Fairfield County Clubs Summary
I've been going to Westport CT for some meetings the past few weeks and went to a few clubs. I wanted to give a very quick summary. Overall this is NOT a good place to go clubbing. It is one of the wealthiest areas in the country so the competition sucks and the money these girls are used to is not favorable for anyone reasonable. Generally there are a lot of men willing to pay big coin for what's not worth it - especially compared to NJ, Queens, and other far places I've visited (even San Antonio is much better - after the conferences were done).
Having said that, if you are going out here is some info:
Best to Worst, let's go!:
1) Keepers in Milford: Girls much hotter than the others (although that's not saying much) and more friendly. Management and bouncers very friendly and very lenient compared to others (well okay not Bishops Corner as far as lenient). Ratio is a little better - more girls and guys less willing to spend crazy money. Reasonable time here overall. 10-15 girls, diverse races.
2) Bishops Corner: Ghetto club but a lot of girls and extras. Sometimes very few guys so you will live like a king. Most girls are 4s to 5s, BUT a select few girls are 8s and 9s. That's where you want to hone in. Mostly Black/Latina. 10-15 girls Some beautiful.
3) Rubys II: A very quick visit so I won't say much. I left early only b/c it does not have alcohol and I really wanted a drink. It is byob which is cool if you come prepared. I saw some fairly hot brazilian girls, got a quick lap dance which was great.
4) Mystique Bridgeport and Stamford: Very similar and girls go back n forth. Thats a mistake b/c they barely have enough girls to fill one club. But there are A LOT of men who love to spend money here b/c it looks slighlty classy inside. Competition for girls sucks for men: very few girls and a lot of men coming in after work or later with clients, just ready to spend a lot of money on girls who are average. Furthermore, there are cameras everywhere and very watchful bouncers who will speak up. One of them scared the shit of me - came in all aggressive telling me he'll throw me up and fuck me up if I don't stop being so touchy (that was in Bridgeport). In Stamford, they often mention the owner watched on camera and you really can't do much (at least they were less aggressive so I didnt piss my pants). Overall, two thumbs down.
Having said that, if you are going out here is some info:
Best to Worst, let's go!:
1) Keepers in Milford: Girls much hotter than the others (although that's not saying much) and more friendly. Management and bouncers very friendly and very lenient compared to others (well okay not Bishops Corner as far as lenient). Ratio is a little better - more girls and guys less willing to spend crazy money. Reasonable time here overall. 10-15 girls, diverse races.
2) Bishops Corner: Ghetto club but a lot of girls and extras. Sometimes very few guys so you will live like a king. Most girls are 4s to 5s, BUT a select few girls are 8s and 9s. That's where you want to hone in. Mostly Black/Latina. 10-15 girls Some beautiful.
3) Rubys II: A very quick visit so I won't say much. I left early only b/c it does not have alcohol and I really wanted a drink. It is byob which is cool if you come prepared. I saw some fairly hot brazilian girls, got a quick lap dance which was great.
4) Mystique Bridgeport and Stamford: Very similar and girls go back n forth. Thats a mistake b/c they barely have enough girls to fill one club. But there are A LOT of men who love to spend money here b/c it looks slighlty classy inside. Competition for girls sucks for men: very few girls and a lot of men coming in after work or later with clients, just ready to spend a lot of money on girls who are average. Furthermore, there are cameras everywhere and very watchful bouncers who will speak up. One of them scared the shit of me - came in all aggressive telling me he'll throw me up and fuck me up if I don't stop being so touchy (that was in Bridgeport). In Stamford, they often mention the owner watched on camera and you really can't do much (at least they were less aggressive so I didnt piss my pants). Overall, two thumbs down.
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But Pleasant Moments is awful. Girls are gross and the place is disgusting. There are a million men in there at any given time. I saw a pile of piss on the ground once. The girls are 3s and the customers are flat out dangerous. I saw a fight in there that turned into a brawl. I would never go there again.
Anyway - sorry for the mistake and this addendum to my review!
As a dancer I haven’t heard of big money in these areas and I never invest in what customers think they are seeing.
Your info given is already well known about the clubs in said area.
I saw you left a review on Mystique
This. To add, there has been an affluent exodus from Fairfield County over the past several years. The clubs were a shell of their old selves even before the pandemic. I won't argue individual observations because I wasn't there when he was, but I'm somewhat skeptical of the broader characterizations.
That is why on any of my views I won’t say if extras are there or not unless I did them myself. I only speak on first person accounts.
If he said that he himself went there a blew big money then I may believe it. But he didn’t and I know dancers who work there plus the reviews always say it’s empty, so I’m skeptical
As far ar ad exodus of wealth, post pandemic that's just not true. So many wealthy New Yorkers relocated to Fairfield County. They were used to paying 700-1000 bucks for a Vip room. These guys are now king at the Mystiques. Maybe the girls you've been talking to aren't pulling the right guys. Or maybe they don't want you there, but there is no way guys are not spending money at these two clubs.
Scruples, Pure Platinum, and Keepers are the place to go for men to have a good time and not have to break the bank. Pure Platinum is definitely picking up with more and more girls.
Things are so bad in Fairfield County right now that Beamers <strong>still</strong> hasn't re-opened. In its heyday, Beamers was hands down the highest end club in Fairfield County <u>and</u> the most likely to be entertaining high rollers in the back VIP area. Last time I was there pre-pandemic, there was a small crew of girls and almost no guys - affluent exodus wreaked havoc on it and many other local clubs.
You must have hit Scruples on a <strong>really</strong> good night because it has struggled for talent for years. Every club can make a turnaround, but the last time I was there several months ago it was a quiet and no energy shit show.
Now I'm not saying there aren't affluent guys still visiting Fairfield County clubs, but IMHO you've somehow developed a warped understanding of the overall landscape based upon very limited firsthand experiences. I suspect that the intel that Bharlem is getting is far more accurate.
The other disagreement is over dancers. I am really surprised of what I'm hearing. There are definitely guys spending money and paying men always outnumber girls in my experience. The worsening of nyc clubs has just made men flock here - there seems to be a lag in the supply of girls for now.
Anyway, that's why these forums are great. Thank you for the productive discussion. I'll keep you updated on any other Intel.
My methods for my conclusion:
- visited clubs a few times each for the most part.
- speak to locals at the club,both customers, bartenders and dancers.
- love to people watch for a bit.
- In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a fee of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience. I don't hide this hobby, though I kinda throw it into conversations so I don't look like too much of a perv.
If anything, it sounds like conditions are improving. My only disappointment is that my last two trips up there were during weekends, so I was forced to visit on busy weekend nights. I have a short list of clubs I definitely expect to spend some time in on slower nights once I have a longer trip up there, including Keepers (my favorite in a while) and Rubys (byob and good mileage in the back).
I do also intend to check out Pure Platinum, but Scruples has so consistently sucked ass in several visits over the last few years that I can't be bothered. If I am not mistaken there is a female running the place, which rarely helps a club's atmosphere.
But what is good for a guy like me - hungry girls on a slow weekday night and declining foot traffic - is not necessarily good for dancers, as Bharlem rightly alluded to.
===> "- In Fairfield County and NYC I have several contacts and colleagues as I work with a fee of the big finance firms. I have no shame asking these locals for their opinions and experience."
That's interesting on a couple of fronts. First because there is very little client entertaining going on right now in any white collar industry, especially in the northeast. Shit most companies can't even get their employees back into the office, nevermind setting up in-person visits from third-party vendors.
Second because most companies will no longer reimburse employees for entertaining in strip clubs. It still happens here and there, but it's not nearly as common as it once was. It pretty much went out of favor when the '01-'02 recession hit and never returned.
Third because nobody wants the label of pervert around his neck in a corporate setting, especially a vendor. Many corporate client contacts are now women. This stuff wasn't considered to be appropriate office talk even when club entertaining was still common 20 years ago and most definitely not today.
Myoman, you wouldn't happen to be dialing us from the 90s, would you? 😁
I'm with you on finding hungry girls which is why I agree on Pure Platinum and Ruby's.
The Mystiques in Bridgeport or Stamford are the opposite of what you and I are looking for. There are hungry guys fighting over a scarcity of girls, mostly average in quality.
I may have underrated Ruby's on my list. That seemed like it could be great, I just really wanted drinks the time I went there.