I used the block function on my phone for the first time ever today. I was just bored with the pleading for money. It was a good run with her but these arrangements are always temporary and the train had pulled into the station as far as I was concerned.
How common is it for you guys to block dancers on your phone? Any good stories about why you had to do it?
I use a burner app. I change the number every 6 months. No I'm not some fucking ATM, call your loser boyfriend.
Yea the burner app is the best, I just turn it off and on when I want to use it
I've never had the need to do this. When a girl contacts me for money, she is greeted with such a cold reception, then she never asks again. If she doesn't contact me again, so be it. If she wants money from me, then she is going to spend the night with me.
I'm not much of an OTCer thus don't exchange #s too-often - earlier-on in my PL-career I would ask dancers for their # "in the heat of the moment" but me being super into variety, by the next day it was "out of sight out of mind" - with time I noticed this pattern w/ me and I now rarely exchange #s w/ dancers and try to mostly avoid it - being into variety I was never necessarily any dancer's regular so the few that contacted me in the past all it usually took was for me to not answer back - but I can see that not being the same with a dancer one is a regular with or has OTCed with.
Being into variety I usually have more of an issue trying to block dancers at the club - being into variety I rarely wanna get w/ the same dancer(s) on a subsequent visit even if I enjoyed them the first time I was with them; but it can often be the case that if a dancer I've been w/ previously sees me on a subsequent visit she'll often make a beeline for me (it's not easy being so irre$i$table) - this doesn't mean that I never repeat w/ a dancer but I often try to avoid-it w/ many/most unless it's been a few months since my previous interaction w/ her.
For the last six years or so I’ve maintained a second phone for my clubbing. It’s an old phone with a TracFone SIM. ~$7/month. I’m picky about which dancers I give my number to. They’re the more stable, responsible dancers.
Previously, it was a problem with one dancer. With other things happening in our lives, we eventually gave up on each other.
Also had a platonic female friend who wanted a promotion to girlfriend as that previous relationship died. But she was almost as troubled/crazy as that dancer. I wasn’t going to go through all of that all over again. But she kept calling/texting after I said no and ended the relationship. So that number got blocked.
Never had to block a dancer. I generally don't ask for a number unless I believe it could result in OTC or an SB arrangement. Most of the time, it goes nowhere, as the dancer has serious GPS and asks for way too much - like 3 or 4 times the going market rate. If she starts asking me or worse, begging me for cash, I just let her know she can get it AFTER we have quality naked time together at my place. Almost always results in either great sex or radio silence. However, there's always that one who thinks they can play me.
The latest happened a week before the pandemic lockdowns started in LA. I had met a dancer at Synn COI who was HAWT! We spent some quality time and I got her number as she told me she would be moving to the Valley and would start working at Synn NH (much more local to me and one of my go-to clubs for relief) within the next 2 weeks. I was pretty excited to see her again and wanted to make sure we stayed in touch. Well, COVID had different ideas, of course. As far as I can tell, she either never intended to move, or COVID made her change her plans. Her texts became less frequent, and eventually stopped after about 30 days. One month after that, I got a Cashapp request around midnight to send her $100. No message, just "pay (name) $100." I texted her and asked her what's up. She gave me a story about car repairs and rent and was desperate for help. I told her I'd be glad to help with more than that once she got to my place and we spent a few hours having fun. As expected... radio silence...
... For another 6 weeks, when she sent a new CashApp request for $200, this time at 2:30 am. So I did my shampoo routine (wash, rise, repeat) and told her she'd get it after I get it. Radio silence again... either she was drunk one or both times, or she thought I was a simp who never gets laid and would be desperate enough to want to please a hot chick by just giving her cash and hoping she would be kind enough to shit all over me. No offense to guys who get off on being a FinDom, slave, or Cuck or whatever. It's just not for me.
As a friend of mine often says: "I will beg for pussy, and I will pay for pussy. But I will NEVER beg to pay for pussy."
I haven’t blocked a dancer or anyone IIRC If they get annoying I still would like to see what they are sending me for some kind of morbid fascination
I am the opposite of Papi Chulo. I pick a favorite and stick with her until she quits stripping. Sometimes I continue seeing them after until they stop contacting me.
I had to block one when her demands for cash came with threats. That would only last for two weeks before I would unblock her number again. It has been in a couple of years since I’ve heard from her but I still think about her beautiful face and perfect innie pussy.
I don't recall ever blocking a dancer. I just stop responding.
Those of you using burner. Thanks for the intel. Wondering if you actually use Burner app or Hushed App
Shoulda asked my ex for money at the looks of these and maybe he woulda blocked me and leave me alone. 🤣
@Herbcat I have the same kind of story, but from a dancer in TJ. Had an excellent time with her on 2 different nights out of the 4 nights I was down there. Traded whats app info and she texted me all throughout the weekend. Which was fine, but once I got back home it only took about a week until she sent me a picture of her knee bruised, crying that she couldn't work and needed money, and asking me to send $400. Told her if I were still in TJ she could easily earn that money from me, I could care less about a bruised knee. But I'm not giving away money and getting nothing in return. She gave up then but a couple weeks later started sending me sexy pictures of herself saying 'no me olvides' (do not forget me). Sure I won't, but I knew what would be coming soon after that. Sure enough, another request for money, this time less but still. Repeated the same thing I said last time. Then she says ok no problem, then says 'te quiero' (I love you). Must think I'm a fucking idiot. Maybe she felt she could easily get me for money since I was giving her some generous tips while I was down there with her in TJ. Face to face while we're both naked she had a way better chance of getting extra money out of me. But through words on a phone and a couple of raunchy photos? No chance, fuck outta here.
Staying on topic I didn't have to block her as I'm sure my responses caused her to stop trying.
I don't block. If it's time for a dancer to move on I'll try to let her know nicely until she gets it. Rarely I'll stop responding until she stops writing. I'd rather know what she has to say, especially with the pandemic messing up the separation I had between hookups.
Lol the beggar hustle cracks me the fuck up...
But I guess sorta like men being pieces of shit- sometimes the POS approach works or else why do people keep pulling their same old bullshit if it never ever works?
Look it was a good arrangement for a while. She accommodated my preferred location and was also a very decent lay. But the occasional side hustling for more cash was just getting tiresome. She was getting an amount that is good for this area to begin with.
Either you agree to the amount or you do not, but don't wheedle for extra cash on my time or by text. I lost track of how many times I said something like: "Honestly honey I think what I'm already giving you is more than fair, but I understand if you decide differently." The last time was just the straw that broke the camel's back for me.
How often? All the time unfortunately. I just checked my phone for kicks and giggles and have well over a hundred blocked numbers. That was before I started using a texting app, so there's more there. Most of those are dancers/escorts/sugar babies or wannabies from that picklist. Once it's over or you want it to be over, you have to block there is usually no good other way that I have found.
It's almost always due to the fact they want more money, or something else went sour. But money mostly. Many of these girls are experts at lying, pouting, crying, making up sob stories, etc. I've fallen for it way too often unfortunately.
I appreciate the comments in this thread. On my last two visits dancers have given their number to me. Now I know what’s coming near the end of the month 😉. And how to handle it.
Being needy is so unattractive. That’s when they get blocked. I club when I wanna, I don’t need u begging me to come up there. Most have bfs, let them pay your bills.
My dad would say I haven’t been to the bank or I only have $50. He always had $1000 in his pocket.
UNBLOCK ME YOU COWARD!