What do you want from a dancer?
Hey guys. I'm interested in what kind of experience you want from a dance, on stage, and in vip. I enjoy dancing but I have always worried that I'm too uptight. I don't mind a grab or a smack here or there but I know I would never do extras. At least not in the club. A sugar daddy maybe. If you could describe your ideal scenario you could probably save me from some awkward encounters where I have to ask what a customer likes. I'm blunt so please if you can, be blunt with me. Thanks guys!
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Minnnow always asks me for dances like that
The athletic body of a college cheerleader. The dance moves on stage of JLo. If there is a pole, I want some Cirque du Soleil shit. All of this should be done in the nude while making eye contact with a big smile on her face.
Stones said it best, "Can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need."
From what I've looked up, their performers and staff average between $30k to $100k a year.
@justintolook what kinda Cirque du soleil shit we talking? I have a 3 foot over split and can flip my arms around my body while holding my hands together ๐ I'm weirdly flexible but I've never shown it at the club cuz it looks horrifying ๐คฃ
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I wanna fuck you on stage
I wanna fuck you on the table
I wanna fuck you in VIP
I wanna fuck you on the bar
I wanna fuck you in the parking lot
I wanna fuck you behind the dumpster
I wanna fuck you at Motel 6
I wanna fuck you and all your stripper friends in the dressing room
I just wanna fuck if I'm being honest and you did say that's what you wanted. Any other answer any guy says on here is bullshit unless he's gay.
Iโm looking for a filthy girl with low standards - and good looks arenโt important.
If you really are 5'10", with natural triple DDDs, and horrifyingly flexible (double jointed?), then you can still go to a city with real strip clubs and make some big money. Las Vegas, New Orleans, and Tampa all have a huge strip club scene without being known for extras (some notable outliers in Tampa). You may even want to travel to NYC and find some Manhattan investment bankers with kinks. Avoid south Florida, Detroit, and City of Industry. Start reading the business section of online newspapers in Houston, New Orleans, Vegas, etc., and plan trips around trade shows and conventions.
If you are all you say you are, without being grossly fat or ugly, you could make six figures
I recommend reading his post - and following his advice.
I'm not into stage shows.
And I'm not desperate to try to feel a girl up and grope her.
Just look great. Have conversation skills. Be genuine and don't give me an act. I don't mind air dances....i like watching her dance for me. Shake that ass in my face and let me slap it. Seeing her move is more attractive to me than being grinded on by a stranger for $ be able to hold your alcohol. To me it's just fun.
Remember a good dancer hustle means doing the least possible for the most $. Try to get as much as early in the shift. Set 2 smaller quotas. Before and after midnight. Sell8ng VIP vs trying to get tips.
No one looks up to extras girls. They're never the top tier of a club.
Choose a winning team based on its results not a career managers finessing skills
@fishhawk that's definitely not the case in Orlando. Dancers only get tips from customers. And we pay a pretty decent chunk of cash to the house. It makes no sense because we're not a popular strip club area.
@minnow I'm just new here, I haven't read around too much. Why would a dude pose as a dancer here it's just a discussion board lol.
I asked this because I'm a very straight forward person but still nervous about sales. I make most of my money on stage, so moving to a new city where privates are sold more is a bit scary. I've sold 3 privates since December last year, and they were all the same night in Daytona lol. It's just nice to get an idea of what customers are thinking about
Long story short .... have fun with me.
Me... I just like to find dancers that aren't afraid to get comfortable with another woman. Sometimes that can be a challenge if the dancer is strictly hetero or tries to avoid female custies as much as she can, but I try to set a good example for other lady mongers.
If I were analyzing you id say you come across like a whiney sheltered neb but I won't go there
IME Orlando is where baby dancers to to learn to hustle in training wheel clubs and burnt out dancers go to semi-retire. People don't go to Orlando to party in clubs - they go there to visit Disney. Also, it's so restrictive compared to other parts of FL that locals who wish to see and do more can simply drive 45 minutes in almost any direction and have a much better time.
Itโs fun over in Tampa. Iโd recommend. And you will probably sell way more than three private dances in one shift in several different clubs...even if youโre just stoned and on your phone. Iโd imagine youโre trying to play at selling in hard mode over in Orlando.
Stage show - I am not big into the Cirque Du Soleil type stage shows most of the time. I prefer a more seductive, sultry and sensual performance and that's what is more likely to get me to buy a dance. However, the more active stage shows can be good if the fit into an overall theme that the girl has working for her. For instance, about 15 years ago I ended up spending quite a bit of money with a recently graduated college gymnast whose entire stage show (outfit, hair & makeup, music and moves) were based on her gymnastic performance routine.
Dances - Again I prefer the more sensual types of dances rather than non-stop fast paced twerking, but contact is key. I tend to avoid getting dances from a girl unless I am allowed to handle both her breasts and ass. It is also expected that she make significant contact with my dick over the pants and air dancers never see another dime from me. Pussy play, tit sucking and her reaching inside my pants are all welcome and will be greatly rewarded by tips but are not necessary for me to continue buying dances.
Private rooms - Strictly extras or what's the point? If it is going to be nothing but a longer regular dance why would I spend that much money on one girl when I could be spending time with a variety of ladies.
Iโm sure some dancers can make their studies in cosmetology school sound interesting.
But itโs all background noise that I filter out until I hear โLetโs fuck.โ - then itโs all background noise until I hear โfor this much $โ - then Iโve got the data I need to make my decision.
Sensual and exciting. Not ranuchy
A perfect dance (and I've had a few) starts out with a nice hug, then a bit of actual dancing, slowly (not too slowly) stripping down to your petty little thong while your hands teasingly outline your shapely body. (My hands are watching.) Then, once in my lap, my hands will teasingly outline your shapely body. I lOVE the gentle early touches, the slow warm up. At some point my hands will slide up to your breasts (I might whisper, May I?) and taking a deep breath, I'll commit their shape, weight, and warmth to memory; I love to run fingers slowly over nipples, while I rise under your steady, slow grind. Then you stand up, step away slightly, turn, and let me eye my good fortune.
Then come in for a forward hug; I love forward hugs, with mutual caressing of backs, scratching of back of neck, maybe touching or kissing of ears (I ask first) while thrilling at your steady movement on my lap. I freaking love breasts to face. I'll nuzzle, caress, and lightly kiss side boob, underboob, and cleavage. I'll kiss areola and (just barely) nipples. I won't suck them (not quite), just kiss (a funny line, and only I know exactly what's the difference). By now, if you haven't figured it out (from some non-verbal communication), I'll tell you that I like my nipples played with. If you're OK with that, we're in a higher gear now. It's like the game starting over, slow at first, ramping up to firm. My favorite thing in this game is having my shirt unbuttoned, nipples pressed into mine, with substantial nipple twisting while enduring the slow, soft rocking on my not soft spot.
When you tire of this position/movement we'll move to the standard buns in lap, with a long slow firm grind, while I caress your breasts, belly, thighs, and legs. Probably will play with your belly button. If I get too close, I'll ask you to slow down. I didn't come here for sex, just a sensual and exciting lap dance. Wow, you've been great. As the 3rd or 4th song ends, I'll thank you profusely, your looks, your dancing, your wonderfulness. You'll say something nice about me, or my hands, or my enjoyment. I'll pay and tip you some amount, say I hope to see you again.
We'll hug and walk out, our lives changed. I'll have an amazing memory, you'll be part way to your $ goal for this shift.
And Playboikitty, thanks for asking.
On a more tactical level, please don't ask me for an extra tip after the dance beyond what was already agreed to. If I'm feeling it, I'll tip. But I've saved more funds than you might imagine when a dancer I was ABOUT to tip asked for - or demanded - one. That locks my wallet closed, permanently.
1. Looks. Must have requirement attracted to her at scale of 8+. Willing to get a couple dances if she's solely good looking $40
2. Fun, perky personality. As long as they're not air dances and she's not too quick to swipe away hands. I'll go a few more. $100
3. Increasing amount of skin to skin contact and the more grinding the better. ~$200
4. VIP. kissing, sucking, anything goes short of extras. $300+ at this time she's likely fave status
5. Anything more ITC or OTC price varies from level 4 to multiple x.
I love the tease and I love the chase. No regrets as long as I'm having fun.
NAAAASTY
That said, it's almost pointless to ask on here what guys want. Almost all of them (including myself) will want sex of some kind, which you've already said you don't want to do. Which is fine, as long as you don't mislead anyone as to your limits.
Sorry, it was stuck in my head. Now, it's in yours.
Number one is looks. I have to be attractive to the dancer. In my case that's a slim fit body, nice proportionate breasts.
Right after this is attitude, personality and game. This can vary from dancer to dancer. With one dancer it can be a flirty, sensual and seductive attitude. While another dancer may just ooze sex out of every pore, and that a dance with her will be right at the edge of what the club allows.
Next is private dance skills. A dancer had better offer at least the typical dance at the club. If it's an extras club, then she better offer extras.
Finally, while not as import as the above three, conversation skills can be important. One of my current favorites has a down to earth tomboy attitude, and loves to talk sports. We can talk for a half hour on whatever the current games of the week are, before finally heading out to the private dance area.
Show me your tits.
Give me Billy Joel
Give me Frank Sinatra
Give me the Greek Isles
Tell me how interesting I am
Tell me how hot I am
Tell me how I have the biggest cock you've ever seen
Nibble my ears
Nibble my neck
Make me LDK so hard I'll think about it for the next three weeks
And never do this for any other man.
Could it be anal?
GI? Gastro Intestinal?
GFE is girl friend experience - Girlfriend Interest?
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The start of this discussion is what would close up my wallet quickly.
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Awkward encounters avoided. Everybody wins!
She told me she was watching from dressing room and chose me.
We had some lappers then next day at notel $200 a session once a week. She would like modeling nude and bik (lots photos) then fuck. She could expertly put condoms on me and ride me to intense climax.
That's what I get writing a comment way late at night.