Most you've spent at a strip club in one night? Let's go!

When I look back I feel more like a fucking loser more than anything :-) I once spent $5k with this girl at an NYC club, 3 semi-VIP followed by one full-VIP. I now see her for a fraction of that. Sometimes we all do stupid shit. Never bring credit card to a SC again.

A lot. Ive spent 5k making it rain on some girls bdays. Bought a pinata and put 2k in ones in it and had a caterer come with a taco bar.
Theres a club I got 86d from. I still get the Friday night shift girls food as a fuck you to the club. Im a legend there.
The most I ever spent was 12k on someone specials bday. Made it rain plus food and a new stripper outfit for everyone.
The most I ever spent just as a customer on dances and stuff is like 2k.
I used to spend like $500 on average. But girls are so used to less money I spend like $200 on average now. Pretty much on drinks. As a customer like $300.

Dont be cheap or stingy. When you give the universe comes back and gives you

Icey if your story is correct, theres just no way you can be blowing amounts like 5k and 12k without having earned it through illegal means

You also speak out very strongly against p4p, extras… im sorry but if you tip 5k.. of course you won’t need to pay for anything else lol

my soul

@OP
Well at least it was in Canadian money, not real money 🤣

I’ve done $800 in a weekend, but I don’t really don’t like exceeding $300 in a single visit. You high rollers are making me feel WAY less guilty about my $800 😂

$300 gets you pretty much nothing in metro NY/NJ.

I can have a great night in Vegas with $300.

@Icey

Everything Icey said is either something I 100% agree with and I'm also smiling at how cute the pinata thing is you did, brother. :')

either something I 100% agree with OR something I vibe with***

Oops, my train of thoughts caused a blip in my final comment output.

@McClane $20 lappers at Rick’s. With the right girl, I’ve had a good time for less than $200. Hell, even $100 depending on her grind.

Probably around $400 all in.

Ive spent $1000 in a night before, when i was new to clubs and dumber, but even then it wasnt on a single overpriced vip room…

Blowing thousands on stage tips, is far too wasteful, especially if its for one person

@McClane if your willing to see latinas, theres definitely some willing to do everything for $200+ out there

I've had a day of almost continuous full contact floor dances, drinking myself silly, and extras for under $1,000.
All in the right spot. Sundowners and Seductions in Niagara back in the day, Vivide or Platinum and Blaze more recently.

Ive never seen giving a girl the best night shell have at work for a really long time a waste.

Hotgirlsplz thanks

$2,000 in one night. I held court that night. I try to keep it under four digits most of the time.

@rickymacrodong

LOL, can we stay on topic? <3

@Icey, we should honestly be best friends!!! ;)

@sinclair too lol

@everyone, to everyone jumping in now about finding cheap dances or not needing to drop hundreds or thousands of dollars - sorry but to clarify, that’s not what my original post was about. I fully understand you can have a good time for $100 or less, hell, I literally wrote an article on that, and it’s in the comments of my Part 2 article.

Here’s the point:
My thread was about the psychology behind spending big, the mindset, and the lessons learned and it is NOT (I mean this in the gentlest way over an online strip club review website/forum) about hunting for bargains or “winning” by being the most frugal guy in the room at the strip club.

If you want tips on how to maximize $100 or even $80, check my write-up below.

AND ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION! Please kindly keep your salty commentary to yourself if possible haha, that is not the point of this thread but I guess it's a free country so you do you.

🧨 Part 1: How I Played Around With $100 Last Night and Emotional Discipline, FINALLY!!!!!!!

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Look.
You don’t need to blow $1,000 to make an impact.
You just need self-control, timing, and maybe some Helly work boots (also makes sure yours don't smell like your worksite's sewer) that says “I could stomp an asshole with the bouncers if they needed backup.”

I hit a new city for 2 business days so far...
4 double Jamesons deep last night...
$100 in fivers... (the blue one, for all you Americans on here lol)

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Step 1: Arrive Early. Not Eager.

I walked in around opening.
Scoped the room before the “Group Effect” kicked in (you know the one hahahaha, seriously, the Group Effect occurs when 6 average-looking dancers morph into one clusterfucking confusing 8/10 maybe-baddie).

Didn’t rush. Didn’t react.
Just watched on the sidelines as per usual.
With headphones in if the music is shit and a double J-Mo and tall glass of water in both hands.

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Step 2: Be Seen. Not Loud.

I tipped the bartender light to start and the front of house staff - nothing crazy like I used to lol god damn I hate posturing. Joked with the bartender and front of house staff. Clocked the staff and how their vibes felt.
Didn’t roll coins. Never, ever do. LOL, it's funny when I tell BC people in the strip club industry I'm in/from Alberta now technically so they're like "NO COINS, ABSOLUTELY NO COINS". Anyways, I nodded and moved on. Didn’t cause chaos.
Just made sure they knew:

“I’m not new here. I’m not stupid. I’m just sipping and waiting for the show.”

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Step 3: Tip With Power. Not Desperation.

$5 bills. Not $1s.
No thirsty energy. Just a soft toss like I’m feeding koi fish in Kyoto lmao.

Didn’t spray the stack like a frat bro-bot.
Didn’t try to buy affection, you can, sure but it ain't gonna sizzle if she ain't the one tbh.
Just enough to be seen, not owned (HELL NAW, as Young Dolph would say).

If I got bored?
I stopped.
Because my boredom kicking in is great useful data, not a malfunction or an off night and holy hell..... and thank brother of Christ I learned this FINALLY - to check in with my own state of mind.

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Step 4: Emotional Rejection With Dignity

One tatted goth baddie came through. Portland-style.
Face? A poem.
Vibe? A dream.
Tooth? Shiny. Possibly possessed..... probably a cheap molar ugh fuck... boner down.

My little buddy downstairs screamed at me and said nope.
So I dipped respectfully... and my most important thing is GIVING GRACE TO THE DANCER despite my double glance turning into potential double regrets.

“When I see the one, I’ll know.”

Said that in full view of the stripper booth-swarm.
Now they all wanna know who “the one” is.
Legend status: unlocked.

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Step 5: Exit Like a Myth

I had $20 left, wow.
Card declined on purpose (I literally blocked it earlier).
Sipped a final Jameson like it was a funeral for my old simp self lmao RIP to that old self from March 2023.

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TL;DR: This is the "BEGINNER, but come on now, lol it's for the cheap motherfuckers that are tryna be Anti-Simps (trademark this shit lmao, joking)" Way

Don’t go in loud. Go in tuned in.

Watch before acting. Tip with grace and give grace.

Leave if you ain't feeling anyone.

But it's so easy to go in with Part 2 now and fucking be a sniper!!!!!! LMAO