What would you do?
Suppose you were in a club and a HAS had caught your eyes, and from the Stage action and the action in a mini LD you had got you knew a private would be awesome, but turned out to be more than you ever thought possible. DFKing, rubbing Mr. Happy on the Bare Kitty was driving you Wild. Then all of a sudden she was hiding Mr. Happy in the Kitty, what would you do?
1. Freak out? (I almost did)
2. Enjoy and come back to see her as often as you can?
3. Explain all that was fine, but Mr. Happy was nervous playing in the rain without his rain coat?
4. Stay away from her?
Just curious what other tuscl members have or would?
1. Freak out? (I almost did)
2. Enjoy and come back to see her as often as you can?
3. Explain all that was fine, but Mr. Happy was nervous playing in the rain without his rain coat?
4. Stay away from her?
Just curious what other tuscl members have or would?
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I believe there are 3-5 regular posters on this discussion board that HAVE experienced that very same scenario, and I'm pretty sure they all took the path of well-lubed, least resistance.
Like I said, it's never happened to me ITC, but it HAS happened OTC. You know, things go VERY well ITC - so much so that an unplanned, impromptu OTC sexpedition is negotiated and there isn't enough time to grab protection... That has happened to me more times than I'd like to think about (though it makes for great fantasizing later [wink]). Every time it happens, I am paranoid for weeks. Every little itch, twinge, mark makes me cringe with dread. After that, you kind'a forget about it, even though we all know that just because there are no symptoms, it doesn't mean that I'm "out of the woods".
As for your mind wandering and wondering when you should return... ASAP! You have to strike while the iron's still hot, as the saying goes. Because of my situation (home status, and location), repeat "performances" have not happened, basically because I missed the window of opportunity.
So... my advice to you... the sooner you get back there, the better! (preferably WITH protection)
A couple of weeks ago, a dancer asked me, "What are your limits?" I told her that I had none, and ended up with a BBBJ. I'm afraid that my only limit is the refusal of the dancer to go past a certain point. When the dancer has no such restraint, then the whole thing just becomes a trip down the rabbit hole.
I admit it--I'm a slut. I also get tested for stds, from a congenial and sympathetic doctor, every six months.
You guys are brave. I've always used protection and get nervous with just incidental sexual contact of skin to skin. The family doctor told me that he loved prostitutes until he received medical training. He said after that he was too afraid to ever enjoy that pleasure again and opted for a faithful wife. He said because of the diseases he saw that the wife being faithful went from negligible importance to very important. Of course, he said he hadn't wanted to get married at all before receiving his medical training.
Anyway, I would be scared off and run like the wind unless she was super hot. :)
Thankfully, I have GREAT medical insurance coverage, and my doctor knows of my club activities, so when he sees me, he usually asks, "Anothr blood workup?" Cost: $12 co-pay office visit - everything from there is free!
I'm not sure why I'm so paranoid. I have all the life insurance I need, and I have health insurance in place. I guess that I should take advantage of all opportunities for discretion as may present themselves.
I guess I just consider the out-of-pocket costs of blood screens and related testing costs to be part of the price I pay for the life that I have chosen via this hobby.
Be guided appropriately....
Actually, I think the most sensitive HIV tests don't pick up anything for a couple of weeks. However, they are not very accurate...the most accurate tests require a wait of six months, to allow the virus time to reproduce in histologically significant numbers.
That's a lot of time lying awake at night misconstruing every symptom you might have (and adopting a very liberal construction of what might be a "symptom.") Believe me, I know.
Given all that, ARE YOU INSANE?!?
It seems like even the sane people that I know don't see any problem with unprotected sex. Some use the argument about age. Heck, I only can expect to live this many years why not live life to its fullest? Others think it just reduces the fun too much or their wiener is too small so the condom is always falling off. Believe it or not some even complain about the price! I guess they are really sane.
I think it is INSANE, but I also think that is a minority view among men and women. It is normal for women to think I'm crazy when I start to put on a condom. Unless she is into it does cut into the fun or passion or whatever good was happening so hopefully she is the one expecting the man to be covered and she's into it.
I don't even know how he managed to fall for the sting. You say how much for a BJ? How much for FS? I don't talk like that at least unless I know her and even then it seems strained. I've seen it on video where people are being busted. I don't really understand it. Now, if the game changes to where she is talking prices then yes that is a different ballgame. I've had real hookers do that, surprisingly, and even then I'm not into a freaking menu like that. During negotiations I better be getting a lot of sampling. I don't know. It doesn't make any sense unless the game has changed drastically.
So a lady is telling me she will give me a BJ for $40. I say sounds good. Am I busted? Or, does she have to pull my pants down and start sucking? Now I'm busted? Or, perhaps when she demands payment for services rendered and then I pay her. Now I'm busted? Times change. What they show on TV the guy is usually being brain dead and perhaps that is just propaganda and the guy can just be silent and willing and get busted.
There is a lot of propaganda out there that sounds wonderful until you actually get experience. Police officer smashes down the door to your home without a warrant and without probable cause, and finds a dime bag or plants a dime bag. The court system is going to protect your constitional rights? I think there is more chance of finding snowballs in hell or having Jesus the son of god declare himself to be running for mayor of Atlanta.
I have to agree that it IS absolutely insane to let things continue to the point of unprotected FS. However, if Mr Happy found himself mere inches from an inviting orifice, I don't think I would be able to stop and zip up like Chandler suggests.
Maybe I need to start carrying at least one rubber with me, instead of keeping the whole stash at the hotel.
Like my brother..... I've lived a completely FULL life by the time I was 50! I did everything I ever wanted to do in life. I met everyone I ever wanted to meet in life. I did it ALL! I have led a VERY FULL life and am enjoying the remainder of my life.
However, if I were to "kick the bucket" tomorrow.... YOU can all say...
"Hey, I bet that freaky pervert Bones is having a good time UP or DOWN there!"