In through the Out door

No thanks. You have to draw the line some where. No shit on my drip stick. I was discussing anal sex with a favorite dancer of mine. She said that her ex husband tried to talk her into it once. She told him to go out in the back yard, find a stick the same size as his dick, shove it up his own ass and then let her know how it feels. He lost the argument.

Yeah, I agree with shadowcat. Perhaps I'm just too conservative, but anal sex doesn't in any form seem appealing. Who knows it I tried it, then I might like it.

FS ITC is risky enough, considering the numbers of partners she's had. Adding the booty is like adding three more bullets in Russian roulette. I'd only do that with someone I'd known for a while. I did try it with my second lover, decades ago. We did it a couple of times, then went back to the regular way.

Good points, all. Especially Dudester, "I'd only do that with someone I'd known for a while." As mentioned, this activity surprised me, and she initiated it. I have known her quite awhile, and we've been out together and spent the night together before. All of that was personal rather than business, but we went back to being in-the-club only. Who knows if that will change back to the other arrangement? Meanwhile, I still will not seek out the activity in question, but it was memorable for its uniqueness.

Along the way, I have encountered a few dancers who enjoyed a spit-laden finger in the bung. Had one who very carefully explained to me that I could switch from front to back, but not the other way around. Another who got all washed up, and enjoyed some licking back there. Yet another who didn't wash up and you could smell back there from up here. Burned-down club in ESL (that'll leave ya wondering)had a dancer who charged $10 extra to do it that way... I have never run across a girl who really "had to have it" though. For most, I suspect, it's just experimental/curious fun.

I've never been offered or heard about any Greek on the extras menu at a strip club although I have observed some anal rimming on one occasion in a strip club (and no I'm not a voyeur, it was one of the Detroit area clubs with a very small, public "VIP" area). I agree with the concerns about STDs, especially with anal, but if a dancer offered, I'd be tempted but only with a condom and a place for clean up.

That is one thing I've wondered about. Some girls, you see them nude and you can just tell they had it in the ass recently. At my favorite club in Iowa, supposedly it was on the menu for a couple of the girls, at least before they had their legal trouble. I know one of my favorites there enjoys it, because once, we were watching the porn they had on the TV and I asked if she ever did anal, and she made a long, detailed response that effectively meant "Of course, I do anal", but I doubt she would have ever actually done it in the club.

On the flip side, anyone else had a dancer use her finger on you?

yup. was with a girl in cr who said " i have no limits", i decided to test that theory and ask for a greek lesson. she gave me a surprised look, but accomodated. 1/2 was up and she was out of there like a bat out of hell

So you're really drunk and anal is offered. You don't have a condom, but decide "What the hell?" Much later, you and/or your girlfriend starts losing weight, rapidly, and developing skin blotches. WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING?

Then there was the Detroit dancer who told me that she was a virgin because she was saving anal for marriage.

hmmm, if I told a dancer that I was an anal virgin, would she start thinking I wanted to do her that way? I remember I approached one girl sexually in the dark from the rear and must have been in the wrong spot to start with. She didn't hesitant to shout out, WRONG HOLE, WRONG HOLE, NOT THERE! I heard one girl had anal sex the first time she had sex. She said it felt good while it lasted than she hurt all night long afterwards. That position must require a lot of lube. I think you can get a hint that a girl doesn't want anal if she says something like "you're dick is so big, I was afraid you were going to rip my pussy up!" Even though I don't feel like I'm missing anything.

I used to go to a club who's surrounding neighborhood was made up of a particular ethnic group. I was told that the men of this group loved anal but the women didn't go for it so much so they would ask the dancers for anal all the time. One of the dancers got so tired of being asked that she got a tattoo above her ass that said in their native language, "Exit Only".

I still can't understand why anyone would want another person's faeces on his own dick OR finger.

Um, life's too short?

Knew a dancer once who was very anal, it was part of her thing.

And, like SuperDude, I also once heard a dancer say she was saving her virgin ass for her eventual husband. Another dancer I know brags about doing anal with her boyfriend when it's her time of the month. But I also know dancers who will talk anal all the time but if you talk to them seriously they'll admit it's all marketing--just talking dirty to a potential customer.

I have talked anal with several dancers and the idea seemed to turn them on. Some said they liked it, but to actually do it may be another story. It may just have been for my benefit. Once I was in a VIP with a dancer who put sanitizer on my hands then, without saying anything, put my finger in her ass. I asked her on the way out if she liked taking it in her ass. She said yes and that if I would come back the next night she would have some lube and would take my cock in her ass. Unfortunately, that was my last night in town so I didn't make it back

I'm all for fucking girls in the ass, but a strip club seems like an especially bad place to do it. Anal sex calls for a lot of patience and good lighting which are hard to come by in a club. The kind of furtive sneaking around it takes to get away with stuff would spoil it for me. I also doubt if I'd enjoy it with a girl who's got ass fucking down to such a routine she could take it under those conditions. Thanks but no thanks.