So I’ve recently been thinking about the culture of strip clubs and strippers and I can’t help but to ask if they are all whores?
I mean that sincerely. Back in the day, the element seemed a lot different. Maybe I was younger and more naive but it seemed like the clubs were a great place to see women that would only be found in movies and music videos. Fast forward to now and it seems like gone are the days where they were just hustling for extra money or college funds.
It seems like now they are there for a multitude of reasons but mainly along the lines of feeding their drug habits, pimps, babies and baby daddies or just no other skills other than showing their violated public parts. (No longer private parts obviously)
I also notice that the majority of these princesses seem to come from foreign countries, at least in my area.
Curious to know if it was always like this and I just never took my head out of my ass or is it the culture now and deemed “normal” for me and everyone else to have our heads up their asses.
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last commentDepends on the definition of whores. If you mean whores as in sleeping with people for money, then I would say probably not. Some of the ones coming from better families in South America seem to be more particular about where they draw the line. I assume that line may change for them at some point based on economical situations but would be tough to say they all change.
If you mean whores as in letting men touch and grope them wherever for money, then Yes.
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OP comes off a little harsh and judgmental, but I would agree that stripping is now more of a business, and to some a career. But I wouldn’t label them all as whores.
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All? Whores? No.
Even around here where extras are the norm, there are clubs with dancers who do no more than dance. There are even the occasional dancers at the extras heavy clubs that don't.
But I'm with iknowbetter, you seem more than a bit judgy and prude. If you've got a moral issue with strippers, stay the fuck out of the clubs. Problem solved.
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Yes
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I'm with Iknowbetter and Dolfan on all points, including the tone of OP.
Also, not sure why it matters. If, at the root of it all, this is just a lament that not all dancers now are movie or music video actress-level material, it's never been that way, IME. Also, I think the foreign dancers add an exotic element to what, in my neck of the woods, had once been a steady diet of cornfed white girls
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You offer them enough dough and most will happily become your wh*re. If that doesn’t work, go out with a friend of her first, show her good time and then she will come crawling after you. If that doesn’t work either, ask this second girl to invite the first one to a threesome. Sometimes it is not even money, it is jealousy between girls that solves your problem.
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I've been in this hobby for half a century. They were doing extras for money the entire time. Drugs and single motherhood were the primary motivators.
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Some but not all. I’ve known a few who really were stripping though college. One a registered nurse another is a therapist. One radiologist one real estate agent
What is different is the self centered attitude of most young dancers today. They think they deserve money just because they are there. Plus with social media they can market themselves on multiple sites. Onlyfans instagram etc. so know it’s a profession and not a dirty secret
Having said that I’ve had my share of extras from many of them. I guess it just depends on the dancer
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What's your definition of whore, is it a bad thing? It's not just that you're known by the company keep. You really just can't be better than the people you voluntarily choose to associate with. If you think you're better than any stripper, you've just added hypocrisy to your bad qualities. So you're only as good as a stripper who thinks she's better than any customer. You're worse than one who doesn't.
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I get what youre saying and i think its due to online porn. With porn so easily and freely available, IMO, most guys dont want to pay much just to see a nude girl even if its in person.
So now in the age of internet porn, its harder to make money while only being a stage dancer. 30+ years ago a sole stage dancer could probably make a lot more.
It depends on what you consider being a whore… but as far as lapdances, most guys would consider it cheating if their girl was letting another guy grope her ass and tits. And its considered semi sexual even though its not outright sex.
Theres a full spectrum of what any dancer will offer. Theres still some dancers who only dance on stage and not even full nude… some who dance only on stage but full nude.. some offer lapdances but no extras… all the way to some who offer bbfs and CIM etc
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Why did McClanes comment get the downvotes? Lol
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Are all people who make generalizations idiots?
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Men who call women they pay are entitled to call them whores, as long as they admit they are losers.
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@skibumb609
You and I are losers
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It’s an interesting question that you can extrapolate. Are all relationships at least transactional? How many women just marry men for status or financial security? Then divorce them and take them to the cleaners. Are they whores too? At least with sex workers there is a certain honesty that comes with the transaction.
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They’re whore’s just like me. We’re doing things for money we’d otherwise rather not be doing.
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The idea that women marry men for money and take them to the cleaners is absolute 100% total bullshit. 100% fucking untrue. In fact, 55% of my clients paying alimony as a result of a 2024 divorce are female. Guys getting screwed in a divorce financially is something I do not see on a regular basis and when people get screwed it's pretty much 50/50. Of course, I've only been in divorce court seventy-five hundred days or so, so I must be wrong.
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^lol not bullshit at all.
Taking them to the cleaners is one thing… that varies
But both men and women, for all of human history, have been marrying for status and wealth. The idea that women dont marry men for money or vice versa is ridiculous. Even without the divorce laws… you get a better lifestyle from being around a richer person
Hollywood actors look the best, but get the same women the athletes and musicians do
How do you explain someone like elon musk banging ashley st claire
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I would argue the vast majority of strippers are not whores. Remember that for every "good" strip club city with reasonable to high mileage there are a bunch of SLCs. And even in cities with one or two "good" clubs there often are others with no mileage available.
Locally I can also say that for every Dirty Day Girl there are 2-3 night girls who at most you get a good one sided grind from, and that's at the "good" club.
So yeah, most strippers are not whores
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