Does anyone know how to make exciting connections in the industry?

I'm not a dancer, but I'd like to be. Or rather, I'd like to live the exciting life of an industry insider. Have friends in the industry, get invited to parties, have impressive pictures to put on my Instagram, stuff like that.

Someone somewhere said that you should make friends with strippers because strippers know where the best parties are and have access to them. I wanna be that stripper. And best I can figure the way to do that is to make industry connections. Friends of strippers get into cool parties because strippers are themselves friends of industry players.

70 comments

  • misterorange
    3 years ago
    How about go fuck yourself.
  • 8TM
    3 years ago
    Nice try Beat100
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    Who?
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    No 100% sure way. The ways you can try, from most to least likely to work:
    1. Be a stripper or otherwise work at a strip club.
    2. Date a stripper and be a positive thing in her life.
    3. Data a traumatized stripper and trauma-bond with her.
    4. Buy lots of dances, don't be judgmental or clingy, listen as much as you talk.

    If you go to the parties only traumatized strippers go to, you won't like them unless you're traumatized or a traumatizer.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    I intend to drink straight from the hose and be a dancer myself. But not every dancer is connected, a lot of dancers are just looking to make money. I wanna make friends. Valuable friends that will get me places.
  • twentyfive
    3 years ago
    Sounds like a sure fire plan, we have a name for people like you
    We call them Trolls
  • motorhead
    3 years ago
    Not sure where you’re getting the idea that strippers lead a glamorous life. The closest they get to living the life of a Kardashian is watching it on TV
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    Not the life of a Kardashian, no. That's "glamour." I'm looking for fun. Nightlife and stuff. For someone to text me and ask if I wanna go to a thing at a club.
  • mickey48066
    3 years ago
    I think you've been watching too many rap videos. Most strippers I know can barely pay their rent or electricity bill. I guess they are good for a fun time but is that the horse you want to hitch your wagon to?
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Who has this plan worked for except Cardi B? If you want to get into porn, no internship stripping is required. Yes there are other ex-stripper celebs, but mostly they succeeded in spite of stripping not by stripping.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Top dancers can save up enough to open their own club. But it seems to happen rarely if ever. They save for college or some other non-adult business.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    I'm not looking to be a millionaire either, it's just, I'm told dancers have connections to the best parties. I just want to be in a position where I can go to those parties. But if I'm a dancer myself, I'd be the one inviting people to these parties. I want to trickle the party down to the lower partying class.
  • motorhead
    3 years ago
    Again, I don’t know where you are hearing that strippers are well connected to the party circuit.

    All the dancers i know get don’t get home til 4 am. They work most weekends. They go home and take care of their kids. And if they do ever find the time to go out it’s usually with a few other dancers (their only friends) for a birthday celebration.

  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Have you auditioned at any clubs?
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    I haven't auditioned yet, I wanted to make a plan first. Because what I heard was that successful dancers can get connected. But you guys are telling me that's wrong.

    So how do I get connected? That's what I want.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    I've been a fan of many (but not all) strippers too. With the ones I like, their "parties" are typically going out to a nice restaurant. I got invited occasionally, but I never expected to be. When you're a fan who expects to become a friend, you're on the road to being a stalker.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    That doesn't sound like the way, then. I don't wanna be a stalker, I wanna be a friend/valuable connection to people in the industry. Also I'm not crazy about nice restaurants.
  • whodey
    3 years ago
    Most strippers aren't going to the big high end parties unless they are hired to work those parties. The reason for this is simple - most high end strippers are working nights and weekends when the best parties are happening.

    How many of the parties that you want to go to happen after 6pm or on Fridays and Saturdays? You can pretty much eliminate going to those parties since as a successful stripper you will be working those hours.

    Now if you just want to be able to post hot pics of you and your hot friends while barely dressed while holding lots of money becoming a stripper is a decent path to that. It is also a good way to get a lot of followers on social media from the guys at the club.

    If you want to be in with the big party crowd you need to find a job that keeps your nights and weekends free. Then spend all of your free nights and weekends going to a bunch of high end clubs and party your ass off drinking with the hottest girls you can find and flirting with the hottest guys. If you do this often enough you will eventually become friends with enough of them to get invited to the parties you want.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    That'll make me friends with beautiful people, but I'm looking for the "fun parties." The kind that people claim only strippers/industry people know about/how to get into.
  • JamesSD
    3 years ago
    Sell cocaine?
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    I don't think the dancers at the clubs I've been to go to special, exclusive parties. When they don't get enough nightlife at work, they go to the bars, concerts and raves that are open to the general public.

    One dancer told me she got invited to an in-club orgy with Tiger Woods, but she declined. The dancers who participated were compensated in four figures, but it didn't sound like they became Tiger's valued contacts.
  • BubbleYum
    3 years ago
    This OP confusing high end escorts for dancers? Unless an invite is extended by the host, nobody's getting invited to parties. And, at least in Detroit, non disclosure agreements are a thing, so good luck posting about the sexcapades and escapades later.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Dc at least posts shit other than Cumming in your pants or bargaining with hookers.


    They get invited in exchange for gucking or stripping. Like at yacht or mansion parties with a few guys. They don't post the parts where they do coke or Molly and get fucked for $$$

    As for clubs. Wannabe models get more invites to sit at tables and keep simps who get bottles company.

    Its nothing glamorous.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    2ICEE, are you saying these girls are hired to go to parties?
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    3 years ago
    Well, I'm not taking this thread or the the OP remotely seriously.
  • datinman
    3 years ago
    "exciting life of an industry insider."

    Music industry, movie industry, porn industry are all things. Stripper industry, to my knowledge is not a thing as far as industry parties, award shows, networking, etc.

    OTOH, TUSCL members are as connected as you can get in the fast pace exciting stripper industry. We have semi regular meet and greets. Post some revealing photos and post why we should let you attend and you might just get lucky. Desertscrub is our party planner. Feel free to DM him.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    From what I understand there's some overlap in the broader sex work industry/industries.
  • skibum609
    3 years ago
    After reading this drivel I pray that the climate emergency kills us all.....today.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Nowadays porn stars make money mostly by touring strip clubs and featuring, and/or high-end escorting. From what I've been told, feature dancers and house dancers don't typically hang together. The features bring in people who don't spend with the house dancers generally.

    Like motorhead and whodey, from knowing strippers, I've never heard about anything like what you're looking for. If it exists, the best odds of finding it are in Vegas, or maybe Miami.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    @Ishy don't you ever get tired of all of us guys who can't get a good lay for free comiserating? I mean maybe that's who Leucippat really is too, but at least role-playing.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    Now we're getting somewhere. What kinds of friends are feature dancers making? What kinds of lives are they living?
  • DenimChicken
    3 years ago
    This idiot has the same thread on stripperweb.

    You want to get into the lives of dancers? Ill give you a shortlist

    Substance abuse
    poor money management
    Children from men that are jobless
    "partying" with similar women
    unstable home lives

    Sounds exotic and so exclusive, doesn't it?

    Of course this isnt the case for everybody but in my experience at least one or two hit rather consistently....often all of them.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    This can happen, but if there were inherent shame in being a dancer, there wouldn't be a Stripperweb. Obviously it's totally fine to wanna dance and have the life of a dancer.
  • skibum609
    3 years ago
    There are many websites committed to the cause of the Nazis. Is it ok to be a Nazi? The life of a dancer? great for 5 years: toothless and living in abusive poverty later in life. Nice trolling by the way fake.
  • rickthelion
    3 years ago
    You’ll have to ignore skifredo. He’s a homeless crab living behind a Starbucks and using their WiFi to post. He’s also obsessed with Nazis. He isn’t a Nazi, mind you. In fact, he hates Nazis. So that’s one plus for the guy...er...crab. But he is frickin’ obsessed...

    Anyhoo, assuming you aren’t a troll, I’ll give you some insights. Some ricksights if you will:

    If you’re actually hot enough we could have a council of ricks meetup and mentor you. Now you’ll be doing some pretty unspeakable things if you accept our help. For example, you might have to be gangbanged by a lion, a vulture, and a dugan. Are you prepared for that?

    And if you’re a troll I’ve got one word for you: wildebeest. ROAR!!!
  • Cashman1234
    3 years ago
    I think the OP is confusing strippers and entertainers. Strippers aren’t entertainment industry insiders, they dance in clubs for money. It seems glamorous if you watch certain parts of a movie like Hustlers. But, in 95% of the cases, it’s not.

    If you are talking about invites to private parties, then those strippers are hired to “dance” for a group of horny guys in an expensive hotel suite. If you believe they are just dancing, then you are naive.

    If you want to get into cool parties, you should become a celebrity or one of those Internet celebs - as you will find more red carpet stuff there. If you can leech off of a big celebrity as part of an entourage you will likely get into many cool parties too.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    What I was assuming was that strippers make friends with entertainment industry insiders. Do they not? If not, how do I make friends with industry insiders?
  • datinman
    3 years ago
    I just read that Rihanna is a billionaire. Now, I have always found her kind of weird looking with too much forehead. But 1.7 billion dollars has moved up to an 8 in my book. My question is, does anyone know how I can be invited to a fun industry party with her? I'm sure I'm just a FRMOS away from being Mr. Rihanna. Thanks in advanced.
  • rickthelion
    3 years ago
    We ricks aren’t just celebrities - we’re frickin’ legends.

    I mean really...how many lions wear stylin’ suits like me? Not bloody many. Back in tha NC when one of my chums would eat a tourist and take his suit it just wouldn’t hang right. I’m a rick so I got S-T-Y-L-E style.

    Even sans suit we ricks are S-M-O-O-T-H smooth. Check out the video my bud ricktheorangutan sent: https://imgur.com/gallery/Nlr1ACN

    Is that smooth or is that smooth? Trust me...it be smooth.
  • skibum609
    3 years ago
    Lmao^. I think Rhianna is hot. Always have; no idea why. Just snapchat her for an invite.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Leucippat they're not friends and there aren't any so-called insiders. If you're a guy and pay you get in. A promoter or DJ will have their own table and yeah they can invite people to it. But usually they invite male friends and charge them a discount. Then try to get girls and get them drunk to fuck.

    But generally strippers and wannabe models are hired. Sometimes paid as little as a.free bottle of alcohol. To be eye candy at a function or club night.

    Mansion and airbnb parties are sausage fests where broke niggas pool their money to rent the place and hire some hoes.

    If you want to be friends with industry bottom feeders like promoters and djs hang around them and be a sycophant.

    Or just pay a cover charge and go.
  • JamesSD
    3 years ago
    And seriously most of the strippers I have talked to said they don't really go to clubs and parties unless they are 18 or 19. Most girls who end up strippers were partying in high school and using fake IDs to get into bars at 18.
  • MackTruck
    3 years ago
    I try farting on them.
  • theeastcoast757
    3 years ago
    Definitely fed this troll lol
  • Mate27
    3 years ago
    You need to suck a lot of cock! You should learn how to blow and do some blow. You’ll fit right in if you do.
  • Cashman1234
    3 years ago
    Luckily it’s 2021 and fame no longer requires talent.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Troll or not the thread brings up valid points. How men create gps by making women out to be something they're not.

    And the whole illusion of pretending nightlife is glamorous
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    Who's pretending? Maybe some people don't like the nightlife, but it's what I want.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Youre pretending. Its not about liking or not liking its about making it what it isn't.

    Just find a promoter and ask how much the cover charge is. Its that simple
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    But I'm looking for the supposed "really hot spots" that only the connected people know of.
  • twentyfive
    3 years ago
    ^ Heres the GPS coordinates for the hottest place in the United States
    Death_Valley
    =36_14_49_N_116_49_01_W_dim:86km_region:US-CA_type:landmark
    Don’t need to be an insider
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Leucippat industry nights are advertised.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    I'm not sure what you mean, 2ICEE. What are "industry nights?"
  • TheeOSU
    3 years ago
    "What are "industry nights?"



    "Industry days", after sunset.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Industry nights are when clubs or bars give industry members discounts and freebies and a chance to network in a club setting. They're usually midweek.

  • orionsmith
    3 years ago
    I met a dancer a few weeks asking if I did private parties. Maybe she thought I was an industry insider. I don't know where I messed up. No Suit. All clothes at least a few years old. Wearing crappy worn out pre covid shoes and shorts. Must have been the drink I agreed to buy without asking the price. Went back 2 weeks later almost all different dancers. I don't even own a yacht and don't even own any crypto. Life is full of mistakes. I met a dancer a month or so ago who said she spent the whole day at the pool. Obviously she has it rough.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    I think I'm miscommunicating what kinds of parties I'm trying to get invited to.

    Try to imagine a particularly famous/important porn star. What do you think she does for fun at night? Probably not what we commoners do. She's probably doing something more fun, that we wish we could do. I want to be able to do that, and help others do that.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    Coke parties jn expensive airbnbs aren't hard to find.
  • Leucippat
    3 years ago
    Is that what they're doing? If so, I'm assuming that AirBnB is a good one to be at. That that person's house is a particularly jumpin' spot that commoners wish they could visit if they only knew how crazy things get.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    So back when I was 20, my friend was working as a janitor part time at The Gap, which was as cool then as Abercrombies is now. (Or as cool as Abercrombies was 5 minutes ago, I can't keep up.) So of course that's were strippers shopped. Strippers invited the sales chicks to a house party, the sales chicks invited my friend, he invited me. I thought it was a fun party, but not crazy wild. A chick in her early thirties put pretty heavy moves on me. She had a flock of seagulls haircut but somehow was able to make that work for her. I totally choked, still kick myself. Hard to believe now I was ever young enough that early thirties was scary cougary to me. In my pathetic way, I rolled up on a younger chick who I knew was a stripper. She had the more conventional 80s hair that makes you at least 8 inches taller. We had a nice long convo, but she said she had a boyfriend. This was back when stage dancing was the norm. She was actually pretty shy.

    So I guess maybe you should apply to be a janitor at Abercrombies or whatever the "it" store is now.
  • nicespice
    3 years ago
    Abercrombie? Wow, what an outdated place to be considered an “it” store—but it aptly fits considering the mentality the OP is coming from.

    And for similar reasons—the whole concept of being “exclusionary” and “cool” is part of a former era that I consider more early mid 2000s.

    High end men don’t want to throw as many ostentatious parties thanks to a pandemic, post #metoo, and a public who (whether correctly or incorrectly) has increased resentment against excess wealth and a shrunk middle class—and risk drawing negative attention from media and government agencies who want munniez
  • Call.Me.Ishmael
    3 years ago
    TUSCL pretty much skipped straight to the dessert tray for this troll.
  • nicespice
    3 years ago
    @ ilbbaincl Here’s some history on Abercrombie:
    https://www.businessinsider.com/history-…

    In short: people got tired of Abercrombie starting around 2008. In 2014, the CEO who had focused on only “cool good looking kids” left. Which good riddance Then Abercrombie rebranded, turned down the volume inside their stores, increased both racial and body type diversity, and turned sales back around. It’s not an “it” store by any means but it’s something considering retail isn’t what it used to be.

    If there is an “it” store, it’s clothing brands that generally don’t have brick-and-mortar space and have a focus on environmental sustainability. And that is after years of H&M, Zara, Forever21, and similar making people burned out on fashion and also feel guilty about the environment. And before anyone might pull out their political pitch forks at me, I’m just stating facts, not making moral judgments. And I usually shop at thrift stores.

    It’s an exciting changed world out there 🙂
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    It seems younguns have now fully replaced retail therapy with boomer-flaming as a leisure activity. But nicespice should really be more mindful of the quantity of greenhouse gases that boomers emit when flamed. And BTW for people my age 2008 is 5 minutes ago.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    A dancer I know was dancing at a club when Bree Olson, Charlie Sheen's goddess, came to feature dance. The club lackey assigned to drive Bree claimed that he fucked her. The dancer said that Bree seemed stuporous and indifferent enough to be randomly fucking people.

    Leucippat, Donald Trump seems to be in need of new revenue streams. For $20, he might let you spank him with a rolled up magazine, reenacting his glamorous relationship with Stormy Daniels.

    Nothing really weird or bad about what you want. Fine as a daydream, perhaps OK as a life "stretch goal". But most definitely not something to set your heart on.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    3 years ago
    I don't get why shein or fashion nova are so popular
  • skibum609
    3 years ago
    Commoners wish they could visit? LOL. Commoners lol.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Another glamorous story: I became Stripper A's regular. Being a manwhore, I soon after also became Stripper B's regular at a different club. By coincidence, Stripper B's ex best friend, Stripper C, was Stripper A's ex boyfriend's baby mama. The best part of the story is that Stripper C's parents stepped up, and the little girl is having a great childhood. This left Stripper C free for drinking, drugs, water sports, and brown showers. So, if you like the type of glamour that involves piss and poop, I may be able to hook you up.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    More glamour: To stand out, Stripper D started wearing a butt plug with a fox tail in the club. At the end of the night, she asked Stripper E for help getting it out. So E grabbed the tail, and gave it a good hard yank. Apparently, this is totally the wrong way to remove a butt plug, as it hurts like fuck. After some research, Stripper D concluded that the right way to remove a butt plug is to push it out like a big piece of poop. I never thought butt plugs (or butthole anything) was sexy. (Side note: Stripper D is mega sexy, could do fine leaving her butthole in peace.) But now that I know you take butt plugs out by pooping them out, they're even less sexy.
  • ilbbaicnl
    3 years ago
    Another exciting connection you make as a stripper is with old people who are likely to be sitting at home on a Saturday night. I was a valuable connection to my fav when she ran out of tampons on Saturday night, and her car was broke down. She calls me, I come pick her up, we go to the supermarket. (She'd always get really mad when I free-ubered her, cause she'd tell me which way to go but I'd go the way I wanted to go.) She says, since I'm here, can I get sushi too. Then we go over to the tampons, but she gets excited when she sees they have these new intra-vaginal cup things. I'm like ew do have some freak regular who's gonna drink outta that cup. Then I say, let's get both in case they're not as good as you think. But she's like nope, nope never ever using tampons again. She is so thrilled by the cups that she calls her pot dealer to tell him about them as I'm driving her, the vag cups, and the sushi back to her place. Apparently the cups work, she did make me come back to take her for tampons.
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