How do strippers or escort’s SO’s feel about their work?

===> "How do strippers or escort’s SO’s feel about their work?"

Who cares how they feel about anything? I know that I don't.

Mr Dugan do you think a dancer or girl having a “tramp stamp” like angel wings or butterfly wings right above the buttocks means anything.

I dont know, its still a curiosity. You could potentially be getting laughed at, ridiculed, by the SO, for paying for private dances with her. Or paying for otc

The <em>last</em> thing on my mind when I'm balls deep in whatever orifice(s) she's agreed to let me fuck is what some <em>other</em> person "feels" about it.

Any guy getting a boost or even being ok with another guy fucking their lady is a sad cuck
who the fuck cares what they think
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I don't care as long as I get my cut !

Oops, wrong account .

It's a job.

The real question is what do the SOs of tricks think

It's some weirdo shit to belittle men who date hoes while bragging about paying to fuck those very hoes

Go to either stripperweb or r/stripper or r/sexworkersonly and keyword search “my boyfriend” and read how people’s relationships are for yourself. 🥱

^ Mostly the traction of "what a shithead this loser is."

Icee, tricks SOs may not know about it.

Icee you mentioned you like dating strippers cuz it’s dating the girl everyone wants. But that applies to any hot or even reasonably attractive woman. Or to any reasonably successful woman. So you dont need to date a stripper or escort to be dating the woman everyone wants

Is it really an ego stroke to say her clients can only get lapdances and grope while you get to go all the way? Cuz with a non stripper GF, the other guys may not be getting more than a handshake or hug.

This another of the many questions on here that seem to assume that strippers as a group are enormously different from non-strippers. And enormously similar to each other. If you think that, either you haven't spent that much time in strip clubs, or you come across to dancers as overly judgmental. They generally get good at carrying on long conversations while showing you little of who they really are, if you are going to wag a finger at them.

In all my years of PLing, I never heard of a sex worker getting pregnant from her customer (unless he first went from customer to her SO). So, even if creating a mini-me is one of your life goals, you can have a sex worker as a SO, and not worry (more than with a non-SW) that you're kid is really a mini-some-rando-guy. It's much easier to be a SW SO if you're not the type that worries much about what rando people think of you. Sure, many SW SOs will throw her job in her face in an ugly argument. But, if they'd do that, they'd just think of some other ugly thing to say if she wasn't a SW. Yes, I've heard a lot about stripper relationship drama. But, until an accurate dram-o-meter is invented, it's not clear to me that they have more on average than people in general.

Ilba i don’t understand your points about the baby.

Ilba, mr Dugan has mentioned. There is only a small line between the full contact lap dances and full on sex. Hence, strippers apparently are more likely to cheat or do otc stuff than non strippers.

But if you look on the stripper subreddit, theres like hundreds of posts of strippers claiming to be fully loyal to their boyfriends and never cheating for money. Its an anonymous forum, so we can assume they’re telling the truth? Or is it some kind of posturing, like people who do OTC whilst having SO’s post anonymously online about how they’d never do otc or cheat?

In my observation the ones that don't hold back, FSSW, ITC and OTC, they feel really good. They please guys, make guys feel like Kings.

It is the ones who are trying to keep it within some bounds and are clipping money off of guys without really delivering, they feel like shit and have lots and lots of conflicts.

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The dumbest troll shit. Appealing to Rick as an authority 🤡

SJG are you referring to dancers with SOs? You’re saying the ones who do full service have better relationships?

Sjg dougster is just trolling you

The reasons why nobody is going to post a serious response to this are that: (1) Nobody cares what they think; and (2) nobody spends much time delving into this with strippers.

Most dancers have SOs. So too do most guys with real money to spend in SCs. Seasoned dancers and salty hounds both know the score and there is an unspoken etiquette in place which makes it NOT OK for a dancer or customer to pry into the relationship status of the other. The last thing either party wants is for the other to be focused on SOs when she's trying to get paid and he's trying to get laid (or whatever he's seeking).

Some people choose to share, but that's different. Some girls will bitch about their SOs, especially once they are comfortable with a guy. Some guys will bitch about their SOs too, usually as some BS rationalization for what they are doing in that club with that girl. But even still prying beyond what is voluntarily shared is still not OK.

When a girl fixates on the fact that I'm married, it's an instant alert that she is: (1) probably a baby stripper; and (2) going to be zero fun to deal with. Similarly, when a girl spends time gushing about her SO and/or conspicuously wearing a wedding ring, IME she is using it to shield herself from all sorts of requests and behaviors. Next...

Crazy post mr Dugan! Sounds very exciting, all those convos you mentioned, all the back and forth bitching about SO’s and more.

^ Not remotely sure what you find so "crazy" or "exciting" about it but alrighty then.

Mr Dugan that post of yours is crazy!
Mr Dugan, do you avoid paying for dances with strippers who have SOs particularly if they dont offer OTC? Cause then you would be paying for something while another dude is getting more for free!

Dugan said "The reasons why nobody is going to post a serious response to this are that: (1) Nobody cares what they think; and (2) nobody spends much time delving into this with strippers."

And then proceeds to post a serious response... to a blatant troll.

^ If I avoided paying strippers with SOs I'd be sitting alone most of the night. The safe assumption is that they all have one.

And there's no such thing as free. That dude has to be her source of emotional support, deal with whatever issues she has and worry about how she's actually earning that scratch. I just have enjoy whatever we mutually agree upon, with her on her (relative) best behavior, and then go on my way.

Tbh I love being me man - it's like getting to have my cake and eat it to. I planted a beautiful family in a hot young wife who I did NOT have to share with anyone else, yet even now as I'm getting old, I get to relive some of the fun with someone else's hot SO - all for the modest cost of a few easily earned bills. 😊

@CMI: I like the topic, even if I don't like the troll. But soon enough he's going to drive the thread off a cliff with inane questions containing inherently faulty assumptions, at which point I just bail.

Mr Dugan I meant do you avoid strippers who dont offer OTC/extras itc, particularly if they also have a SO. Like just get regular lapdances maybe high mileage lapdances and still be satisfied even if they dont offer OTC

Mr Dugan does your SO know about all your OTC stuff? If not, it must be exhilarating doing all that cheating and otc, while being married!

If you’re aware of her SO or she’s aware of yours not telling anyone how to spend they’re own money , but you’re doing it wrong

That post of yours is crazy! You must be the real life dan bilzerian!

^ And there it is. The faulty assumption baked into the question which assumes that the existence of the SO matters, followed by the completely off-topic questions about my relationship dynamics. Well it was fun while it lasted.

Peace lol. ✌

Mr Dugan , it has to be exhilarating if youre doing all this cheating on the SO. Especially if its with multiple women. The sensation of OTC alongside cheating is completely different to OTC alone.

Then the question is do you still get dances from dancers who dont offer OTC/extras. Does it matter if they refuse OTC/extras due to having a SO.

If wandering husbands didn't exist, neither would a good chunk of the strip clubs in existence. If girls with loose interpretations of "fidelity" didn't exist, many of those clubs would have far fewer dancers.

I recently heard a baby stripper in my favorite club (there's a lot of them now) tell a seasoned dancer about dealing with a customer who is married. The seasoned stripper responded, "They're all married."
Obviously that's not universally true, but a good rule of thumb.

The why and how of what each person does, including how that person manages the relationship dynamics at home, is his/her own affair.

Once again (for good lol) - I'm out. ✌

Mr Dugan thanks for the input
I thought you had openly been discussing your relationship dynamics on other threads, as Icee often referred to you as a cheater or something

Its an anonymous site mate. There should be no risks to discussing the dynamics...

"SO gets to have sex with her for free"

Nothing's ever free.

Not only do I not have to care about any of her problems or listen to anything she has to say... But I only see her all made up dressed to impress and in black lights. They don't hang out around the house in that shit... Hook up with a few of them OTC and you're sure to realize some of them are unrecognizable once they get outside.

Besides the basic idea that whole premise is based on the idea that the whole relationship (for him) is based on him having something other guys want. Not things like, oh, I dunno, trust and support...

It's totally understandable that relationships can be built on things other than sex. But finding joy in other guys having to pay cash to get what you're getting, having a hard time seeing that as anything but toxic. And not have doubts about her putting in more effort for some of them, that take a helluva ego.

Rick you keep putting hoes and their sos down. But you chase the girls and try your best to coerce then into fucking you for money.


It's ironic putting them down when you're the ones begging to pay them to fuck

I wouldn’t be surprised if Rick was dan bilzerian or that other instagram guy copying him. Also Rick you’ve taught us all kinds of nicknames for money. You mentioned nut, and now scratch.

For women in general, the ones in good relationships don't have SOs who think about whether they are "sharing" them. Because, oddly enough, worthwhile SOs don't feel like they own you.

It's only cheating if you are not honest. Many SW SOs just prefer not to hear any specifics. It does happen that strippers mislead their SOs about how far they go, but I think it's a minority.

The ones who really deliver, high quality FS-ITC and OTC, they are happy with what they do and things work fine with SOs.

The ones who try to limit it and are still taking in lots of money, they are very conflicted and frustrated and have problematic relations with SOs.

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SJG can you explain more of that concept.

The strippers who dont offer otc, and dont offer ITC extras, and make lots of money, have problematic relationships? Why and how? Arent they technically being more “loyal” to their SOs since they arent doing otc and full service like those other dancers

Ilba i dont know if you even see my posts or are talking to me cause you have me blocked. Your posts seem to be random...

I never talked about dancers offering OTC or doing extras. I'm just saying that the ones who satify are happy. But you have to treat them with respect, not like vending machines.

SJG

But how come the ones offering FS are more satisfied in their relationships than the ones not offering FS and having boundaries in the dances?

Cause they please. They make every guy feel like a king. They aren't worried what people think about them.

SJG

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