Clapping during a lap dance

Recently I was at a club getting a lap dance from a girl. I'm the kind of guy that the girl is sort of the supplementary feature and me and my dancing is the primary. So head over heels by the Go's Go's comes on over the loudspeaker and I start shaking my hips and shoulders back and forth while doing a big overhead clap when the song demands it. Well the dancer I had did not like this, warned me once but I didn't want to hear it, my money, my clapping. The stripper then brings her legs up does a heel clap on my on face and I let a big "NOOOOOOOOOOO!" while she runs out.

Was I in the wrong? Was the dancer in the wrong? Have you guys ever dealt with a situation where the girl is kind of getting in the way of you having a good time?