How seriously should I take "You don't have to tip just to hang out with me"?
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No, I don't really go there for the sexual stuff, the strip club is on my route back out of work and I wondered why girls wearing wraps were always smoking outside what looked like a bar. Got talking to one of them and just went inside. Pole dancing is physically impressive but definitely not a turn on to me. Private dances are hit or miss, but most of the time I end up asking to stop early and do something else.
I've heard the best way to know if a stripper is mildly into you in some way, is to take money out of the equation. But what about when that's turned on its' head and it's the girl that suggests it? This has probably happened four or five times over spordiac visits in the last 3 years or so.
Oh yeah, just noting that it's usually not busy when I go in. Obviously this arrangement wouldn't be in place when it is. Tl;dr strippers are people too?
I've heard the best way to know if a stripper is mildly into you in some way, is to take money out of the equation. But what about when that's turned on its' head and it's the girl that suggests it? This has probably happened four or five times over spordiac visits in the last 3 years or so.
Oh yeah, just noting that it's usually not busy when I go in. Obviously this arrangement wouldn't be in place when it is. Tl;dr strippers are people too?
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last commentTry it for a month for real and see how it goes. It's one thing to for her to say it but then "grudgingly" take your cash anyway. It's quite another for her to actually not get paid. Then come back and tell us how it went.
You are correct, and strip clubs magnify the man and woman dynamic. As a man the only thing you can offer a women is a big dick and a fat wallet. Choose what route you take to get the pussy 🐈⬛
You stop at a strip club on your way home from work to sit and talk with the girls, and you don’t drink alcohol?
So, the girls chat with you, and you allow them to get free sodas for the privilege of hanging with you?
I must have entered some sort of twilight zone where dancers don’t like money and they buy drinks for customers!
Next, you are going to tell us about her asking if she can pay you to fuck her in VIP!
Is this in the US?
Twentyfive well I do have a talent for being able to correctly guess how tall their heels are.
Salty.Nutz I don't know what locker-room talk is like for girls but I imagine I don't get talked about at all, or someone says "Oh I've seen you with so and so, he seems ok"
Where was this?
This sounds like either fiction - or trolling. The details seem to change with your responses. I’m calling BS!
What is the point to this thread? Every reply from the OP seems to be about what the point isn't. There's a lot of dancers that will hang out with a customer that doesn't repulse them between paying customers or hustling for dollars. It beats sitting alone if they feel like company and some managers frown upon too much phone time. Or she's trying to keep the possibility open that you'll spend on her later. Or she's playing the long game that you'll decide to spend on her if you haven't before. If there's really a personal angle to it, you're probably not going to see it ITC unless...don't feel like spending the time to finish up the thought.
It would be easy to make up a story, and then change the details when there is criticism.
It’s different in Australia clubs! The dancers buy drinks for the customers here! They are more relaxed - and they like sitting with me for free!
No! Don’t criticize me! I’m from a different part of the world! I post on a primarily US site and expect the members to know I’m from Australia when I post!
You keep picking and choosing to who to respond to, and it seems like you're more interested in debating about whether or not you're from Australia than about whether or not you've gotten what you were looking for out of the thread you started. If you have a point to make in all of this please make it.
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Ask Founder to add a listing if your club isn’t part of the listings. Describe the club interior and give details.
It’s pretty easy to see this is a primary US based site. Most of the members review US clubs. There are Canadian and Mexican clubs reviewed too. It doesn’t require much insight, unless you aren’t able to understand basic logic.