Gentleman’s treatment or Leave you alone
Muddy
USA
Sunday, January 30, 2022 5:40 PM
I was recently at a Rick’s and as I walk in a guy in the suit introduces himself, gives me a rundown of everything, instroduces me to the bartender, asks me what I’m into, even starts playing matchmaker, breaking down where this girl is from or that girls ethnicity. I tell him I like to settle in a little first it’s all good aka damn dude I just sat down. While the guy was friendly and professional I just thought he was doing a little too much.
My question do you like this kind of stuff? Getting treated like a big shot. I can’t say a lot of strip clubs even do that kind of stuff to begin with but these kind of places are out there.
My question do you like this kind of stuff? Getting treated like a big shot. I can’t say a lot of strip clubs even do that kind of stuff to begin with but these kind of places are out there.
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Come to think of it, I can't stand those kind of sales tactics anywhere else either, like at a car dealership or department store. When I want help I'll ask for it.
In a dive bar it doesn't matter, there it's best to have a favorite bartender, and sit in that serving section, that will get you favorable interaction by the girls.
I like being more low key though. At some clubs management won't let you be there if they link you to the girls. Like if they know you date or they spend too much time with you instead of working.
Bartenders size customers up and tell girls who has what by how they paid. Sets girls up for tips. They're bottom feeders.
Managers view being friendly with regulars as a way to hustle easy marks. If they know you go with hookers they get a cut.
1. Hire good security.
2. Hire good cleaning staff.
3. Not get greedy.
Otherwise, just back off and let me enjoy the company of the dancers. Anything else smells pimpy.
Telling another dude that I’m looking for a grumpy munchkin from a sweet Asian dancer, isn’t my thing.
What I have done in the past is see if the place I have not visited before has some kind of a VIP card of some sort. Email the web site contact and explain that I will be in the area and could I get a temporary one.
Several times they said sure and to pick it up at the front desk or see a manager. (Some times they want you to pay a full VIP membership at which I say I'll go to another club). Usually the manager or his assistant is the person actually gives you the card and they already know that you are from out of town and are willing to give you some perks or keep and eye on your drink level, maybe even a free drink, to make sure you write a favorable review and spend some cash on your visit.
Don't let shailynn fool you boys! He is one of my sugar daddy's! He is still shy about admitting he is on the pink team though... 😉
i don't want to give anymore money to the club after a cover charge, a mandatory drink, and the cut of the vip / lapper room. after i pay the obligatory fees the girl that i plan to be hanging with is the only one that i want to give my money to.
The odd thing was that the dancers really disliked him because he was overly strict on enforcing rules with them about being late, getting to the stage when called, being on their phones too much, etc.
They are not his employees. They pay to be there and can spend their time as they see fit. He certainly has a right to decide which merchants can set up shop in the bazaar and when they my do so, but beyond that micromanaging their behavior opens them up to misclassification lawsuits down the road.
And if the club allows prostitution its coz the manager gets a cut
Not into being "matched" though, sounds like a scam.
This approach leaves it up to the manager, to direct you to dancers. You might think this is to provide a better experience, but remember that nothing in a strip club is free. Maybe the dancers are greasing the manager? Or maybe you are going to get the stripper with the lazy eye at first? You slip the manager a $20, and you get the dancer with a full set of teeth and no flatulence…
Like Papi said, I do appreciate a staff member saying hello & checking on things. Similar to what a manager or supervisor might do in a restaurant. Check in, make themselves available, so on. But it's not like I've ever walked out of a club & thought "fuck, if only a manager would come over and make me feel special I'd like this place more" or similarly "hmmm, I like the chicks better at Club A, but the manager was so helpful at Club B I'm gonna go there"