I'll be honest I have. I've been criticized as being over the top in the past and took a step back and reevaluated how I did things, I was wrong, out of line, mistaken. I've always had a hard time locking down a CF and felt that's just how I needed to be to get by. Well no more.
Now what I do is when she's coming out of the club after her shift, I utilize a soft bear hug technique and very gently place her in a now very spacious trunk. No more cramped nonsense. All the amenities, I got an empty Gatorade piss bottle in there if she has to go, AM/FM radio for entertainment, anything really you would need. And I no longer believe duct taping the mouth, I feel it's cruel and unusual, she should be able to speak her mind completely. What I do now instead is I just sound proof the trunk.
And also I'm not forgetting about compensation, minimum wage is $15 in New York she gets every bit of it for every hour I have her in captivity, any health expenses I'm going out of pocket for her, no questions asked, I'm all about the California stripper labor movement, I'm very big a union guy. I've sworn an oath that none of my indentured servants gets treated unfairly one iota. Not one.
I then I blast on repeat loop Together Forever by Rick Astley youtube.com to sort of give her a reasonable expectation of what I'm looking for in the relationship. I think communication is key. Look I've made changes for 2022 now how about you? I think we can all look within ourselves to get better, get more tolerant, and really change our ways for a brighter future. 👍
The times one has to be more aware. is in the work place, especially if you are of higher rank. That is where men have used their position to extract concessions, and this is wrong.
SJG