Baby Talk with Strippers

Real front room makeout session, titty sucking, FIV, and DATY. Then off to the back room to start over again from the beginning and to bring it on home.

SJG

I don't mind some whimsical banter back and forth with a dancer, but the dancers that I gravitate towards aren't the ones who are overly theatrical. Meaning, not a lot of lovey-dovey baby talk like we're the teen versions of ourselves, nor a lot of overblown porno movie dialogue.

I was with a dancer for the first time OTC once and she was laying it on really thick with the "pornstar talk" and I eventually said, "You know, I'm okay with both of us just talking like regular people." She laughed and said, "Oh, thank you." And we had a great time.

Towards the end of our time together I apologized for possibly breaking her routine or make it sound like I didn't appreciate her dramatic efforts. She said she appreciated being a little less "on", and we talked about it a bit more. She noted that a lot of dancers will do that because customers are actually into it, but also because these overblown dramatic personas are a barrier between their actual personality and the customer. And I can see the sense of that.

Flirting has to be sincere or it's weird.

===> "Flirting has to be sincere or it's weird."

I hate to say it, but I have to agree with this. I'm certainly no "buttoned down type" when it comes to my dealings with strippers - the interactions and banter are part of the fun for me. But this would put a girl in the "Headcase - Stay Away" category for me.

Sexy banter's fine - I get it and play along. The only version that turns me off is the "daddy" shit... like, "Oh daddy, where have you been? Little girl's been lonely. I need my big daddy to take care of me." Always a hard no.

I've always discouraged strippers from texting me by just telling them I'm old and never learned how to text. I've always been afraid they would be texting me trying to get me to come into the club to visit them when it was slow there and they weren't making enough money. Do they do that? If a regular texted me and asked me to come see her at the club and I didn't feel like it I'm not sure what the proper response would be.