When is a stripper no longer a baby stripper?
Hank Moody
I'm fine. I'm disgusted with my life and myself, but I'm not unhappy about that.
Recently, I had a spectacular room with a girl who’d been dancing for six weeks. I wouldn’t have gone with a girl so new, but she … uh … convinced my little brain while we were in the front room that the VIP would be great, and it was. Later, after she got more experience, she dialed back on what she was comfortable with in the club. We’re currently discussing OTC options to get around the club restrictions, so it looks like it’s a case of club rules being the impediment. She just didn’t know the rules in the beginning.
My typical over/under line for baby/young veteran stripper is 3 months. By that time, they’ve likely spent 20 hours a week in the club and have maybe 275 hours of experience. They’ve learned the rules, done a couple dozen rooms, been propositioned for sex, weird fetish shit and have some regulars. They’ve hopefully adapted to the partying and know what they can handle. They’ve figured out their own boundaries. Now, it’s not perfect. Some girls learn faster than others. Some girls start out more suited for the life. Some will never be.
Basically, if a girl tells me she’s been dancing for 3 months I feel comfortable to ask a few more questions and then take a chance on getting a room (we don’t have many low cost single dance test drive options here in BMore). Last night a girl told me she’d been dancing a year, but in telling a story about another guy she (intentionally I’m sure) told me what she was and wasn’t comfortable with and I decided we weren’t a match despite the good conversation we were having. How do y’all see it and does it even matter to you?
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Cheap floor dances are great for selling VIPs. If I find them attractive they’ll probably get a shot. Some girls learn fast and some seem to struggle to get comfortable.
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
Q: When is a stripper no longer a baby stripper?
A: To answer your question:
Google defines a baby as:
“A child under the age of 1 year”
I go with this basic definition, a Baby Striper is one with less than a year working as a stripper.
She also has to be less than 25 years old, because the human brain typically finishes developing and maturing in the mid-to-late 20s.
There's always a risk of the negatives you mentioned.... but there's always the excitement and thrill of showing a new naive girl the ropes. Sometimes they are MORE willing to please if they are still hungry for attention ( and $)
The $30+ per song cost that there's more and more of are why I disagree with those who say you should not recommend individual dancers in reviews. I don't see the harm is giving a simple thumbs up or down, with no details except about appearance. You can say she did/didn't do what she said she would, without saying what she said she'd do. And, remember to explain how to find the bathroom, so your review will get published.
As someone with disposable income, I'm happy to entertain and proposition the newbies since they're practically citizens.
I think at worst you can have the newbie tarnish your reputation in the club or get thrown out of the club if she were to make allegations on your character.
To that end, getting the age, length of career, past work history, and presentation should help narrow down if you're dealing with a citizen who'll freak out when you ask if she offers extras.
The girls that can't handle the VIP extras scene either try to make money without VIP action or are gone.
A month later, the ones OK with VIP extras have grown up fast. They are taking 3-4 VIP's a day and banking the money.