Take off your shirt

She was putting you in your place so both
parties understood she was in charge and would be directing the activities during your session. I don’t know, maybe she was into you?

My ATF always claimed to like my "dad bod" and chest hair. She'd run her fingers through it both before and after.

My current SB is much the same way, except she uses my chest for a pillow.

So maybe she just likes it.

Same reason they tell you how handsome you are or how you have the biggest, hardest cock she's ever touched... to separate you from the contents of your wallet.

Don't overthink this. Just say: "ok" and do it.

Many years ago, a dancer asked "if I like skin to skin contact". I said "yes" and she said "take your shirt off". That was the only time.

Sexy - love it - one of my ATF’s would pull up my shirt up so her delicious perfect boobs would be skin-to-skin against my chest, but never fully took off my shirt. I got the impression it was forbidden in the regular back room.

^ She was a solid 9 and talked-the- talk like she was completely turned on by me. She said I had the best bone structure she ever saw, that she endured dancing for all kinds of slobs and she deserved going wild with a sexy guy like me, I was the only guy she danced for that she would kiss (we would DFK like teenagers - so hot!) etc. - a lot of other stuff she knew a narcissist like me wanted to hear. What a pro - I was in total lust. Unfortunately she put on about 30lbs all the sudden on her little frame and I was done with her.

There doesn't have to be any motivation or reason. It's all based on her feelings at the time.

If there is a next time with her, don't be surprised if you keep your shirt on. And she might even be offended if you mention that last time she had asked you to take your shirt off.

you should make it your thing and take your shirt off as soon as you hit the lap dance room

Never been asked to take off my shirt. Pants...yes.

Motivation? Who cares.
Never had my shirt off, but unbuttoned enough to rub those perfect breasts/nipples on me. Hell yes, let's do another dance.
Hmmm. Maybe there's your motivation.

When I was overweight (not obese, just kind of a blob) I was embarrassed to take my shirt off anywhere. Then I set some priorities (like physical/mental health, better sex, and self esteem) and reshaped my body enough to look decent. In a VIP room or a bedroom when sex is on deck, leaving my shirt on would be very strange. Usually she takes it off for me while we're making out. Socks and/or shoes on in VIP though? Always.

I love skin on skin. For that, I hate fishnets. I’ll usually ask a girl to take them off before we do VIP. On the flip side, I love naked chest on chest. Hottest is when she initiates it. Just enjoy it. I’ll often wear a button down to the club. The buttons seem to invite dancers to undress me. Love that.

Some girls think we need to be seduced. We don't.

"Some girls think we need to be seduced. We don't."

Like most everything, there's a time and a place. Most men I talk to dislike lazy bitches who never initiate play or seduction.

Had one tell me to take off my shirt at the get go, and a few unbutton my buttondown. The skin-to-skin contact is a nice little perc so it makes me think more highly of the dancer so, who knows, it may factor unconsciously into their tip, if we haven't already established a soup to nuts price. I would never take the initiative to do it unasked, even with a girl who had done it before.

I've had a lot of dancers want to unbutton my shirt when I wear a button up. Never fully take it off