When you encounter a situation where a once high-performing service-provider begins to provide either lower or inconsistent service, how do you react? For context, assume that the service level, even with the reduced experience, is still better than that of others.
1 - Pull funds from her and move onto another provider, in revolt of the complacency likely caused by assuming you will continue to return, as a known regular.
2 - Continue to engage with her, despite the decreased quality of experience, since she is still better than other options. Continue to interact with her in the same manner as in the past, continuing to be kind and considerate.
3 - Discuss your dissatisfaction with her, hoping that she will get the message, and get back on track.
4 - Say nothing, and continue with her, but elevate encounter to treat her like a nasty c dumpster.
I've wanted to (and did, for awhile) step away, but find myself regretting it, as when I've diverted to others, I've compared her to the recent favorite.
Who is really being punished by stepping away from the high-quality encounters? Sure, she loses money (but only from ME, an there will be other guys lining up to replace that lost money).
Calling her out seems like a bad idea.
You are really overthinking this. Just try someone else. If she wants to keep you as a client, she will work harder. If she doesn’t, it was time to move on.