky with your choices.

Spot on. Despite this review I still went and had exactly the same experience.

Excellent. No mindless repletion of what everyone else has said and a couple of useful tips that I hope to make use of in my up coming trip...thanks

Rejection happens evertwhere even at SCs

useful tips