Fairfield County Clubs Summary

I agree that both are sleasze. i should've clarified this. Bishop Corner is definitely not a nice place. It's total ghetto, but the mileage is great. And the girls got much much better. I have heard that all of the hotter girls from Pleasant's went over to Bishop's post-pandemic. But Pleasant Moments is awful. Girls are gross and the place is disgusting. There are a million men in there at any given time. I saw a pile of piss on the ground once. The girls are 3s and the customers are flat out dangerous. I saw a fight in there that turned into a brawl. I would never go there again.

Why don't you write reviews? If you've got enough time to post notes with that much detail then a review isn't going to be that much more effort. People looking for info on those clubs probably aren't going to see this unless they use the search feature (and maybe not even then).

Oh i totally forget about Scruples and Pure Platinum, which should be #1 on tis list. I apologize, I meant to give these two clubs separate reviews (pending) so I forgot to include. I am putting these two together b/c they are very similar, same mgt, with some rotation between the clubs. Girls diverse: white, black, Latina. Some real beauties (relatively) though this could be hit or miss. and the management is very nice. Mileage is great. There is actually some competition for the guys here since there aren't many guys here (which is a good thing) and a good amount of girls (usually 12-18). Unlike both Mystiques, girls aren't making bank from wealthy men here so they aren't spoiled. I think b/c the mgt is nicer, they are able to attract better girls maybe? To me it doesn't make sense b/c you would think the girls would just go where the money is. Maybe I'm missing something or maybe girls just go where they are comfortable (like where they have a friend dancing or something) even if it means making less money. Anyway - sorry for the mistake and this addendum to my review!

@Wall: yes I agree, I will. Strangest thing though, I started the process by adding a review on Bridgeport Mystique, but I don't see it there. I remember this happening to me in the past. Does it take a day or so for the review to actually post?

The reviews are all put up to a vote now, and I think it's the majority out of 7 votes. I think it takes less than a day, but haven't submitted a review in a while.

🤔 How do you know how much these men are paying the dancers?

As a dancer I haven’t heard of big money in these areas and I never invest in what customers think they are seeing.

Your info given is already well known about the clubs in said area.

I saw you left a review on Mystique

===> "As a dancer I haven’t heard of big money in these areas and I never invest in what customers think they are seeing."

This. To add, there has been an affluent exodus from Fairfield County over the past several years. The clubs were a shell of their old selves even before the pandemic. I won't argue individual observations because I wasn't there when he was, but I'm somewhat skeptical of the broader characterizations.

A customers view and a dancers view will always differ.

That is why on any of my views I won’t say if extras are there or not unless I did them myself. I only speak on first person accounts.

If he said that he himself went there a blew big money then I may believe it. But he didn’t and I know dancers who work there plus the reviews always say it’s empty, so I’m skeptical

That's interesting. I'm a pretty social guy at these clubs so that's how I got that information. I speak to other guys and groups there. Also my buddy I went with works for a finance company in the area and he told me that the Mystiques are where they bring clients to entertain and also where heavy-hitting finance guys go. Also I can tell. When I can't even get a girl to take 25 bucks from me for a bullshit Lapdance because the guy she's sitting with is paying her big enough money, then I guess I feel it's not worth these clubs. And I usually spend over 300-500 dollars and that's not enough to have a good time? No thanks I'll pass. As far ar ad exodus of wealth, post pandemic that's just not true. So many wealthy New Yorkers relocated to Fairfield County. They were used to paying 700-1000 bucks for a Vip room. These guys are now king at the Mystiques. Maybe the girls you've been talking to aren't pulling the right guys. Or maybe they don't want you there, but there is no way guys are not spending money at these two clubs. Scruples, Pure Platinum, and Keepers are the place to go for men to have a good time and not have to break the bank. Pure Platinum is definitely picking up with more and more girls.

I've clubbed in both Mystiques since the pandemic started, including twice in the B'port location. They were neither especially fancy (especially Stamford) nor were there guys blatantly throwing large sums of money around.

Things are so bad in Fairfield County right now that Beamers still hasn't re-opened. In its heyday, Beamers was hands down the highest end club in Fairfield County and the most likely to be entertaining high rollers in the back VIP area. Last time I was there pre-pandemic, there was a small crew of girls and almost no guys - affluent exodus wreaked havoc on it and many other local clubs.

You must have hit Scruples on a really good night because it has struggled for talent for years. Every club can make a turnaround, but the last time I was there several months ago it was a quiet and no energy shit show.

Now I'm not saying there aren't affluent guys still visiting Fairfield County clubs, but IMHO you've somehow developed a warped understanding of the overall landscape based upon very limited firsthand experiences. I suspect that the intel that Bharlem is getting is far more accurate.

I guess we all have different experiences. Maybe times are changing. But I guess half of what we are saying is completely in agreement with eachother: that is that most of the Fairfield County clubs just aren't worth going to for men. The debate is over two things. Scruples and Pure Platinum have been very good lately in experience.

Sorry to continue: The other disagreement is over dancers. I am really surprised of what I'm hearing. There are definitely guys spending money and paying men always outnumber girls in my experience. The worsening of nyc clubs has just made men flock here - there seems to be a lag in the supply of girls for now. Anyway, that's why these forums are great. Thank you for the productive discussion. I'll keep you updated on any other Intel.

My methods for my conclusion:

• visited clubs a few times each for the most part.
• speak to locals at the club,both customers, bartenders and dancers.
• love to people watch for a bit.
• In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a fee of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience. I don't hide this hobby, though I kinda throw it into conversations so I don't look like too much of a perv.

===> "...that is that most of the Fairfield County clubs just aren't worth going to for men."

If anything, it sounds like conditions are improving. My only disappointment is that my last two trips up there were during weekends, so I was forced to visit on busy weekend nights. I have a short list of clubs I definitely expect to spend some time in on slower nights once I have a longer trip up there, including Keepers (my favorite in a while) and Rubys (byob and good mileage in the back).

I do also intend to check out Pure Platinum, but Scruples has so consistently sucked ass in several visits over the last few years that I can't be bothered. If I am not mistaken there is a female running the place, which rarely helps a club's atmosphere.

But what is good for a guy like me - hungry girls on a slow weekday night and declining foot traffic - is not necessarily good for dancers, as Bharlem rightly alluded to.

===> "Also my buddy I went with works for a finance company in the area and he told me that the Mystiques are where they bring clients to entertain..."

===> "- In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a fee of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience."

That's interesting on a couple of fronts. First because there is very little client entertaining going on right now in any white collar industry, especially in the northeast. Shit most companies can't even get their employees back into the office, nevermind setting up in-person visits from third-party vendors.

Second because most companies will no longer reimburse employees for entertaining in strip clubs. It still happens here and there, but it's not nearly as common as it once was. It pretty much went out of favor when the '01-'02 recession hit and never returned.

Third because nobody wants the label of pervert around his neck in a corporate setting, especially a vendor. Many corporate client contacts are now women. This stuff wasn't considered to be appropriate office talk even when club entertaining was still common 20 years ago and most definitely not today.

Myoman, you wouldn't happen to be dialing us from the 90s, would you? 😁

Rick you are totally killing it in these clubs! Living that dan bilzerian lifestyle.

Lol ha! I wish it were the 90s. I really think things have changed. The client entertainment has definitely picked up recently. I'm with you on finding hungry girls which is why I agree on Pure Platinum and Ruby's. The Mystiques in Bridgeport or Stamford are the opposite of what you and I are looking for. There are hungry guys fighting over a scarcity of girls, mostly average in quality.
I may have underrated Ruby's on my list. That seemed like it could be great, I just really wanted drinks the time I went there.