Ethnic Differences In Condom Usage

IME w/ black dancers I've encountered a good # that would fuck bareback but would not do BBBJ - I also noticed black girls are less into kissing

I have noticed similar condom distributions. The Cuban girls are 100% for both BJ and FS. Black girls go BBBJ, with a small percent not stopping a bareback dick from sliding in. White girls also BBBJ, but 100% CFS. And re kissing - tough to find in any case. Maybe Euro white girls more than others, but my experience there is with FKK, so may not apply stateside. In any case, damn, I apparently need a sample more Thai girls... 😉

I never noticed this, but interesting. Most girls I run into though insist on a condom, which I’m fine with because so do I.

The cuban girls at Follies never insisted on condoms but i did. Black women may or may not insist on it, and in my experience white women will do bbbjs but will insist on condoms. Im 32,black and never caught a single STD.

I’m not as aware of dancer ethnicities, and that limits my knowledge of this topic. I also won’t do FS without a condom, so I don’t have any knowledge of which ethnicities that will go bareback. Most dancers I’ve encountered do BBBJ, which is fine with me.

To clarify something, my preference for FS is covered. It’s not something I look for or ask for. When it is offered, it is usually by the girl just taking upon her self to stick it in without a cover. I wish I could say I had the will power to refuse BBFS every time it was “offered,” but sometimes in the heat of the moment . . .

doctorevil that’s a very good point. It takes great willpower to not just slip it in uncovered. When a sexy nude girl is on top of you - and she’s about to slide it inside - it is not easy to stop and cover up.

I actually appreciate it when the dancer won’t do it uncovered, as that eliminates my questionable judgement.

Around here the Cubans are sticklers for everything covered, probably because they are doing so much volume business.

Outside of that it's a mixed bag. IME most girls offering these things are fine with giving a BBBJ. For FS I haven't picked up any other ethnic or racial patterns as to who insists on a condom and who doesn't. It really seems to be more of an individual comfort thing.

I have never and would never do anything uncovered. STD-free and want to keep it that way.

I haven't seen much difference in white/black girls as far as condoms go. The majority seem to be up for uncovered blowies and a decent amount, 20 to 30 percent seems reasonable will fuck without one unprompted. Like others, I never push for uncovered sex so I'm not sure how many would go for it if asked. I'd guess at least half. I agree with the Cuban observation. I also agree with Rick's thought that its probably cause they often do high volume. In the few cases where the they weren't high volume girl and I got to know them a little, they fell right in line with others.

Do we have a new acronym - In The Heat of the Moment (ITHOTM)?... 😉

As the good Dr diagnoses - ITHOTM, it's easy to beat back the Cautionary brain cells yelling, "Cover up!" At least long enough to slip it in. Then, the Alibi brain cells go to work, advising that one stroke is probably okay. I mean, what's it gonna hurt? "She looks healthy," you tell yourself, "and I'm sure she exercises some caution as to who she's with." Meanwhile, the Pleasure brain cells are going, Yeah, baby! Finally, for once in our lame, miserable, PL lives, we're going for the brass ring. I mean, just look at her. Fuckin' gorgeous, and she wants ME! Those lovely eyes looking up, her breasts gently swaying as we stroke. I think she's enjoying this as much as I am. The Alibi brain cells join back in with assurance that this is a "special moment," meant to be, a product of providence. I'm on top of the world!

Afterward, of course... It's a bitch dealing with those Guilt and Worry brain cells.

Actually, Alibi is wrong, since we're obviously there at the scene... Duh! Should be Rationalization brain cells...

I always wear a condom even for head (never know what that gloss is hiding). Slipped a few times but so far whenever I got a bbj it was majority white girls.

It was also majority white girls that were willing to kiss (eventually stopped doing that too with randoms). Only one black chick was willing to kiss and suck rae and only one Hispanic was willing to kiss (just no dfk).

Majority of non-whites keep their kissing almost exclusively with their significant other. At least in regards to adult entertainers

Let's see, I had girl who claimed to be from Belize (dancing in FTL) give me a BBBJ without even asking. It took every ounce of control I had to make her stop sucking and titfuck me with her ginormous fun bags instead.

I had an African, not AA, but African hop on BBFS on an OTC in New Orleans. It was stupid as hell, given the HIV infection rate in sub-Saharan Africa, but I lucked out. Plus she was so fucking hot, I mean incomparably, indescribably hot. a 5' tall version of Tyra Banks, right down to the ridiculously huge naturals.

The other OTC stripper who was pushing BBFS was a white girl. My first OTC, but I had my wits about me enough to insist on covered.

I've had girls ask if I have a condom but most don't insist on them . I've had girls ask me to take it off. I don't see a difference by ethnicity. Mexican central American black middle eastern Indian white Korean Filipino Chinese japanese Hawaiian cuban

What strikes me the most is how willing girls are to fuck without protection.

ITC, I've received about 15 seconds of BBBJ uncovered. I was drunk and having a good time, but once my rational brain reappeared, I put on a raincoat. I pushed away a Cuban who wanted to give me BBFS. I've told many others I don't do anything uncovered.

Even with dates, it takes a lot of trust (like an exclusive relationship) before I'm willing to nut in them unprotected.

Paranoid? Maybe. But that's also why I'm not a father or a carrier or anything.

I've not encountered a particular ethnicity that is 100% cover-demanding. There are probably general trends, but no set "rules."

I've encountered quite a few Brazilians that are down for BJ or FS without a rubber, but usually only after they know you a while. Once knew a Puerto Rican stripper who jumped right on the very first time we met. It happened so fast and unexpectedly I really didn't have time to resist, but she was so hot I doubt I would have stopped her anyway.

@Dixie_Normus "1) it is the smoking gun if a SC is raided."

What does that mean exactly and how does it relate to condom useage?

^ smoking gun = evidence of extras happening if there are used condoms laying around

There's no stigma to buying condoms. Girls just like raw sex. People feel invincible about stds and figure anything can be cured. Which is false but it's just how many think. There isn't much fear. Girls will literally ask you to cum in them. It's not about race or ethnicity. It's generational.

Cubans insist more on condoms coz safe sex is more emphasized in Cuba for population control.

w.r.t. the Cubanas insisting about condoms; I don’t think it has to do w/ “volume” or anything else – extras-girls are usually not low-volume girls; they either do or they don’t; yeah there may be exceptions but not the norm; thus why I don’t think the “volume” angle is the reason.

For many of the Cubanas, it’s all business and this is where the condom thing comes in – as recent immigrants, I think Cubanas get into the SC-game under different circumstances.

For the most part, the Cubanas are not party-girls that are into drinking and doing drugs or even smoking much – a lot of them I think use stripping as a way to get ahead quicker once they get here – they use stripping to get established per se and be able to move onto something else whether is going to school and starting a career or starting a business or getting married and having kids.

Most Cubanas IMO don’t get into stripping b/c of a bad upbringing or to maintain a party lifestyle or maintain a drug habit – I think it’s more of something they feel they need to do for the short-term other than busting their ass for minimum-wage and it being longer to get established – I also wonder if many of these girls may have coyote-debts w.r.t. their voyage to the U.S. and thus use stripping to get out of those debts quicker.

The Cubanas seem to have a plan and don’t seem to use poor judgement and they see stripping as a means to and end and purely a business decision and IMO why they insist on condoms – many of these girls likely would have not gotten into stripping if they would have been born here, or raised here from little-kids; as they would have had more options and opportunities.

Although w/ the large influx/#s of Cubana-strippers over the last few years, a few seem are starting to do the career stripping thing.

True. There's no such thing as a low volume hooker. More tricks means more money. Girls with a quota for their bag still do a lot.

I don't get why pretend otherwise. It's not a big deal and it is just a business transaction.

I've seen that with Cubans. Girls have kids baby daddies. Live very normal lives outside the club.

One think that strikes me though is how open they can be about prostitution. I've had uber drivers offer me discounts with their girlfriends or friends on my way to strip clubs.

I think it depends on to the degree that the girls sees this as the beginning of a relationship.

SJG

17.6 pct USA sex workers have hIV. Condoms 95 Pct effective in preventing it / the same rate for preventing PG. Even covered your at risk then although low. So whatever your playing roulette.

Only a fool would do it bareback. It’s simply not worth it (risk).

Stripper and SA whores have many clients many who have done druggies or street whores.

"... 17.6 pct USA sex workers have hIV ..."

Where did you get this?

how you guys dking strippers?

I always use condoms, and every stripper I’ve done it with insisted on condoms as well, regardless of race. And I prefer to keep it that way. Nothings worth getting an std.

I don’t personally like to use Magnums - I wish we could bareback every chick like back in the 20’s and 30’s where anything you got a shot of penicillin would clear it all up. But unfortunately, a lot of stuff you can get today doesn’t clear up. I have gone bare several times with random chicks - as another poster mentioned, it can be difficult to turn down a hot, horny, nude dancer with a dripping wet pussy and throbbing clit trying to bounce up and down on your pole. And for those that like every hole occupied, that 3rd hole is almost always uncovered…

Im really trying to change my ways…

Tbh most of the differences I've seen with strippers is driven by what they think other girls are doing, but if I'm generalizing the Cuban dancers are usually the ones that start at everything covered and trying to get you outta there in a hurry.

I've had 2 Cubans ( Gold club Tampa and Cheetah Pompano) do bbbj to start the session. The other 95% start covered.