Most you've spent at a strip club in one night? Let's go!

When I look back I feel more like a fucking loser more than anything :-) I once spent $5k with this girl at an NYC club, 3 semi-VIP followed by one full-VIP. I now see her for a fraction of that. Sometimes we all do stupid shit. Never bring credit card to a SC again.

Icey if your story is correct, theres just no way you can be blowing amounts like 5k and 12k without having earned it through illegal means

You also speak out very strongly against p4p, extras… im sorry but if you tip 5k.. of course you won’t need to pay for anything else lol

my soul

@OP Well at least it was in Canadian money, not real money 🤣

I’ve done $800 in a weekend, but I don’t really don’t like exceeding $300 in a single visit. You high rollers are making me feel WAY less guilty about my $800 😂

$300 gets you pretty much nothing in metro NY/NJ.

@Icey

Everything Icey said is either something I 100% agree with and I'm also smiling at how cute the pinata thing is you did, brother. :')

either something I 100% agree with OR something I vibe with***

Oops, my train of thoughts caused a blip in my final comment output.

@McClane $20 lappers at Rick’s. With the right girl, I’ve had a good time for less than $200. Hell, even $100 depending on her grind.

Probably around $400 all in.

Ive spent $1000 in a night before, when i was new to clubs and dumber, but even then it wasnt on a single overpriced vip room…

Blowing thousands on stage tips, is far too wasteful, especially if its for one person

@McClane if your willing to see latinas, theres definitely some willing to do everything for $200+ out there

$2,000 in one night. I held court that night. I try to keep it under four digits most of the time.

@rickymacrodong

LOL, can we stay on topic? <3

@Icey, we should honestly be best friends!!! ;)

@sinclair too lol

@everyone, to everyone jumping in now about finding cheap dances or not needing to drop hundreds or thousands of dollars - sorry but to clarify, that’s not what my original post was about. I fully understand you can have a good time for $100 or less, hell, I literally wrote an article on that, and it’s in the comments of my Part 2 article.

Here’s the point: My thread was about the psychology behind spending big, the mindset, and the lessons learned and it is NOT (I mean this in the gentlest way over an online strip club review website/forum) about hunting for bargains or “winning” by being the most frugal guy in the room at the strip club.

If you want tips on how to maximize $100 or even $80, check my write-up below.

AND ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION! Please kindly keep your salty commentary to yourself if possible haha, that is not the point of this thread but I guess it's a free country so you do you.

🧨 Part 1: How I Played Around With $100 Last Night and Emotional Discipline, FINALLY!!!!!!!

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Look. You don’t need to blow $1,000 to make an impact. You just need self-control, timing, and maybe some Helly work boots (also makes sure yours don't smell like your worksite's sewer) that says “I could stomp an asshole with the bouncers if they needed backup.”

I hit a new city for 2 business days so far... 4 double Jamesons deep last night... $100 in fivers... (the blue one, for all you Americans on here lol)

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Step 1: Arrive Early. Not Eager.

I walked in around opening. Scoped the room before the “Group Effect” kicked in (you know the one hahahaha, seriously, the Group Effect occurs when 6 average-looking dancers morph into one clusterfucking confusing 8/10 maybe-baddie).

Didn’t rush. Didn’t react. Just watched on the sidelines as per usual. With headphones in if the music is shit and a double J-Mo and tall glass of water in both hands.

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Step 2: Be Seen. Not Loud.

I tipped the bartender light to start and the front of house staff - nothing crazy like I used to lol god damn I hate posturing. Joked with the bartender and front of house staff. Clocked the staff and how their vibes felt. Didn’t roll coins. Never, ever do. LOL, it's funny when I tell BC people in the strip club industry I'm in/from Alberta now technically so they're like "NO COINS, ABSOLUTELY NO COINS". Anyways, I nodded and moved on. Didn’t cause chaos. Just made sure they knew:

“I’m not new here. I’m not stupid. I’m just sipping and waiting for the show.”

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Step 3: Tip With Power. Not Desperation.

$5 bills. Not $1s. No thirsty energy. Just a soft toss like I’m feeding koi fish in Kyoto lmao.

Didn’t spray the stack like a frat bro-bot. Didn’t try to buy affection, you can, sure but it ain't gonna sizzle if she ain't the one tbh. Just enough to be seen, not owned (HELL NAW, as Young Dolph would say).

If I got bored? I stopped. Because my boredom kicking in is great useful data, not a malfunction or an off night and holy hell..... and thank brother of Christ I learned this FINALLY - to check in with my own state of mind.

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Step 4: Emotional Rejection With Dignity

One tatted goth baddie came through. Portland-style. Face? A poem. Vibe? A dream. Tooth? Shiny. Possibly possessed..... probably a cheap molar ugh fuck... boner down.

My little buddy downstairs screamed at me and said nope. So I dipped respectfully... and my most important thing is GIVING GRACE TO THE DANCER despite my double glance turning into potential double regrets.

“When I see the one, I’ll know.”

Said that in full view of the stripper booth-swarm. Now they all wanna know who “the one” is. Legend status: unlocked.

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Step 5: Exit Like a Myth

I had $20 left, wow. Card declined on purpose (I literally blocked it earlier). Sipped a final Jameson like it was a funeral for my old simp self lmao RIP to that old self from March 2023.

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TL;DR: This is the "BEGINNER, but come on now, lol it's for the cheap motherfuckers that are tryna be Anti-Simps (trademark this shit lmao, joking)" Way

Don’t go in loud. Go in tuned in.

Watch before acting. Tip with grace and give grace.

Leave if you ain't feeling anyone.

But it's so easy to go in with Part 2 now and fucking be a sniper!!!!!! LMAO

hotgirlsplz,

The mindset and psychology behind spending big. The first thing is what are you actually spending big on. Is it stage tips, dances for yourself, buying dances for other guys, drinks just for yourself, drinks for dancers or other people, etc.

When I spent big it was simply longer VIP dances with several different dancers. It was basically a purely selfish endeavor.

If your getting into the psychology of other scenarios… a lot of it could be based around wanting to impress someone.

If youre paying $900 for a VIP with a dancer.. even if extras are included.. part of that might be wanting to impress the dancer and flex your spending ability.

A lot of music videos nowadays have someone making it rain. So that too is based on flexing, impressing dancers or other customers at the club.

$1200 ish

About $900. Then I vowed not to get super drunk at clubs ever again

I spend on average $800-1k each visit but I like multiple lap dances by different girls.

Most I’ve spent in one night is $1600. I’ve spent $2500 though at brothels without even thinking.

@Assegai12

Lmao $2500 at brothels sound about right btw.

I remember I almost went to one but then I chickened out last minute because it was like an hour away from the Vegas strip.

Most ever was maybe $800. I may be a sucker, but not a complete idiot. If I was like 90% of TUSCL members, I'd be a millionaire, so 25 grand a night would be peanuts.

I spend about $500/visit between a couple of clubs/girls on lappies. Love spinners.

"Dont be cheap or stingy. When you give the universe comes back and gives you"

@Icey I don't know man...I've given generously, only to have the universe flip me the bird like I just cut it off in traffic... 😂😂

@OP Forgive me if someone has already mentioned this, but since inflation is a real thing, and some of the guys here have been clubbing for a pretty long time, the approximate year of expenditure would also be relevant. Someone spending $1000 at a club in 1990 would be a bit more wild and crazy than someone spending $1000 in more recent times! 😀

No more than 400. I prefer to spend lower amounts frequently. I go in, get a few dances, hang out and come back again when I feel like it.

6-800 I think. First time I ever went into a club was in NOLA and we hit maybe 5 of them

"If I was like 90% of TUSCL members, I'd be a millionaire, so 25 grand a night would be peanuts." I am a millionaire. Technically. If you count the house and the 401(k) and all that. But NFW would I ever spend 25k in one night. 1/40th of my entire wealth? That's got to last me another 30 years. I have spent 1k and been happy, and spent 1k and been "meh", and spent nearly that on a ROB (grrr). Never to show off, just because I was there for hours and that's what dances and booze cost.

I don't think I've gone over 6 in one shot.

@ClubFan81077 absolutely!!! :)

@misterorange "Most ever was maybe $800. I may be a sucker, but not a complete idiot. If I was like 90% of TUSCL members, I'd be a millionaire, so 25 grand a night would be peanuts."

Wait, do you mean if we all only spent $100 per night like 90% of the tuscl members? HAHAHAHA If so, ME TOO, I WISH but I'm trying to stay disciplined these days and ONLY spend up to $500 if it's a new strip club in a new city or else it's just $100 and tossing em $5 bills at the stage since I honestly like the stage (IF it's good of course or else nowadays, Burlesque shows have been impressive - and yes they get naked too lol if you guys are ONLY in for the nakedness and not dance and seduction skills)

I’m a multimillionaire and I only spend around $100/visit, most times less. It’s how I got to be semi wealthy, by not caving into my impulses. One time I did spend $300, and she expected me to spend that every time I came back.

@Mate27 That is true. That's my dad's philosophy. I can't. I will just make it back. I always do lol.

When I started this hobby 20+ years ago I remember $150 could last all night with $2 beers and $10 lap dances in places like Bonita Flats in Kansas.

I don’t recall the most I’ve ever spent. The more relevant number for me is what I typically blow these days which is more like $500-$600. Not a terrible sum until you add up how many times a month you go out

@captainfun I know lol so now I make it a game to spend less than $100 unless it's a new club and there is an actual GIRL OF MY DREAMS lol which these days until I get my passport back... it ain't happening. Lost my passport in the USA :'( so waiting on Canada to fucking re-issue one, my god.

A good time can be had in Phoenix or Tucson for $300. An epic time for $500.

For $2,500, you can get round trip airfare from the east coast, a hotel, two rounds of golf, and two nights clubbing.

"Well at least it was in Canadian money, not real money 🤣"

I can't take this thread seriously now...

If you spent too much on tips you can just take some of the money back

Early 2000’s at the Landing Strip in Mississauga I dropped $800 one night on an Eastern European dancer with no extras. Never took a credit card into a club again!

@wallanon and same lol

@mark94 lmao brother I know

@Eric_Murphy good man lol

back in my crazy days a dozen years ago there were times I spent 6K a night. plus I was going quite often too. usually five or six nights a week. . now I keep it under 1K. and I don't go often anymore.

@Jascoi LMAO good man, I am doing that too. Plus I don't drink alcohol anymore.

That a boy @Jascoi! I've never been a 5 to 6 night a week a guy... although wlmy last trip to South Florida kind of turned into something similar.

I try to keep my limits under 1.5k these days but a couple nights in Florida ran me around 5k, one may have been 8 but I didn't keep track... kinda didnt wanna lol.

Can't say I truly regret it, but definitely wouldn't go all out like that again. It was over 3 clubs in one night so it was kind of an experience I knew I may not have again. My dollar per fun started out great on that night, but as the night and drinks wore on I obviously became a lot looser with the dollars.

@007H YOOOO THIS IS THE TYPE OF CONVO I WANT LOL!

"My dollar per fun started out great on that night, but as the night and drinks wore on I obviously became a lot looser with the dollars."

NO TRUER FUCKIN WORDS, MY MAN @007H