Social media

This one's easy. That's a foul.

I do not want any photo or video evidence of my activities inside a strip club. No question about that.

I've noticed a lot of girls posting ig stories from clubs. Mostly if them and other girls....and the money they're making. And you can plainly see customers in them.

But I'm seeing customers do it too.

It seems to be a norm at black clubs.

I don't like it. I remember when having a phone out was against club rules at most places. That wasn't too long ago.

I guess its not a big deal. You can always ask for discretion.

No way I would let her take a pic of me in the club with her let alone doing some kind of mild kink like smelling her feet. The only way any photos are happening is if they are from my pov on my phone so there is no chance of anyone posting it anywhere.

Yeah I don’t think the guy knew he was having his photo taken and she captioned it with like can’t believe I get paid to do this shit.

Years ago, there was a bachelor party for a young guy at work. One of his buddies used a hidden camera to document the event. He thought that would be a fun memory to have. It wasn’t.

I think this goes both ways - and it’s a no no both ways. It’s not ok for any customer to take photos of strippers ITC. It’s also not ok for strippers to take photos of customers ITC.

It’s good the dancer attempted to conceal the guys identity - but it’s not good that she took his photo - and then decided to post it,

Crazy. Obviously, the dancers all have phones but I never thought of one taking a picture of a customer and posting it.

I could imagine a “no extras” dancer taking a picture of a rival dancer going to far with extras to document it and make a beef with her competition. The customer would be collateral damage in that case.

IMO, its an unspoken thing. No photos from the strip club without explicit permission. It goes both ways, absolutely. There are plenty of people who are totally fine with having pictures of them at a SC splattered on the internet, but I'm not one of them and I think they are in the small minority. You shouldn't have to ask for discretion, it should be the default posture. The fact that she blurred out parts of it shows that she knows that. I suppose its possible she got permission, in which case I'm fine with it. But there's no way I'm giving permission. I'm also not taking/posting pictures of strip clubbing activities.

It also bugs me when clubs post videos online that show customers. There's two clubs up here that do it pretty regularly. I saw one video the other day where the focus is the girl on stage, but it cuts over to some dude with a naked bitch in front of him grinding her ass on him. He's clearly got no idea he's going on Instagram, but he is. Somehow that seems much worse.

^ which clubs do that?

Second Papi's question. I need to know where not to go.

Playhouse Palm Beach and Club Rain are the ones I'm thinking of. To some extent Runway 69 as well. Check their IG's.

^ yeah - those are kinda ghetto clubs so not that surprised.

w.r.t. the OP - part of me wonders how legit these IG videos are and if they are at times/often staged for people trying to "up their social media brand" - part of me thinks the guy was either in on it; or agreed to it; or could even be her man posing as a custy for an "interesting IG story" - for w/e reason a guy with tattoos does not strike me as the typical VIP custy and strikes me more as the typical dancer BF or club staff