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4 months ago
In parts of the country where Cuban dancers are in bigger numbers, they have a recognizable playbook where they promise a lot, are not subtle about it, and most of the time deliver on what they said (or the phone said lol). They drive a hard bargain, but can also be bargained with.
Just be aware that haggling over Google translate can take more effort than you're looking for and provide comedy in unexpected ways. I'm not the biggest fan of their tactics but also get they're trying to make a living with limited options. I'd imagine my whole approach to clubbing would be different if my early days of ITC-only with less cash had a bunch of hot n' horny Cubans (who let's be honest are often among the hottest girls on the floor) in the mix.
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4 months ago
YOLO...but yes. Everyone on the planet is a work in progress.
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4 months ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Thanks, shadowcat. There's a pretty hot selection of Cubans in my local clubs so if I'm nearby I'd check it out.
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4 months ago
"Any insight is appreciated!"
Don't blow your money at home. Or even near home if you don't travel that much. That local tail isn't going anywhere and you can get it anytime. Daytona Beach wasn't that great when I tried those clubs, but all you need is one girl who does what you like to win. People on the boards have been saying Jacksonville clubs took a hit but again all it takes is one. If it were me, with that budget it's Tampa or Cocoa Beach ftw.
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4 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
"you should never go to the SC when you're in a bad mood."
I'd tweak that a bit to say don't go if you're going to stay in a bad mood. Probably 80% of the experience you get out of a dancer you've just met is determined by your energy not hers. If I can tell I'm probably not going to care enough to put my game face on when it matters then I won't go.
To me it's not a matter of getting horned up. The right girl will solve that instantly. It's about whether I'll be motivated enough to get a dancer who doesn't know me and doesn't have to bring her A game to decides it's worth her time if I spend on her.
Obviously if she's the type who'd jump a tree then just have a pulse and a dollar and you're fine, but we're not talking about them lol.
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4 months ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
So how close is Vivide to the old Follies? I know this has been talked about already but since that set up has been there a while I was thinking about checking it out. Is Vivide just the best bet there is in town or is it a destination club like Follies used to be?
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4 months ago
"how do you make your trips to the strip club more enjoyable?"
To converse energy introverts could make dancers approach instead of going up to them. They could have two or three go to questions that seem to get dancers really talking so they could mostly just listen. They could pick one or two dancers who are their favorites for that visit and focus solely on getting time with them, including telling other dancers they're waiting on them. When buying a drink they could discreetly ask if there are dancers in the back matching a certain description. That might get the girls you'd like out faster. Stuff like that.
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4 months ago
"I forced myself to learn some extrovert behaviours years ago."
I'm kinda like the opposite. It's actually really easy for me to be around people and talk but I've learned to be more reserved over time. Life is easier that way and I'm lazy lol.
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4 months ago
"So just dont mention me in posts and you wont get a response, that simple."
I don't care if you respond. Don't try so hard in your posts and it won't get noticed.
"guys like me will always find a way to win and get what we want."
Guys like you show up and pose like you've been here for years and the board knows that you haven't. Your first thread went down in flames and then you got quiet for a month. When you decided to come back with half a dozen posts you tried to slide in like people wouldn't notice. It was noticed and your post about Asian, Black, White, and Latina dancers sounded like a kid who's possibly never even seen a woman up close much less touched one.
I wasn't trying to pick a fight with you but I was trying you get your attention. Game recognizes game. Welcome to TUSCL but please work on yours. Some of the noobs and converted lurkers show up on the boards beyond help and just get ignored outright. You didn't. Have fun and stop trying to impress people who aren't here for that.
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4 months ago
"You probably go with a $100 bill and ask for $1's so you can look like a baller on a $100."
That's just silly. I stopped replying to your posts on other threads when it seemed like you might actually be a child. Eventually people who want to be useful here on TUSCL find a way. Or you can just post generic stuff you maybe cribbed from other posts and try to pick fights with people who don't care enough to argue with you.
If you're old enough to actually go to a club then have fun.
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4 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
So when I read these posts here, I usually voice them as if somebody was at a table with me watching T&A or talking shit at the bar. If I was ever in a strip club and some dude rolled up saying do what my heart tells me that'd be an interesting, awkward silence.
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4 months ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
Hi ReadyToMonger. If you see a thread on TUSCL with a club at the top it's specific to that club. You might be able to skip the line with a $20 tip if it's an in demand dancer, but don't be shocked if they take your money here and still do their dances with whoever they feel like. You gave some decent generic advice, but if Baby Dolls is busy at all you might not even get scraps unless you're prepared to wait a while for the dancer who saw you tip another dancer.
I didn't think Baby Dolls in Dallas was overrated because I could see it delivering on its hype, but the part of the club where I could find what I wanted without having to do a room was cramped and awkward. Dallas has a lot of clubs so unless you just want to burn through cash at the obvious spots I'd shop around.
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4 months ago
Is this the same ReadyToMonger who showed up a month ago confused because he couldn't get dancers to meet up OTC after starting his offers at 2K+?
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4 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
"What's your method? Lose the opportunity and simply don't go? Or drive up your desire to go in some manner? What is the technique to your manner?"
I don't go if I don't feel like it, unless I've agreed to meet someone. Almost anything I can do in a strip club is something I've already done before so taking a night off is just taking a night off.
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4 months ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
Jascoi... who's Jacob? Lol
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4 months ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
I also didn't notice that Jacob posted it way back when. That's probably why it didn't get trolled. Baby Dolls has a weird and annoying set up with all the stages, but I've had fun there.
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4 months ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
For those who don't know this, that club has a ton of stages. Whoever is reading this, don't spend a ton of time following a dancer from stage to stage, especially if you're only tipping a dollar. Plus the popular girls there will already have a line so you're following her around just to be stuck behind other dudes anyway. Catch her on the back half of her stages and find out if she's got a wait.
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4 months ago
"greedy etc or i just lose interest"
The main reason I stop seeing a girl is she doesn't improve on something that's a problem (like not knowing how to give head properly) or keeps bugging me to see her because she needs money.
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4 months ago
I see them once in a while. A lot of the time after they start showing I see them convert to waitresses or door girls. Sometimes bartenders. If they stay on as dancers it's unusual but I've seen that too. There's only one very pregnant dancer I've seen who I almost did a VIP with. It was on the Block in Baltimore and by the time I realized she was pregnant I'd already taken in all the reasons she got knocked up in the first place. If I were further into my mongering run I'd have probably taken that plunge but hadn't reached my final form yet lol.
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4 months ago
"This simple observation has been accurate with nearly 100% of the dancers, in that if she on a deeper level hates men, her performance will be bad and it’s only a matter of time until she goes at you."
My ATF was like this, except for she doesn't know how to have bad sex so we worked things out over the years. Even when she came at me I could tell she was conflicted about it, but things could get rough when money was tight for her. I'm not saying this what DT said is wrong, but if for whatever reason the biggest ROB you know also has ATF potential then maybe it's worth figuring out that puzzle lol. YMWV.
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4 months ago
"Those COVID years when the clubs were closed bumped up those numbers a bit."
Yup. Doubtful I'll ever get anywhere near the counts I have with the COVID lineup again after they're finally gone. There's only a couple still hanging around from those days I still see, but they're also the favorites who've managed to stay that way.
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4 months ago
Ever? Yes. Lately? No.
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4 months ago
I think it's fine that some reviewers write a lot of details about the dancers, but I don't feel obligated to do it. Mostly it's because I've seen enough dancers negatively impacted by getting their name dropped and I'd rather not have people think a dancer puts out just because I said something about her.
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4 months ago
Triple digits. No stories, but that's the answer.
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4 months ago
"Write this down and bring it with you to make sure you read it word for word."
I might do that just for the entertainment value. Maybe that'll be the third time I'm ever bounced from a strip club lol.