So, how much money did you bring in?
BaggerRider
Wisconsin
Have you ever been asked this by a dancer?
I got to the club about an hour after they opened, there was one other customer talking to a dancer at the bar and one older dancer sitting by herself, no dancers on stage yet. I got a bottle of water and sat down, about a minute later the older dancer comes up sits next to me. She is probably mid-40s if not 50s, looks okay for her age but not really my type. I had tipped her on stage before but never really talked to her.
She introduced herself and asked why I was drinking water. I told her I don't drink during the day, and then she asked if I would buy her a drink even though I wasn't drinking. Since dancer drinks are only $8 and there were no other dancers working yet, I said OK and paid the bartender. As I was putting the change in my pocket she asked me how much money I brought with me. I said "Did you actually just ask me that?", she looked shocked and said "Yes, why shouldn't I?". Thankfully she was called to stage about a minute later, and left me alone for the rest of the hour I spent there.
I've been going to this club for 6 months, once every week or two, and almost always get lap dances and occasionally VIPs. I've never been asked that before, and while I could understand a new dancer asking, she's been dancing at least 6 months and probably much longer.
I got to the club about an hour after they opened, there was one other customer talking to a dancer at the bar and one older dancer sitting by herself, no dancers on stage yet. I got a bottle of water and sat down, about a minute later the older dancer comes up sits next to me. She is probably mid-40s if not 50s, looks okay for her age but not really my type. I had tipped her on stage before but never really talked to her.
She introduced herself and asked why I was drinking water. I told her I don't drink during the day, and then she asked if I would buy her a drink even though I wasn't drinking. Since dancer drinks are only $8 and there were no other dancers working yet, I said OK and paid the bartender. As I was putting the change in my pocket she asked me how much money I brought with me. I said "Did you actually just ask me that?", she looked shocked and said "Yes, why shouldn't I?". Thankfully she was called to stage about a minute later, and left me alone for the rest of the hour I spent there.
I've been going to this club for 6 months, once every week or two, and almost always get lap dances and occasionally VIPs. I've never been asked that before, and while I could understand a new dancer asking, she's been dancing at least 6 months and probably much longer.
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That's too funny. Thanks for sharing it.
Most guys, if asked, would either not answer or lie. And most dancers know that... except that dancer.
Fucking hate the used car saleswoman shtick.
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I've overheard girls asking guys how much they have, I've always presumed I was hearing the tail end of a conversation that went something like "You wanna do a room" "maybe, how much is a room" "$xxx" "oh, I don't have enough for that" "well how much do you have" but now I wonder.
One dancer during the dance asked me how much money i make. I answered it honestly.
There was one dancer i had gotten dances with for a while, $300+ or $600. And when I wanted to do $200 a later time she started complaining and crying and insisting she won’t do a dance unless i pull out $400. Eventually she agreed to the $200
And I guess, if she's the only one working that night, she's gonna assume you spend that all on her?
I have been to clubs were, especially with the day shift, the expected pattern is pretty much go back for "dances" with one lady, finish with her and leave... and she's just asking how to finish...
It's a much more common question in places like car dealerships and jewelry stores because guys already go in pre-disposed to make a single large purchase and with affordability figures in mind. There's very little sense showing $50k diamonds or cars to a guy on a $20k budget.
But a strip club is a pay-as-you-go affair with multiple potential points of purchase. The presumption and self-entitlement in a question like that would honestly surprise me. Even in my myriad OTC negotiations never has a girl asked me that kind of question - she has a number she needs, or she wants me to propose one, and if we agree then great.
SMH. Maybe we should aks guys to compile a list of places where they've heard questions like this so we know whcih tourist traps, er, I mean fine gentlemen's clubs, to avoid. 😁
At least be subtle about it. I don't mind those less prying questions at all. But to just blatantly ask how much you got is an instant turnoff.
SJG
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SJG
The Rolling Stones - Gimme Shelter - 2013 School of Rock AllStars Team 4
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If I'm lucky. Tbh baby strippers tend to annoy me. Most of them won't be around 3 months from now anyway so investing even the minimal energy to remember their stage names or their fake real names is pointless. A girl becomes much more interesting to me after she's been around for a few months or so.
SJG
"How much do you have to spend?"
"How much do you have?"
Yeah, I don't talk to them again.
@rickdugan: "Tbh baby strippers tend to annoy me."
I can see that, but I prefer to at least interact with them a little bit, just in case. No, I don't expect to get anything right off (but I've been lucky on more than a few occasions), I just don't like to make them believe I'm never going to be interesting.
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"Hi Hand Job For $50 VIP Tip"
"Hello $300 From Me For GFE"
"What's up No Extras?"
"Not much Keep Moving"