Would you fly a foreign instathot out?
Icee Loco (asshole)
I'm a fucking loser
Say you've met instathots in the UK Germany and Australia ....if you really hit it off would you pay for her to visit you or you to visit her? I donno it seems like a lit for something that most likely won't go anywhere coz if the distance
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If it was outside of covid times - and I was planning a trip near the THOT’s location - I might see if she would be interested in getting together.
I don’t think it’s worth the money to fly a girl in. The beauty seen through Internet photos - and chatting - is far different than the person you might meet.
And if that were the case, then yes. Maybe I would.
It just seems like not worth it because what can realistically come of it. On the other hand its potential for a lot of fun and spending time with someone I like. Despite the abundance of local instathots they're not her. I donno. She wants me to visit but I'm not up for the weather there now.
Good for you...?
Risks:
- You may lose your money (airfare, hotel, etc.), especially if she asks you to send her cash to buy airfare.
- She may never show.
- She may take the flight, then get sent home without proper visa or passport, no vaccination, etc.
- She may change the flight and when she lands meet someone else. (That's real life, people.)
- She may arrive, but be a different person than you expected.
- She may arrive, delay the expected fun for days, then tell you she's changed her mind and won't close the deal.
- Sha may arrive, with drugs, another person (who could be a minor and/or not her relative) and get arrested at the airport.
Rewards:
- BEST: She arrives, gives you road head on the way to the hotel/your home and never stops pleasing you until you take her back to the airport.
- GOOD: She arrives, greets you warmly and you have a pretty good time for a few days.
- WORST: She arrives and you both feel a little awkward, but you go through with your plans, fuck once, and you can't wait to kick her out of your car at the airport.
Of the three "reward" levels, you are more likely to get Good or Worst - meeting someone in real life for several days of 24/7 contact is very different than a 2 hour Facetime once a week.
Now you know the calculus. Good luck solving this equation.
If you share a decent vibe, and conversation, it might be best to continue as you are. When you change part of the relationship, like moving to in person meetings, it can fuck it up.
I know some folks think it’s important to take it to the next level. It’s not always a good thing.
I will play along and comment and m your discussion.
I this the Instagram girl from England you asked us to rate that is not white or gorgeous?
In any case, it is called cat-fishing you what they say “if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.”
In any case it is your plan to bring her to the USA and “put her in a winning team”?
Or make her your Sugar Baby?
Just remember to be careful out there.
I just want to see her in person. See how it goes.
You wrote and I quote:
“I just want to see her in person. See how it goes”
Who is stopping you from going to see her in person and see how it goes?
What are you afraid of?
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Instathots are easier than people think. Too many men put them on a pedestal coz of their filtered pics
Yeah there are plenty domestic instathots but it's just about her as a person.
You did it as phatboi.
You did it as IceyDodo.
You did it as 2icee.
You continue to do it on a regular basis.
You're problem is that you're either too much of a dumbass or pompous ass or both to know it.
Oh, and you're incapable of admitting fault even when dead wrong.
LMFAO not to mention that you're pretty high up on the TUSCL most ignored list. 🤭🤡
I reiterate, it’s best left online.
If the stars align, and shes as beautiful and compatible in person, you are a very lucky guy. However, the chances are highly against success. It’s not worth the work. You getting her scheduled for a flight, getting her on the plane, and then enjoying her company is very low probability.
Meat....thats not true. When you face time with someone every day text ...you build q bond. And there's enthusiasm to meet on both parts. It's not about going to extremes to get laid or whatever. It's just wanting to see someone in person. You're out of touch with reality
My thought is a simple one. It’s working from afar, so why make any big changes - that could upset the connection you currently feel?
You wrote and I quote:
“Just a desire to touch feel a person with a connection.”
Once again I ask you; who is stopping you from going to see her “to touch feel a person with a connection”?
What are you afraid of, besides the excuse of cold weather?
Are your insecurities combined with social anxiety the cause of your fear of failure with your new girl obsession?
She's not an obsession. I was wondering who had experiences with foreign instathots. Meeting up isn't a big deal. It's what comes after. That's a huge potential investment.
You wrote and I quote:
“huge potential investment.”
So what kind of Return On Investment (ROI) are you expecting?
Are you going to put her in your “wining team”?
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So what kind of Return On the Huge Investment (ROHI) would you be expecting?
Are you going to put her in your “wining team”?
Is she going to be your Sugar Baby?
I s she going to be a replacement for the girl you are obsessed with and that a half Boricua/Greek, pusher/drug dealer “biker” that was able to get her hooked on drugs and take it away from your “winning team”...?
And I'm not obsessed with anyone. My ex or whatever she is admits to loving and being in love with me.
And if a bitch wants to choose up that's on her.
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You wrote and I quote:
“Despite the abundance of local instathots they're not her. I donno. She wants me to visit but I'm not up for the weather there now.”
If she wants you to visit is because she wants to have sex with you or she wants to get a kidney out of you.
In any case your weather excuse is not making any sense.
What are you really afraid of?
Icee is full of shit from eating those beans!
I'm not afraid. I'm just debating it because of the potential commitment or investment after like a month of knowing each other. I'd rather wait and see if things stay the same or develop or fade before taking it to another level. And its not just about sex.
If the logistics can be arranged without a huge inconvenience to both of you, then it’s worth a try. I hope you can connect in person, and I hope it goes well.
You wrote and I quote:
“It makes perfect sense for her to visit when the weather is nice here and sucks there.”
So she asked you to go visit her there and you said what?
Have you asked her to visit you here and she said what?
It seems to me this story has many 🕳 holes.
What part of the story are you not sure about telling?
Cjkent. There aren't holes in anything. She invited me first.i suggested if we meet we should do it where we can enjoy things more. Coz of the weather.
You wrote and I quote:
“She invited me first.i suggested if we meet we should do it where we can enjoy things more. Coz of the weather.”
And what was her answer to your suggestion, to meet where you can enjoy things more...?
You wrote and I quote:
“We talk about a lot of things. Me staying with her when it warms up. Her visiting here. Or meeting up someplace like Jamaica.”
Based on your original question: Would you fly a foreign instathot out?
Did you talk about “flying” her to visit/meet you?
So you did offer to “fly” her out and she said what?
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So you did offer to “fly” her out and she said what?
You wrote and I quote:
“She's down for it. For anything really.”
So why haven’t you followed through with “flying” her out to be welcomed by the “winning team”? Since she is “down for anything”...
What area you afraid of?
You wrote and I quote:
“Cjkent I'm afraid we'll have feelings and then what? I can't ask her to give up everything and come here and I can't do it and go there. I can't ask for anything when were on different continents.”
In my humble opinion and limited experience, you have an insecurity problem about “having feelings” if you develop a relationship of course you can ask her to move to the USA, she doesn’t have to give up everything, lots of women do move to the USA every year and still maintain ties and communication/visit with their families and friends.
Just before Covid I was invited to the weeding of the son of a colleague friend that married a girl from France, they had their weeding in France and invited a lot of people there, and then they moved to live in New York.
Also we all know a lot of European women move to Los Angeles/Beverly Hills to work as Actresses/Nannies/Real High End Escorts/Sugar Babies/Porn Stars/Strippers etc etc
You should also know a few European women move to Los Angeles to attend universities.
Yes believe or not you do can ask.
You wrote and I quote:
“She's down for it. For anything really.”
So you should fly her out to California to enjoy the better winter and then visit her in England in the spring or summertime, to “see how it goes” in person, don’t waste her time and your time if it doesn’t work out, but if it works enjoy the process.
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You wrote and I quote:
“Despite the abundance of local instathots they're not her.”
If she is so unique and the only one for you and “She's down for it. For anything really.” why aren’t you all over her right now?
I have to ask; What are you waiting for? And what are you afraid of?
Also are you ok being the cuck when she still fucks other guys for coke behind your back? Do you love that about her?
Just curious.
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“My ex loves me. My new bitch is obsessed with me lulz”
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