I think you'll find that, at least with most of the guys here, the stage show isn't very important. Most of us here are much more interested in her looks (both face and body), her personality, and how she treats us.
I agree with FONDL, smiling and making eye contact also go a long way with me. I don't like it when the dancer asks you for a private dance while staring over your head into the mirror behind you. It send the signal that the dance will be very mechanical.
By "easy" are you talking about extras? Obviously, we are looking for easy or we would not be in strip clubs. To me the stage show is nice but the intimacy of a private dance is EXCITING. However, IMO most of us on this site are not JUST looking for someone who is easy but there needs to be an emmotional connection made between client and dancer before making the move to a private area, again IMHO. Once in a private area it can be as exhilerating as a real date when you just don't know how far it will go. Of corse there are some on this board who have ATF's who they see on a regular basis but again I think there is much more to it than just being with someone who is "easy".
The stage show exists only as a way to guage which girls I would want a private dance from later in the evening. I check out the stage for physical appearance, and once I see someone I like I tip on stage. If the response is lackluster, then I suspect a trip to the VIP area would not be worth my time and money. If, on the other hand, the response is warm, then I will look forward to spending time with this particual dancer in the more private parts of the club.
soldierswife: Are you a dancer? I know several dancers that are married to military men. And none of them deliver what I want. Oh they are friendly but are not high mileage and that is what I seek.
I like to watch dancing girls, and by that I mean I came of age in the 1970's when everyone and their brother had a variety show on TV. There was lots of opportunity for dancing girls-and sometimes I watch Dancing with the Stars when hotties like Sabrina Bryan are shaking their moneymakers. That being said,
In the one or two hundred visits I've made to clubs, only once have I seen a girl really shake her thing on stage. Thousands of times I've seen girls just slink around a stage-it's uninteresting. The only thing slightly interesting if there is a physical thing about the girl that interests me (I prefer petite asians).
My perfect club-a parlor downstairs where a real live stage show goes on with real dancing. On the other half of downstairs-small rooms for quickies, and bedrooms upstairs for flat out fucking-with a one hour minimum-massage services included (the girls be crosstrained in massage, pleasing a man, and dancing-real dancing).
I am a ex dancer who prided her self in putting on a hell of a show on stage at one club I had guys come just to watch my routines at another club all the girls were sluts and I didn't do as well. I was curious as to the rationale behind it. I get so sick of seeing 15 girls go on stage and just play with the mirrors and dance to ghetto music anyone can shake a ass to. I would be sure to actually capture my audiences attention.
do you spoze "al guys" is misspelling of "all guys" ?? Hopefully soldierswife will clear this up shortly. It is a burning question and I just can't get it out of my mind.
Some of my favorites at one club aren't even required to dance on stage if they pay a certain fee I believe. If I'm already familiar with them, that won't deter me one bit from getting lap dances from them if I like their lap dances.
I'm not sure what is meant by the term "easy" here. I thought it was easy to get a dance from almost every dancer in a strip club.
I like seeing a good stage show, but in all honesty, its all about the backroom fun. And like others on here already, how they are on stage is usually a good indicator of what they are like in the VIP.
What you said is not true! You stated, "Obviously, we are looking for easy or we would not be in strip clubs." I do not look for them, but that is not to say I would turn them down. Most all my club visits are just to be with some friends, have a couple of beers, while seeing some naked women.
soldierswife,
I knew a lot of military wifes that danced in Key West. There is a Naval Air Station located near Key West. Of them most all were better dancers than the others. I didn't know why, but latter I think I had a idea why. I believe that a military wife has to be a special woman to live that lifestyle and know what could happen to her loved one at almost any time. I also think that being a special woman, they are less likely to be "easy". Just MHO, but I do believe they used dancing as a way to make a lot more money than they ever would in a regular 8-5 job.
I'm with Clubber, I don't look for easy either. I look for friendly, attractive, and intelligent enough to be interesting to talk to. Easy is a turn-off for me.
I think I can count on one hand the number of times I've seen a stripper on stage who drew my attention because of her dancing/stripping skills. Dancing ability is nice but rarely is it good enough to be important.
sw: I'm not an "either or" kind of guy. Both dancer extremes that you presented are turn offs for me. I've seen talented pole dancers that are so into their dancing that they totally ignore stageside patrons, and interaction...TURN OFF!
Yet the other extreme is another 1 trick pony turn-off- IME, those "HJ Specialists" are SOLELY interested in cleaning out your pipes (and wallet) as quickly as possible.
Myself (and IMO a lot of tusclers)prefer and seek high mileage, but also at least like a modicum of social interaction.
Anybody who denies looking for easy as Godfather points out (as opposed to extras) has lost all sense of proportion. Obviously, we would not be in strip clubs if we weren't looking for girls who take their clothes off for strangers and agree to sqirm on their lap for a few bucks.
I guess what I was trying to say that SC's are a place where it is very EASY to view beautiful nude bodies, have them dance before your eyes (or in your lap), and sometimes get a little extra. Unless you are a big time stud it is obviously easier than going to a non SC and picking up a girl that will do those things for you. I suppose I generalized a bit much because I there is a small percentage of clubbers out there who are not there to get an easy peak at beautiful nude bodies (very small percentage). I understand that for many of the girls it is not an easy job nor an easy career choice to make. I would like to thank those who make our lifes better by doing what they do.
Yeah, I guess it never occurred to me either that one or two guys might go to strip clubs *despite* the naked girls. Either that or there are a lot more women than I ever realized in regular life who show their naked body to anyone with a buck.
stage shows are highly overrated. I do like to watch a girl who knows how to move as opposed to one who just walks or stands around. but all the pole gymnastics and fancy choreography is wasted on me. This is why I do not like feature dancers, or high end gentlemen's clubs. Only once in my 25 yrs of SC patronage have I ever been impressed by a true dancer enough to watch her for her dancing as opposed to her boobs.
Several years ago there was a dancer at the Memphis Platinum Plus named Lil Bit. She put on such a good show that you could not even get to the stage to tip her. Later, she was passing by me and I stopped her and complimented her and tipped her. 2 Years ago she came to dance at my favorite club in Columbia SC. She put on a good show but I only saw her one time. I wonder where or what she is doing now?
There is a bartender at a local bar down by me. A few know her as Lil Bit. She is 22 now, but I don't think she has ever danced, nor would she have been of age "several years ago".
Shadowcat, remember once before I told you I spent a couple of hours with the same Lil Bit at Babes in Memphis when I was there back in 1997? Cute, fun girl. Hot lap dancer. I had nearly forgotten that she put on such a great stage show. BTW, I believe Lil Bit is a fairly common nickname for a petite girl in the South. Around that same time, I saw a film where the teenage Reese Witherspoon's character was called that.
Easy or good stage show?
Now hesitation, for me, I go with easy--with stipulations. Being a hobbyist, it's not the stage show that turns me on. It's the flirting and the contact where we're not spposed to have it--that the fun. The stipulations: 1) attitude: most important of all. If the dancer is stuck on herself, too pushy (dance or drinks), wants to talk only about her problems, is too good to be touched, doesn't really like her job to the extent she broadcasts it--I pass her over quickly. 2) great ass--this is my weakness. Great tits are nice, but I think they're all great. But a cute, round ass, now that's something I can grab. 3) good flirt--turn me on you've got my attention and usually my money. Of course, if they get past tthese three hurdles, they have to deliver something, wwhic I supp0ose gets us back to EASY.
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In the one or two hundred visits I've made to clubs, only once have I seen a girl really shake her thing on stage. Thousands of times I've seen girls just slink around a stage-it's uninteresting. The only thing slightly interesting if there is a physical thing about the girl that interests me (I prefer petite asians).
My perfect club-a parlor downstairs where a real live stage show goes on with real dancing. On the other half of downstairs-small rooms for quickies, and bedrooms upstairs for flat out fucking-with a one hour minimum-massage services included (the girls be crosstrained in massage, pleasing a man, and dancing-real dancing).
Who is "al guys"?
I'm not sure what is meant by the term "easy" here. I thought it was easy to get a dance from almost every dancer in a strip club.
What you said is not true! You stated, "Obviously, we are looking for easy or we would not be in strip clubs." I do not look for them, but that is not to say I would turn them down. Most all my club visits are just to be with some friends, have a couple of beers, while seeing some naked women.
soldierswife,
I knew a lot of military wifes that danced in Key West. There is a Naval Air Station located near Key West. Of them most all were better dancers than the others. I didn't know why, but latter I think I had a idea why. I believe that a military wife has to be a special woman to live that lifestyle and know what could happen to her loved one at almost any time. I also think that being a special woman, they are less likely to be "easy". Just MHO, but I do believe they used dancing as a way to make a lot more money than they ever would in a regular 8-5 job.
I think I can count on one hand the number of times I've seen a stripper on stage who drew my attention because of her dancing/stripping skills. Dancing ability is nice but rarely is it good enough to be important.
Yet the other extreme is another 1 trick pony turn-off- IME, those "HJ Specialists" are SOLELY interested in cleaning out your pipes (and wallet) as quickly as possible.
Myself (and IMO a lot of tusclers)prefer and seek high mileage, but also at least like a modicum of social interaction.
You, too, are incorrect in your generalization. Unless, of course, just because a woman chooses to dance, in your eyes, that makes her "easy".
There is a bartender at a local bar down by me. A few know her as Lil Bit. She is 22 now, but I don't think she has ever danced, nor would she have been of age "several years ago".
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Now hesitation, for me, I go with easy--with stipulations. Being a hobbyist, it's not the stage show that turns me on. It's the flirting and the contact where we're not spposed to have it--that the fun. The stipulations: 1) attitude: most important of all. If the dancer is stuck on herself, too pushy (dance or drinks), wants to talk only about her problems, is too good to be touched, doesn't really like her job to the extent she broadcasts it--I pass her over quickly. 2) great ass--this is my weakness. Great tits are nice, but I think they're all great. But a cute, round ass, now that's something I can grab. 3) good flirt--turn me on you've got my attention and usually my money. Of course, if they get past tthese three hurdles, they have to deliver something, wwhic I supp0ose gets us back to EASY.