I'm a complete newbie. I want to go to a stirp club and get a lap dance. Where I live touching is off limits, but a few reviews here say you might get lucky. Lets say you hit the jackpot and get offered extras. Is it a trap? What are the odds you get in trouble?
Hard to imagine that it's a trap. I've never heard of cops going undercover as dancers except in bad Skinemax movies. Even if that happened, you're pretty safe if she made the offer (and I mean explicitly, not "we can have more fun" nonsense that you get sometimes) because that would be entrapment.
Now if the club is very restrictive and the bouncers catch you doing extras you'll probably get thrown out of the club. Don't try to fight the 300 lb gorilla when he comes to toss you or you will get in some real trouble.
"What are the odds you get in trouble." Assuming you are talking about itc, the main thing to worry about is STDs. hj and cbj are probably the safest things you can do; any dancer willing to do more has probably done it with a bunch of guys. I'd be very, very cautious about doing anything else; if you do, you should probably get tested afterwards. And I wouldn't consider an offer akin to winning the "jackpot"; like anything else in sex, it can go well or poorly.
In the southeast whenever there's a bust they arrest a few dancers and completely ignore the PLs. In some cases, PLs sit and wait for new dancers to come in afterward 😂
It's a big plus over places like massage parlors where they arrest customers AND employees during a bust. Even the owner of the Patriots got caught up in one of those stings!
In most west coast states, undercover cops usually act/rely on inside tips from jaded dancers or ex dancers. I know a cop who just retired from the force and he mentioned to me that most tips that led to undercover busts and/or arrests in strip clips surprisingly came from jaded dancers or ex employees of the club they were raiding. And yes, they can go after PLs who they suspect are “soliciting”. Although he said most of the cases were eventually dropped.
As for STDs, you have to be careful in any social arena you dabble in. Most sex workers are cleaner than their civilian counterparts because their livelihood depends on being clean. Yes be careful, but the odds of getting a serious STD in a sc are actually quite low in comparison with say taking a girl home from a nightclub. Also, one common myth is that if a girl is providing you with extras, she is with everyone else. This is also false. Most high end dancers who provide extras are actually quite selective with who they do what with. Are you the only guy, no. Does she do the same thing with every single guy, probably not. Do they charge every one commensurately, I’ve been doing this long enough that they absolutely don’t. They’re human beings with their own set of standards and internal biases. Just go there, tip well, and have fun. There’s nothing to be nervous about.
I think this is probably largely regional. We don't know where you live or where you're intending to club.
I think in most places its very unlikely to be a trap. However, in many areas it may be a scam. The likelihood of a dancer suggesting or outright promising extras with zero intent of providing them are exponentially higher than the likelihood of any sort of other issue. Around here in south Florida, that's certainly the case.
I've never personally been caught fucking a stripper in a club, but I've seen a few guys cross lines and get thrown out. From what I could see, there was some embarrassment and discomfort as the bouncers escorted them out of the dance area and club. But I've never seen nor heard of a customer encountering legal trouble over it. Although it is certainly possible the club and/or dancer could initiate contact with the cops, I'd have to guess its in neither of their best interest unless you're sexually assaulting the girl or something. A dancer willingly engaging in more explicit acts than the club management will tolerate is almost certainly going to just result in the customer getting kicked out and maybe banned and the dancer fired or at least sent home for the day or suspended. A sting operation targeting customers seems unlikely too.
@squarecastle "the odds of getting a serious STD in a sc are actually quite low in comparison with say taking a girl home from a nightclub" LOL. Is that based on your survey of strip club patrons and participants in night club hook ups?
I wouldn’t try looking for extras in a non-extras club, or in a jurisdiction where extras are prohibited and enforced. The risk and likelihood of ROB is extremely high.
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Now if the club is very restrictive and the bouncers catch you doing extras you'll probably get thrown out of the club. Don't try to fight the 300 lb gorilla when he comes to toss you or you will get in some real trouble.
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It's a big plus over places like massage parlors where they arrest customers AND employees during a bust. Even the owner of the Patriots got caught up in one of those stings!
As for STDs, you have to be careful in any social arena you dabble in. Most sex workers are cleaner than their civilian counterparts because their livelihood depends on being clean. Yes be careful, but the odds of getting a serious STD in a sc are actually quite low in comparison with say taking a girl home from a nightclub. Also, one common myth is that if a girl is providing you with extras, she is with everyone else. This is also false. Most high end dancers who provide extras are actually quite selective with who they do what with. Are you the only guy, no. Does she do the same thing with every single guy, probably not. Do they charge every one commensurately, I’ve been doing this long enough that they absolutely don’t. They’re human beings with their own set of standards and internal biases. Just go there, tip well, and have fun. There’s nothing to be nervous about.
I think in most places its very unlikely to be a trap. However, in many areas it may be a scam. The likelihood of a dancer suggesting or outright promising extras with zero intent of providing them are exponentially higher than the likelihood of any sort of other issue. Around here in south Florida, that's certainly the case.
I've never personally been caught fucking a stripper in a club, but I've seen a few guys cross lines and get thrown out. From what I could see, there was some embarrassment and discomfort as the bouncers escorted them out of the dance area and club. But I've never seen nor heard of a customer encountering legal trouble over it. Although it is certainly possible the club and/or dancer could initiate contact with the cops, I'd have to guess its in neither of their best interest unless you're sexually assaulting the girl or something. A dancer willingly engaging in more explicit acts than the club management will tolerate is almost certainly going to just result in the customer getting kicked out and maybe banned and the dancer fired or at least sent home for the day or suspended. A sting operation targeting customers seems unlikely too.