LDKing: Tell her or Don’t say shit?

Don't let them dry hump you. FRMOS. If that is impossible, DATY her, in dance booth, stage side, or right where you are siting. That does soften them up. Let her go over the top real nicely.

SJG

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Based on the sounds that I am making, she knows.

FRMOS, then you invite her to the backroom for FS.

If that is not possible DATY her.

Let her see that you are softening her up and saving your load for her.

SJG

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SJG

Soon, but the ones I have partaken with in our strip clubs are good. Most of the time though even in strip clubs the women don't wear these sorts of kinky action uniforms. To find that I think you need to look to swingers clubs. But it will be standard in My Organizatin.

SJG

As long as you don't get any on her, telling her seems like a compliment for a job well done.

I don't LDK, so it's really not an issue. I'm probably the odd man out here, but I'd say something. I try to not be sneaky with dancers, even if I may not get the same in return. It's a personal choice.

I know that some guys have a whole "containment system" worked out, but I don't. When I was in my late 20s/early 30s, I LDKed a couple of times. The post-event cleanup was awkward. So, I pretty quickly decided that it just wasn't my thing.

I couldn't LDK with the hottest woman on earth. If you can blow a load from a dance, it must take 13 seconds of intercourse to do the same thing irl. No thanks.

Skibum speaks the truth. I’ve never had a LDK and don’t ever see it happening.

I used to LDK a lot when I was younger, but haven’t in about 15 years. I figured they knew with me having to go announcing it. I’d just say something like “I’m good - thanks” mid-song. They figured it out I’m sure.

Ah but if you CAN do it, I truly believe it's the best value in the strip club. Don't gotta do nothing illegal. And shouldn't have to break the bank to do it.

^ amen.

Problem with LDK for me is I CAN do it, but only if I wear a condom. Except any good grind will strip that thing off in a hurry. If I don't use one, I get fucking carpet burn before I can LDK. It's just easier for me to get extras in my old age.

"Icouldn't LDK with the hottest woman on earth."

^ And you brag about declaring woman free summers. Sounds pretty gay to me lmao

I am not a guy who cums from a clothed lap dance. If I knew that I might ejaculate from friction during a lap dance, I’d tell the dancer before going for dances. I think it’s important to let a dancer know if there’s any chance of any cum getting out. It could be something she appreciates, but I think it’s best to let her know in advance.

If you are wearing a hazmat suit to get a lap dance - then it’s likely fine to not tell the dancer…

Now, if it’s a nude lap dance, where we are both nude and there’s skin against skin, I’m going to have to tell her that I might cum. There’s something about the soft skin of a smooth female body against my cock, that feels way too great!

But, I’ve not had a nude lap dance that didn’t involve more than friction in several years.

Most definitely STFU, unless you know her well and it is understood what type of experience you’ll be having. If I have my preferred dancer all I need is to have my hands placed on her ass cheeks/hips, shoulders and arms in a reverse cowgirl position and that stimulates me enough to get off, especially when the dancer is placing her hit box and grinding it right over my dick. Once I do the reach around and rub her Clit in reverse cowgirl as she leans back in my ear to moan to show she’s enjoying it, I’m done! A couple girls have asked me to make a groan or some noise to show my appreciation, and I’ll only do that discretely in VIP. On the floor it’s just too awkward to make those sounds with other PLs and dancers within earshot.

Not telling her amounts to sexual assault

^ Something you fantasize about doing to little boys every day.

How is that Icee? If she touches the liquid maybe youd have an argument... do you think its also sexual assault if someone cums their pants during a dentist appointment with a hot dentist? Or from looking at some chick on the street?

Yeah^^^! When does it ever end?

Pick your girl, move on her, FRMOS, then the back room. Cum in her or save your load for her OTC.

SJG

I don't have LDK experiences much anymore, but when it does happen it's because the dancer was seriously working to make it happen, so she knows when I'm cumming. I've had dancers get pissed when they feel wetness, and it can be awkward, so I usually pull back in my seat, and they usually get the message to just finish the dance without grinding. If they don't stop grinding, then I just tell them so they can avoid my biohazards. There's no reason not to tell them, they've seen it before, and will appreciate the heads up.

She is going at you like that, kiss her. Then keep on kissing her. Start gentle, but be thorough.

It draws you and she both in to a para-sympathetic experience and delays orgasm for both.

Then either ITC or immediate OTC, put your load into her.

Though it is best if you start kissing her in the front room.

SJG

If I was the type to LDK, I'd like to think I'd tell her. After all, I tell her when I'm about to cum in her mouth. It's only polite.