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17 years ago
road head is the only applicable term i've ever used
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17 years ago
like i said, grow up and live a little. or better yet, try to find a sense of humor in that morally superior mind of yours.
it's unfortunate she had her top stolen, but by no means is it a necessity (or as you said, "tools") or are her earnings as a stripper contingent upon it.
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17 years ago
good lord some people are uptight around here.
the last time i checked, and i might be in the minority here..but i could honestly care less what she's wearing while on stage or while dancing in front of me. i'm paying for her to take her clothes off, not to admire the outfit she's wearing.
you sound as if your surprised such a theft would take place in a strip club. we aren't exactly talking about a bunch of girls in seminary here...
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17 years ago
serves her right for spending that much on an outfit :-)
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17 years ago
i highly doubt your reviews bring any more traffic to "your" club than normal. in fact, i would say that no more than 1-2% of total club patrons have even heard of this site, yet alone frequent it.
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19 years ago
this ones long, but its what im currently going through dating a dancer. sorry for the typos and grammatical mistakes. this little window im typing in makes it hard to proofread
I've been dating my current GF for just over a year and she still dances. i didnt technically meet her in the club she dances at since we were introduced by mutual friends who thought we'd be a good fit, but i did meet her in there. I've dated my fair share of dancers in the past but I've prevented myself from getting close enough to get attached simply because I knew there would be issues down the road with her profession. However, this one got by and it's not easy. I think every guy wants to date or bang a stripper, but NO ONE wants to fall in love with them.
I trust my GF 110% and im ok with certain aspects of her job, even though i knew what she did before i got involved. The thing that i dont trust are us, other average joe guys!! I could never understand why a guy would simply want to go back into a VIP and chat for a pricetag of $300 for 1/2 hour. When we first started dating, she told me of one VIP nightmare that was kicked out because he grabbed her chest. This didn't really hit close to home since our relationship was soo new, but i still think about that alot and id flip out if it happened again. Guys have expectations, and while having a nice conversation might be one of them, they surely dont stop there. Ive been in strip clubs and i know what and what not to expect. Insecure, i dont think so in the least--just more worried about the woman im madly in love with.
After being together for 9 months or so, i couldnt take it anymore and tried calling it off and told her I could not deal on a deaily basis with what she did. I knew that i couldnt last much longer with her dancing nude and doing VIPS, and the fact that she wanted to continue for another 4 years while she pursued her doctorate was impossible to swallow. So, she agreed to stop and found a job elsewhere cocktailing. We sold her car (and i have been helping her with bills) but ends just cant meet that quickly. So we agreed on a few things. Her dancing nude wasnt ever really a problem for me, but the VIPS were. So she agreed not to do those and still comes out making a decent wad of cash every night from the stage. Fortunately, the club she works at is air dance central, so i know nothing else goes on there. And finally, I know most of the security staff and managers so i have a pretty good check on her...they know the situation and she even told them that she would never do a VIP again.
Do we have a healthy relationship?? for the most part yes, she realizes that she can still make good money while allowing me to keep my sanctity at home when shes at work. does she resent me for the changes in her lifestyle?? no, and i often ask her. if she did, she wouldnt have made the changes and kept me around. Do i feel like a piece of shit for making her do them?? of course, and im not proud of it. can i help it?? no, absolutely not. I knew going in thats what she did and shouldnt have pursued it knowing that id be bothered by it. however, to both of us it seems that the decisions we've made have been worth it. would i do it again?? with her, yes...but if this relationship fails and i sincerely hope it doesnt, i wont ever date another dancer.
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19 years ago
Flashers Atlanta- 1995
I was still in high school and thought i was in heaven
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19 years ago
my first time to the cheetah in atlanta back in 2000.
she wasn't even a dancer (or at least on this night) and was working a beer tub as you walked in the main show room. she had shoulder length blonde hair, a great smile and eyes, and a body to die for in a bikini bottom and top. she is the only woman to this day that i have i have looked at and lost all train of thought. from the looks of the crowd around her tub, she probably walked home with more money than any other girl there.
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19 years ago
shadow..
not sure what time you were in the cheetah on halloween, but i thought a few of the girls pulled off the football players quite well. my FAV there was vick and several others were disguised as other players. its rather unoriginal, but sexy none the less.
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19 years ago
shadow: i hadn't read your review upon my inital post, so i didn't know.
i recently visited oasis for the first time and thoroughly enjoyed it--a great change from the pony and the cheetah. my ATF works at the pony which i dont frequent anymore, and i occasionally pop in the cheetah to see a few friends (who i knew before they became dancers). I've yet to venture to the goldrush or crazy horse, so they're next on my list.
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19 years ago
i dont really decipher between the two terms differently. i generally classify and categorize strippers and dancers as either being dirty or not dirty.
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19 years ago
Tiffany: the curiosity has me guessing as well as to where it was. my money would be on oasis
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19 years ago
how was your date?? my curiosity is gettin the better of me as to who you were with since i know many of the girls there!
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19 years ago
yeah, with the PP girl. I've got two ex gf's that work at both respective clubs. id laugh my ass off if it was one of them!
drop me an email
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18 years ago
t-bone, you know my answer to this one since i live vicariously through your stories...!!
casual dating OTC, sure...
girlfriend/relationship level...never again!
im with T-bone on this one. the fantasy isnt what draws me in, its the strippers. i could care less what she tells me or how she dances unless i actually believe i have a chance at getting it.
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18 years ago
my money is that she's preparing her routine for a local figure competition at a bodybuilding show. females who compete can either do bodybuilding or figure, and my guess is she's doing the latter