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3 years ago

Types of daddy issues

Have you changed your approaches to dancers based on whether they have daddy issues and the kinds of daddy issues they have?

Apparently there are different kinds like fear of abandonment, a totally absent father, an overbearing father, or a pushover father. Supposedly, the type of daddy issues someone has factors into the type of guys they will look for for relationships, hookups, otc, etc. whereas one dancer may hookup right after the first dance, others may take several or many dances. For some it might be purely about the money whereas for others it could be about the money and how much they genuinely like you. It seems some of them are literally looking for someone who looked and acted like their dad would have

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etsutwigg222

Never change by approach or SOP (standard operating procedure). During table conversation, ask menu & how many of my friends (dead statesmen) need to go home with her for what I select. No negotiations. It either works or I politely move on.

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rickthehick

Some people get many dances before OTC. It seems like some dancers want the emotional connection before doing otc. Etsutwigg, what kind of price limits do you have for OTC.

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rickthehick

Does anyone have any ideas as far as how the different types of mommy and daddy issues manifest differently in men and women? Theres the absent mother or father (literally or just too busy with work or hobbies so functionally absent), the overbearing/controlling one, the overly nice/praising one.

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BGSD3100

How would I know if they have Daddy issues? I'm not a mind reader and they don't wear a sign announcing it.

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Icee Loco (asshole)

Most have mommy issues

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georgmicrodong

Gods, I hope I never become that manipulative.

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rickthehick

Icee what kind of mommy issues are you referring to? There’s a lot of single mother households in the US, not many single fathers. So in many cases the dad could be absent, and there may or may not be a stepfather. Some stepfathers abusive. Depending on whether the parent was absent, overly controlling or overly weak, changes how things manifest in the person.

Icee, do you know which combination works best for relationships? It seems like guys with mommy issues and girls with daddy issues would be the most toxic, love hate kind of relationship?

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