How rough do you like it?
Tetradon
I'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
Saturday, June 12, 2021 11:03 PM
Discussion starter--how rough do you like your sex?
Does the thought of slapping your girl's ass (civvie or stripper) when doing it doggystyle repulse you? Or do you push the S&M envelope and believe safe words are for wimps?
For me, ITC stripper sex is rarely good sex. More reason I've gotten away from extras.
Civvie dates and girlfriends, I like dirty talk, biting, slapping, choking, tying them down, and they love it even more than I do. Not into torture and that crazy shit though.
Does the thought of slapping your girl's ass (civvie or stripper) when doing it doggystyle repulse you? Or do you push the S&M envelope and believe safe words are for wimps?
For me, ITC stripper sex is rarely good sex. More reason I've gotten away from extras.
Civvie dates and girlfriends, I like dirty talk, biting, slapping, choking, tying them down, and they love it even more than I do. Not into torture and that crazy shit though.
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I’m not into S&M stuff like face-slapping or hard nipple twisting, etc, but I do love to smack that ass; not as hard as I can, but hard enough.
With some exceptions, the ebonies I’ve been with like it hard and are also more prone to be into fucking than “making love” – at times I’ve been told I’m a bit aggressive (may be my Latino DNA); and at times some of the ebonies want me to be even more aggressive – the ebonies, particularly the big-booty-ones, many seem to like their asses slapped hard – the Latinas I’ve been w/ not so much.
I'm not really into rough stuff. I've had girls want me to choke them. I felt strange doing it and never got anywhere close to hurting anyone.
I didn't learn anything, I still like it rough. Had 1 girl that loved being hit, its kinda weird, different not sure it's for me but I do it if asked. I feel like it's a very fine line between rough sex and just beating a girl up but since your dick is out it's okay. Makes me uncomfortable a little bit, kept asking if she was OK. She was in a BDSM club told me I could never hurt her tho
I definitely Dominated my stripper FWB. Made her ass red which she loved.
If you choke a gal out, what not to do is bail and hope for the best lol. For all you dudes reading this from mom's basement, go check some other forums that specialize in that sort of stuff before you try it at home. Or let your partner walk you through it if you don't know what you're doing.
It’s an awful idea to try anything rough when you are ITC. Ass slapping and choking can be fine with the right stripper - but it can easily turn into a bad situation. Dancers may say they love a good ass slapping - but when you deliver a few hard ones - and her cheeks start to burn - and she realizes your hand print is on her cheek for the rest of her shift - it can go bad quickly.
My best luck has been with civilian girls who I meet through FB and some fetlife contact. My rule is very simple - as if something feels off during our initial meet up - I stop. I’ve found a few OTC dancers who say they enjoy it rough - but most don’t want to show visible damage - so that limits the experience.
Finding a location is also a challenge - as I don’t want to bring the girls back to my house to abuse them. Hotel rooms are notorious for thin walls - and I know neighboring rooms can her the slapping and the strapping. I prefer to tie girls when they are standing - with their wrists overhead - and hotel rooms never have exposed beams.
It isn’t always easy - but getting a hotel room during the day - can work best. Put the TV volume up - and then begin the abuse.
Boundaries are discussed in advance - and I avoid girls who say they have no limits. That’s an inexperienced answer - and it means they like having their ads slapped - but not too hard. I will go as far as I can with a true freak. I will slap, beat, choke (out at times), crop, stuff her holes full, burn - and get a bit creative too. Psychological shit works very well too.
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If you choke a gal out, what not to do is bail and hope for the best lol. For all you dudes reading this from mom's basement, go check some other forums that specialize in that sort of stuff before you try it at home. Or let your partner walk you through it if you don't know what you're doing.
My thought was more regardless of what to do next, get help, run for my phone in the car or whatever it was probably better to have clothes on.
I have absolutely no interest in rough sex and don't understand the attraction. As long as no one ends up in the ER, who cares? To each his own.
I have no interest in truly rough sex and/or BDSM. If getting off means I have to learn about rigging, knots, and load-bearing beams ... well, it just seems like a lot of work. I'd also never get involved in that sort of sex with someone I don't trust completely. With that sort of sex, if things go wrong it's easy to wind up really hurting someone and/or being in the news as a result.
From the Urban Dictionary:
Donkey punching involves the male punching the sexual partner in the back of the head during anal or vaginal sex prior to orgasm, to provoke a shock causing the vaginal or anal muscles to contract around the male's penis.
How often does that happen? No idea. The stories I've heard could all be urban legend. But still ... I'd be cautious.
Usually I want her to feel it the next day with minimal marks.