Is there a big difference beween a "John" and a "Simp"?
Beat100
So slowly I have realized that John's and Pimps are not that different. While Pimps are in their for the money. John's are there for the sex. For instance, I see many John's who go to brothels or stripclubs and will try to pay less or pay the right price to hook up with hookers, strippers. Johns also seem to be unafraid to criticize escorts if they offer poor service. Johns can get together and lower the price of sex, since they refuse to pay high prices this is a noble act on their part, and benefits the average man.
Meanwhile, "Simps" sees to be more of a "white knight" type guy who likes throwing money at women. Simps act this way regardless if a woman gives them sex or not. Often times women will take advantage of Simps and get them to give them money, gifts and travel. In exchange of nothing. Simps ruin the dating market for every guys since women have high expectations. The more guys simp the worst it is for the average man. Since women assume they become the "price." Simps also make it so that women become highly selective of who they sleep with. Since they give them all this free attention.
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Simp is a misused word. I think a simp is really like a "nice guy" who thinks he can buy women or thinks he's owed sex for acting nice to get it.
But it seems like it's used by broke bums incels and fuckboys to describe anyone who treats a woman they like well. It's idiotic to think that things like buying her dinner or giving her money to get her nails done or taking her shopping is simping. I think it only becomes wiping when he's being used and still goes along with it. But when it's in a normal relationship it's not simping
It's easy to make a connection though. You need that initial spark that let's them stay long enough to form more of a connection. It comes down to how you make her feel. Yhe impression you make on her.
Suppose you could go to a club and get, say, about a 20 minute lap dance, with the added feature that you'd get a happy ending with your fleshlight that you brought with. Dancers, does that still skeev you out, even with no contact with PL junk or bodily fluids? I'm guessing the cost would be in the $100 - $200 range typically. Especially if society had a less ridiculous attitude about "good" women doing any sort of sex work. I think I could have gone for long stretches with this as my only sexual outlet, even when I was young. So no need to end up buying real estate and making mini-mes with somebody, as the only way to have a hope of frequent, good nutting. As long as I'm not sexually frustrated, I don't feel like I'm a simp, nor care who does think I'm a simp. My general point is, it's not women who make simps of us, it's society's stupid, backwards mores.
A guy who thinks he is a Pimp when really he is a Ponce and a John is ridiculous.
SJG
The real problem is men not staying in their league. Or going below it if they really want sex. Don't ever expect physically in a partner that you wouldn't expect in yourself standard wise.
And most women aren't really used to being treated well or having money spent on them. Social media lies.