Swingers clubs.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I have been asked a couple of times if I would go to one. Specifically the Trapeze Club in Atlanta. Once a dancer in Columbia SC told me she and her BF were going to go there and asked if I wanted to join them. I didn't. I've had a couple of other local strippers ask me the same and the answer has always been that I am not interested. Why? If I've got a hot date why would I want to go to a swingers club and share her with everyone else?
Single guys can go by themselves with restrictions but that really sounds like desperation. I'd rather strike out at a strip club.
Single guys can go by themselves with restrictions but that really sounds like desperation. I'd rather strike out at a strip club.
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I have been to dozens of swinger clubs in several different countries and they are all quite different. They are not giant orgies although they usually have an orgy room if you want to participate. They are often very upscale lounges, often with very good food where you can dance, relax, watch others or you can have sex, with or without an audience. Your choice.
Some folks do well playing with others, and some don’t do so well. I know where I fit. The last thing anyone wants to see is a tall skinny guy who casts a shadow that resembles a praying mantis in a sex club!
Asking for a friend. Where do you put your car keys at these places?
If I was going to do it again I would try to communicate with couples ahead of time (the site had a message board) and probably would try to get there earlier (we arrived when the action was in full swing rather than during the cocktail hour).
Overall I think private parties are better but someone has to host or get a hotel room.