A lot of "Asian Indians" in Clubs?
Myoman
Have y'all noticed there are a lot of Indian guys in clubs. Just out of curiosity why is that? I don't think they are a huge percentage of the population but they seem to be over-represented in strip clubs - or maybe it's just me. Overall a very educated and friendly guys from what I know.
Just an academic, curiosity question.
Let's keep the racist comments out - we are better than that in this educated, informational forum.
Just an academic, curiosity question.
Let's keep the racist comments out - we are better than that in this educated, informational forum.
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I travel a lot for work - a lot w/in NY area, CT, but even midwest, Texas.
When you say "grabby", are you a dancer? if you're a dude, how do you know lol - you're going to the wrong places if customers are grabbing at you lol!!
You notice the Asian Indians because their looks stand out. There are 1.5 Billion of them. They’ve got to be somewhere.
Don't think you're going to slip dollars into my boxer briefs, Myoman ;)
Going off the word of other dancers here.
a) they are usually successful/make-good-$$$ - I think (Asian) Indians may be the group that has the highest overall income in the U.S.
b) they come from a very conservative background upbringing - they are usually expected to marry Indian women and those Indian girls probably don't put out b/f marriage (although I imagine there are exceptions) – so they have to find an “outlet”
When I lived in Queens, there was a large East Asian community in south Flushing, with a large group of Sikh shopkeepers on Kissena Blvd, is that still there?
I guess a lot of hypocrites think its OK to be racist unless you’re talking about black people.
There are lots of dancers who will negatively speak of the types of customers who would come onto a strip club review site as well. But you won’t find many on here gleefully “just repeating” what dancers say about that.
If you are on the bad end of dancer stereotyping of customers, the best way to overcome that is (to me) a generally good strategy for happy PLing: stick primarily to being a good regular. Dial back your man ho-ness.
The few desi stripper hoes I know are the most critical and avoid them like the plague
@icee, not surprised that desi strippers work that way too.
The one club I know where they're a majority . They nurse cheap beers or bottles of water waiting their turn to go to vip with the nastiest oldest stripper hoes in Vegas. Its a club with high ratings on here though.
The biggest spenders are guys on conventions and drug dealers.
Younger guys don't spend much unless it's like a bday or bachelor party or something. The bigger the group the less they spend individually.
Indians have a reputation for being cheap obnoxious demanding and make up strip club personal and lie to girls a lot which makes them the butt of many jokes when they're there.
It's mostly the younger guys here (40s) who talk about LDKing. Older guys here seem to talk about blowing thousands on a single CF/ATF.
Like yeah we can talk shit about Indian guys, and then the perfect Indian customer will appear. So it is just bad to get into this habit.
I actually do see the old white guys glorified irl often @icee. I personally only liked those customers when I was newer and didn't know any better. These days I avoid most of them unless they truly know how to act right which is rare. I never hated old white men until I started stripping. I have had way too many bad experiences with them. Even so I continue to take their money, but these days I am more unfriendly to them than say a younger white guy or another old dude but different variety.
I also don't really care what race the majority of girls in clubs are. I tend to not do well in clubs that are mostly Western European fully American white girls that weren't born speaking another language. Usually the customers there are weird imo too stoic. I like clubs that are a bit less of dudes sitting around being fucking weird.
Last Saturday night in a local club was a fairly typical experience. I was the oldest customer in the club I was visiting. I was sitting at the bar next to a pretty blonde who was talking to a young black guy. Suddenly he got up and walked away. I then asked her if she was sitting with someone and if she wasn't would she do lap dances with me. She looked unhappy and then said she thought she was sitting with someone, but he just walked out the door. Then she agreed to go do lap dances with me. She looked quite happy I was there when we got to the back to do the lap dances, and it didn't seem to me like she would have been better off if this old white guy hadn't been there. As I said, this type of thing is typical. Whenever I've suggested to my regulars that maybe I shouldn't go to strip clubs because the girls would rather be with young guys instead of some boring old guy like me, they always look dismayed and assure me they want me to keep coming to see them. They don't appear to me to be eager for me to stop showing up so they can spend more time with guys in the club their own age.
Unless times are a changin’ - that’s quite the opposite approach most dancers had 10-15 years ago. Maybe the make it was rain clubs have changed that.
Young dancers gravitated towards young guys because they didn’t know how to make conversation with older guys, then they sat around the dressing bitching because “no one is spending money”. While the more experienced girls made bank with the quiet old white guys sitting in the back.
The left coast is so screwed up maybe things are different there and icee’s perceptions hold true about cheap old white guys but in the Midwest the guys who own small companies, like an excavating company or consulting firm are whales
- how much money is "spending a lot" at a strip club?
- how old is "old" when we are talking about old white guys?
- how much does a "cheap suit" cost?
- what actual act constitutes "grabby"?
I always shake my head when topics like this come up. Dancers only care about one color. Green. I have never met a dancer that has a "type" they prefer in the club or a "no" list. If you shower regularly, can string words together, treat her kindly, and tip well you will be the first guy she comes over to every time. For first timers sames goes. If you are really interested tip 5 instead of 1 and she will stick to you like glue.
With respect to indians the comments other have made hit the nail on the head. In NJ they are very prevalent. In thier culture arranged marriages are typical. Most deal with the arrangement because of culture, but a few use clubs as a healthy way of release. There is one club in NJ that has indian dancers where they often complain about guys who tell they should only dance with indian customers. But other than that i could barely tell you what other races guys are at any club I go to. I go for the girls.
Making grumpy complaints about how old people are treated unfairly is what actually defines being old.
I own the cheapest suit, no suit at all.
If you drool in the club, and nicespice doesn't call 911 to get an emergency response from the hazmat team, you're spending a lot in the club.
Feeling entitled is a great way to increase the shittiness of your life. If a stripper prefers other customers, and even if your ESP about how spendy they are is right, only she ultimately knows if she's dong what's best for herself. So don't wear out your sphincter by clenching it over this.
But one of our members had these favorites in the San Gabriel Valley. He called them,"Kama Sutra Girls".
SJG
A lot of non-Americanized East Indian guys have a "Madonna/whore" complex about women. They want to wild out and bang non-Indian (especially white blonde Barbie doll type) women, then once they've had their fun, come back and marry a traditional Indian girl who's been approved by the family and such. They can still want to go see the Barbie doll on nights out though.
I've only seen one East Indian stripper though, that was in Niagara Falls. She didn't have an accent so I think she was pretty westernized.
Agreed, and a lot of middle-easterners too.
SJG
They said ok but you'll pay more because you're a chump.
https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=8044…
It's called payback!
It was a one night stand with your mother so it's not my fault that you grew up to be a useless pathetic chump troll.
Champphilly I thought you were indian as well, because of how yoi typed.
This is all racist to define people as stuff like smelly indians.
“Three words to describe Indian duds in strip clubs by most dancers: Cheap, Rude, and Smelly. They may be rich making top dollars. But lifestyle is cheap and unhygienic.”
So its similar to where you keep posting strippers arent hookers then posted that strip clubs fire dancers if they have stds or ask for test results
Im not on here enough these days to know if you are a man or woman, old or young, or what ethnicity. But if women didn't put on weight and lose their looks after marriage/kids many strip clubs wouldn't be open.
Indians vote (80-90% of registered voters), and they vote Democrat (2-3x more for Dem than GOP). I'd say that's exactly the sort of diversity we Dems are looking for!
Plus, they are on the whole overwhelmingly wealthy, educated, and career focused. All about family too. Living up to the myth of the model immigrant, really. Trump tried to put in a points based green card system, like they have in Europe. This is where you are more likely to get in if you've got education, job history, in-demand skills, etc. The Dems shit their pants on that because we might be turning away some oppressed field hand and his 19 family members by favoring new grist for the economic mill. I think that the GOP were probably glad it landed that way anyway, since it reduced the potential volume of brown people coming across the border, but that's just a guess based on prior behavior. Either way, the program didn't land, and a land-slide of Indians was averted. Still, Indians didn't give a fuck... they just kept on finding ways to get in anyway. Gotta admire them for their tenacity.
Pity about their shitty films though, the Chinese have got them beat by a mile there.
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Drew go back to calling dancers trannies in reviews ....
Njballa instead of strip clubs men should invest in their wives. Get her a bbl. Etc. Instead of spending it on other women