Why I enjoy SCs

I am sure this will provoke a lot of disagreement, but last night something happened that started me thinking about why I enjoy going to strip clubs. The short answer - the honesty of it all. Yes, the girls lie, tell you they are "working to pay for nursing school" or "I'm only doing this to get back on my feet". Then the lies about "wow, you must work out", "you are the most handsome guy to come in tonight" or any number of compliments. A real monger knows they are lies, the dancer just wants to get the portraits of dead presidents out of your pockets. In the end, its a transaction, I don't have to lie and I feel no pressure to be anything other than myself. If one of us doesn't like it, then we move on to the next one. Yes some guys are looking for something else, but in the end, everyone knows what the truth is and how things are going to end up.

Last night, the club I was in was packed full of gorgeous women, many 7s and 8s, maybe a few lower but nothing that I wouldn't consider spending time with, and there were lots of customers too. I am sitting there enjoying my drink, taking in the view and tipping the girls on stage a little. After about 30 minute this beautiful young thing, a 9+ in my book, came by and asked if it was ok to sit down and I said yes. She gives me her name and I give her my "stage name". Since my stage name is a little odd, she makes a comment and I explain that since she gives me a stage name, I do the same. She then tells me her real name, which is a longer version of her stage name, so I fess up and give her my real name. We talk for a bit then she asks if I want any dances. I asked her how much and she said her price was $40 per dance, which is $10 more than the other girls I have gotten dances from in that club, but I wasn't looking for something other than some relaxation, getting teased a bit and spending time with something beautiful.

Her dances were sensual and almost believable, but halfway through the first dance I found her "hot button", that physical touch turns her on, and I started pressing it. She then starts grinding a little harder, her body temperature starts rising and then she tells me other things that turn her on. I hit those buttons and she gets visibly more excited. We did two more dances then I had her stop and we talked for a few minutes. On my way home, I started thinking, why would she tell me those things? Both of us knew it wasn't going to lead to a finish for either of us. In the 30-40 minutes we spent together she is sharing things that many women could never say to their husbands.

I'm in my early 60's, I consider myself average looking, I'm not ripped, so it puzzles me why a relative stranger would tell me things that turn her on. Doesn't that tilt the odds away from the house to my favor a little bit? And this isn't the first time. I've had dancers let me bring them to orgasm, with my pants still fastened. I don't necessarily consider myself as GIB, but I do try to make the dancer feel good if she lets me and she usually reciprocates, sometimes in an OTC environment. Of course I have spent too much time with a dancer and gotten more than one 2AM drunk call telling how much she loves and misses me. I have had some long term relationships with several dancers over the last 6 or 7 years, both platonic and sexual, some with payment, some without, I even had one talk about us getting married, even though she is 5 years younger than my youngest son. Whenever I ask them, "why me?" the answer is something along the lines of "You're honest and respectful".

In the past if I found a dancer that was offering extras, I would usually go for it, but now, either because I'm getting picky or patient, I find myself being choosier. This means I tend to visit the smaller, more tolerant clubs less frequently and go for the higher end, better run clubs. I think the smarter, prettier girls have learned that at these clubs they can make good money and not have to do everything. While I'm not looking for my next ex-wife, or even a life companion, I will say that when I have had a beautiful girl text me "ilysm" every day and we get sideways looks when we go out in public, I get a smile on my face that can't be removed with plastic surgery. And yes, I know having feelings for a dancer can be very dangerous but I am always able to say goodbye and walk away if the relationship isn't working for me. If she moves on to something else, I know where to go to find another to fill the time. Don't get me wrong, I'm not an emotional robot, and I do feel the loss when she's gone, but I wish her the best and move on.

I am curious if anyone else sees it this way?