Vegas clubs and extras... I'm really not trying to be that girl, but...
NinaBambina
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One of my best friends is getting married this summer and her groom's bachelor party is in Vegas. One of the groomsman is my boyfriend. One of the other guys attending is also dating another bridesmaid. We actually do trust our men but the bride is not a stripper and thus does not understand how much of ruthless poachers strippers can be - especially in cutthroat Vegas. I've seen bachelor parties come into my clubs and was alarmed at how many bachelors at least get blowjobs. She has not seen this and is naive to it but I don't want to worry her because she is not worried at all. He IS a trustworthy guy, for what it's worth.
It's a destination wedding so they'll have to be traveling to yet another state right after the bachelor party where we all will be staying for almost a week so their Vegas budget will be quite limited, therefore they won't really be able to afford a ton.
I am not familiar with the current Vegas scene especially with the pandemic. What are their chances of getting offered extras in Vegas and at what price? Very importantly, what clubs are least extras friendly right now and which are the sleaziest? They are decent looking mid 30s guys who honestly would be embarrassed to pay for sex (no offense) but that doesn't mean they won't get solicited or tempted during a lap dance.
I also don't need opinions on whether or not myself or anyone else is being insecure. We all know what happens at strip clubs.
I personally will be blowing my man like 10 times in a row before I send him off to Vegas.
It's a destination wedding so they'll have to be traveling to yet another state right after the bachelor party where we all will be staying for almost a week so their Vegas budget will be quite limited, therefore they won't really be able to afford a ton.
I am not familiar with the current Vegas scene especially with the pandemic. What are their chances of getting offered extras in Vegas and at what price? Very importantly, what clubs are least extras friendly right now and which are the sleaziest? They are decent looking mid 30s guys who honestly would be embarrassed to pay for sex (no offense) but that doesn't mean they won't get solicited or tempted during a lap dance.
I also don't need opinions on whether or not myself or anyone else is being insecure. We all know what happens at strip clubs.
I personally will be blowing my man like 10 times in a row before I send him off to Vegas.
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I haven't been to Vegas since before covid but at that time extras were very expensive compared to most of the country. Most of the offers I did receive were in the $500+ (including the club cost for vip) for a blowjob and $1000+ (including the club cost for vip) for sex. I have only been to a couple of upscale clubs in Vegas so it may be different at other clubs.
With their budget being quite limited I wouldn't worry about them getting laid in a Vegas strip club. There is more of a risk of them getting propositioned in a casino by a call girl for a reasonable price, or just hooking up with a civie girl looking to go wild in Vegas in a regular bar or club. If you trust him to avoid those temptations then he should be fine in Vegas.
Reality is men and women are different – for a guy getting naughty one night under particular circumstances does not mean he feels differently towards his S.O.; again males are wired differently than females (him being with a random chick and being w/ his S.O. are two different things) – not saying a guy shouldn’t abstain from being w/ anyone else no-matter the circumstances, but like I said the flesh is weak – if it bothers you that much then have a conversation w/ him and speak your peace and this may weigh on his mind when/if temptation comes knocking – but at the end of the day throughout history women + money + alcohol often has certain consequences.
Take into account these are all pre-COVID situations.
1. Vegas clubs are stupid expensive. Their cover charges will vary depending on how busy they are. I’ve paid up to $60 on a busy Friday night. You’re looking at $15 water, $20 drink, wallets get drained fast.
2. I have never gotten extras inside a Vegas club. My “girlfriend” was so paranoid to get caught kissing me while working inside of Sapphires that she’d get reprimanded and possibly fired. Do they happen? Yes, but IME it’s extremely rare. EXTREMELY RARE. One of the girls I “dated” assured me she never had to do extras in a club while working in Vegas. She said most of the guys dumb enough to agree to a VIP were already too drunk to function anyway although there are different “levels” of VIPs in many Vegas clubs. Years ago my 2 friends and I were at Larry Flints club 4AM because one guy in the group insisted on going. My other friend and I were sitting at a table and striked up a conversation with another guy sitting next to us. This guy was debating going to VIP for $1,000 for a hand job. Yes a hand job. We were like “dude are you out of your mind?” Heavy pressure from the stripper trying to lure him in there. We were trying to tell him all he had to do was go back to his hotel and find a hooker walking the floor for $300 but he wasn’t hearing any of that.
3. I’ve been to Vegas clubs with groups of guys, bachelor parties, solo or with 1 or 2 other guys. Most strippers generally loath bachelor parties in Vegas because they’re cheap and annoying. They usually try to lure a few guys from the group to VIP where a guy will pay $500 for 40 minutes of light grinding and boobie touching.
4. If you’re worried about the guys your biggest worry should be at the regular clubs where in usual times there’s wall to wall ass. If a group of guys wants to have some clout at a Vegas club they’re going to have to drop some money. Depending on the club and the mount of guys to get a table they’re going to need to buy some bottles and if they have 6 guys you’re looking at each guy dropping a minimum of $200 just to walk through the door. If they just pay a $50 cover charge and stand in the corner by the bar they will be ignored, even girls from Kansas going to Vegas for their first time in the life will ignore groups of guys like that.
My friend(s) and I have partied with several groups of gorgeous girls just at casino bars and hotel bars where the costs are minimal. Last time I was there my friend had a conference and I got to tag along. We were hanging out at a bar on the floor of the planet Hollywood casino (there were 3 of us) we met a group of insanely gorgeous women vacationing from Mexico. We partied all night, nobody had sex with each other, nobody did anything out of line. The bar had reasonably priced drinks. We ended up going to some karaoke bar and getting pizza at the Cosmo at 3am. Innocent fun, but none of us guys would have turned down any girl in that group if they showed that type of interest.
If most of the guys have never been to Vegas before in the group they’ll be overwhelmed to begin with. Took me my first 3 trips before I got over that feeling.
Again - all my experiences were pre-COVID and from what I’ve read it’s not as wild as it once was at least for now.
Are you joking? I've been here, a dancer, posting since 2013... reviews can be misleading and I'm actually asking the guys who I know post here.
I'm not worried in that situation and I know my friend who's getting married is not worried about her fiance, he's a good guy. If anything I'd be concerned about what goes on privately in the VIP when no one is looking while both the guys and the strippers are drunk. I say this as a stripper who has witnessed bachelor parties so it's not like I'm just being crazy. My boyfriend can feel free to motorboat some tits and grab some ass in the vip but not more than that...
I'm not super concerned but there is mild curiosity, I guess.
Go have a good time with your guys let them have a good time with you, and in the end it’s all good.
As others have already said, odds of them "getting lucky" at a club in Vegas without a mountain of cash is slim to none. Hotel bars though are a totally different story ... any guy looking and willing to pay something reasonable will find it. Even if they're not looking but are in the casino at 2 AM having drinks or playing slots ... they will be found. Low barrier to entry at that point, just the $$$.
Well I want real answers. 🤷♀️
If you think about it, what girl goes to Vegas to not have a good time? Girls want to have as much fun as the guys, and as long as they feel safe with you it will happen. If these guys are good looking they probably don’t need to pay for sex, and they likely have enough money to bu girls drinks. In that atmosphere when girls and guys want to have fun the fireworks just happen, especially since the guys are in a group showing the girls that they are socially well adjust men with safety in #s.
Will the guys have sex in a strip club? All odds are saying no. But will they find a girl at the casino or in a regular night club who wants to have fun? Hmmmm, post pandemic girls who haven’t been out in over a year looking to have fun with some younger good looking guys??? Yes!
Yeah he's not even the type that likes to get around. I knew that about him before we started dating and got serious.
On topic ... A local dancer who does extras and has recently worked in Vegas said that being an "extras girl" there is more difficult than most places she has worked. I have no direct knowledge, though. If that bachelor party were (strangely) taking place in Rhode Island, you'd be right to worry.
I knew a girl happy to do extras that worked at Sapphires and Rhino in Vegas. She was average in looks on the Rhino and Sapphires scale. She was scared to death to offer extras in both those clubs in fear of getting caught and getting fired essentially killing her income stream as those were the two Vegas clubs she made the most money in. She also stated so much money was thrown around in the club she didn’t even need to do extras to begin with.
And the civie sluts will also approach if you look clean and are fun and outgoing. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, unless you catch a general disease. Crabs aren’t too bad, because they go away but the herpes is some shit that my buddy’s wife caught when she fooled around on a girls trip to Vegas. Girls go wild when they are together, and after a year off from partying girls want to play!
This. I've partied in Vegas strip clubs and it is brutally expensive. They are also the highest hustle cutthroat clubs I've ever visited. The girls have zero worries about ripping guys off since they are all tourists anyway and the clubs are well staffed to handle bad behavior by butt hurt dudes - indeed they expect it. They are also used to guys acting like ballers and dropping large sums of "fuck it" vacation money ITCs.
All of that is to say that if they are rolling with thin wallets then they'd probably have a better chance of getting hit by lightening than blown by a stripper in a Vegas strip club.
Frankly I’d be more concerned with the Brothels reopening and The Green Door reopening. Curious guys will venture there you know...
IMHO, there aren’t really any sleazy clubs in Vegas, just lower end like Chicas Bonitas, Play It Again Sam, Deja Vu, etc.
You wrote and I quote:
“I also don't need opinions on whether or not myself or anyone else is being insecure. We all know what happens at strip clubs.”
You yourself already know the answer.
“What ruins relationships and causes most fights is insecurity” — Olivia Wilde
We all know that what happens at strip clubs is that: Your Mileages May and Will Vary.
No two human beings are, or ever could be, experiencing the exact same thing.
We all also should know that Vegas is a tourist trap, however just like in the casinos once in a while someone “wins”, “gets lucky” and that is one of the reasons some people still go there because of that “remote” possibility.
Men have the biological/instinctive imperative to want have sex with as many women as possible.
Men have the need/desire, in the back of their mind, to spread their seed and propagate the species, it’s an innate and unconscious evolutionary trait.
However, when a man makes a vow of monogamy to a significant other, he should and will not break that vow if he is a man of his word.
“The only thing I got in this world is my balls, and my word, and I don't break 'em for nobody.” ~ Tony Montana, Scarface.
If you feel/believe that you can trust your boyfriend you should not be worried.
You have to trust yourself and listen to your inner voice when it tells you that something is or isn’t right.
When you trust yourself you will feel comfortable being separated from your boyfriend and not be worried about him “cheating”, and you should blow his brains out, only if you want to, whenever you want.
Do not hide your feelings, make sure your needs (sexual, emotional, spiritual, etc) are met, and that no matter what your boyfriend does, you can and will take care of yourself.
Don’t Worry, Be Happy...
I've been propositioned by hoes in clubs regularly.
I've dated strippers I met in clubs. Hung out with them. They've been pretty friendly
Having said that. Getting extras in Vegas clubs today (or after 2015, really) is much more the exception than the rule. And as noted above it will be hella expensive (most of the time) - minimum $500 all in for a HJ, as as much as $2,500 for FS IN the club. But if one or more of the guys are determined to convert, it's much more likely that a stripper will be willing to negotiate an OTC meeting. However, the chances of her showing up are low - especially if she convinces the guy to pay some upfront fee to her (i.e.: she's scamming him).
I'm not an expert on relationships or monogamy. So I can't help you figure out IF or WHO among the party guests will "cheat." But as I started my post: if any of these guys want pussy, they can get pussy.
Note that there are many options in Vegas:
- Legal brothels - 45 miles out of town
- Pros working the casino bars and low-value slot machine areas - especially the elevators.
- Asian Massage parlors
- Semi-pros or amateur women in town for business or fun who want to explore their wild side.
- Swinger clubs - some rather famous - where some clubs, on some days, allow single men to enter.
I can see a few of the guys getting laid out there but the majority of them are single so it is not my business. The ones that are in relationships will probably behave... for the most part. I told my boyfriend he can feel free to have all the ass and tits in his face but even he was never a fan of paying for lap dances in his younger crazier days back when they all would actually go clubbing. I think he's objectively the best looking one of the group so he will have to turn some civvies down when they go to regular clubs but he's also not very assertive with women so I don't see himself engaging in any serious back and forth flirtation. With how expensive Vegas is I'd actually be kind of surprised if he even bought a chick a drink out there.
Not in a bad way. If anything, this thread is making me even more appreciative of my boyfriend. I'm a stripper so I think having concerns is normal, but all bs aside, I feel really lucky to have the man I do. The only stripper he will be fucking is me when he comes home.
Bacon!!
I'm really not into role play at all but maybe the night before he leaves I'll be in a garter belt and stilettos, have my hair done all nice, and I'll be extras Nina who will do anything to pay her rent on time. Role play is corny to me but I don't think he will complain about anything that starts with me giving him lap dances and ending with bjs and sex.
It is a great idea to unload his gun before he goes... 10 days of Bj's in the morning and fucking in the evening and he will be fine. You do need to tell him why he is getting extra and assuming he is good he will get some extra when he gets home. If he is bad then he will find out why your stripper name is Lorena cutyourcockof
I'll tell him kissing cost extra. 😂
Bacon!!
Lmao!!!! So this is where we are at now? Dear Abby in a Strip Club Forum? No disrespect my friend but it doesn’t matter the age or the stage: Pussy is POWERFUL (90% of it for that matter) and I’m a man in my mid 30s and know guys in their 20s who have no shame in partaking in adult activities with dancers if the connection and numbers are right.
I have yet to read all the comments but I did see one that stood out where one guy said if he loves his girl that much he’s not cheating. I’ve been there where I love a woman that much I can be in the midst of the hottest women in the game and not be tempted.
So if both of you are on the same page when it comes to TRUST, this shouldn’t be an issue. Blowing up his phone will only make it worse. You can book it. If you are allowing it then let that man live.
I’ve gotta agree, that there’s no sex in the champagne room for me either, because no amount of money paid can be as good as passionately driven sex in the privacy of your own space. It’s why the negotiations when dealing with arranged sex is so easy, because it’s transactional and understood it won’t be complicated like regular old civilian sex. Young honey guys with a little change in their pocket, not a lot of change, will likely lead to some fun somewhere. Otherwise why go to Vegas and pay a premium spending money on hotels, gambling, and overpriced restaurants? There’s a shit ton of other better options to find than Vegas. You go to Vegas for the easy adult options, whether that’s strip clubs, night clubs, casinos, or girls’ weekend away from 15 months of being in lockdown. If I was single I would go to Vegas, but it’s easier when with a group of people. Doesn’t make you look like a desperate creep.
Take the top 3-5 girls in every club in America. Then all those girls go to vegas, on rotation, and some of them stay. Most of the hottest girls don’t have to fuck guys to make money, so they do not. (MOST).
You said you aren’t worried about civilian girls but that is how escorts present themselves in vegas, FYI, in a restaurant, at a casino, at a mall, at a pool party. Except they have fake bodies and boobs and are beautiful in a way your man has never seen before. FYI.
If you are worried about someone cheating on you, probably not the right person for you to be with but that’s my two cents.
I have been to Vegas a few times over the years, and if there is one thing I can say, is there are no extras in the club. Sure I have gotten OTC offers at Deja Vu and Rhino, a few times, but they were for far more than what a typical Escort charges, and made some of the brothels seem reasonable. So you won't have to worry about that, unless your best friend's guy is willing to spend $1500 or more to hookup with a dancer, which is what most of the dancers wanted when I was there. At that rate, you can find a hot porn star.
It is if he goes! If not, it's a maybe. Might be fun.
I'm not specifically worried about my boyfriend when it comes to the whole group of guys. Definitely still not worried about civvies and won't be, idc if they're whores or not. He's not gonna cheat. Also, a generic "Vegas 10" with all fake everything is not a 10 to him.
Maybe the problem some of you have is when you go looking for hookers and make it obvious that thats what you want then the girls will just rip you off coz you make it obvious you're a one off trick.
Vegas strip clubs can be affordable and very laid back.
Look at any thread I've ever started and the same will be true. I'm very responsive to threads I post. Not to mention idk if my man is even going now but I'll still respond to posts directed at me in my own thread. 🤷♀️
(maybe not Provo, UT...)
Yeah, you are. Considering the amount of self edifying posts conducted to reassure yourself, we know why.
Oh, ok.
My guess is she’s pregnant and barefoot with a live in baby daddy.
My guess is she’s pregnant and barefoot with a live in baby daddy."
Bitch, my home is on 9 acres of land and has a theater in the basement. Who the fuck are you in this world? 🤷♀️
I just love it when blowhards are around spouting their shit doesn’t stink. Mongerers always kiss ass to young girls, so find some sugar before yiu she out!
I know.
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Anyways, welcome back Nina.
My guess is she’s pregnant and barefoot with a live in baby daddy."
^ simp
Stay frosty Nina you're always cool.