Two summers ago, I bought a Budweiser at a strip club. It was something like $8. I give the waitress a $20 bill, and she says she will be back with the change. She never returns and I then see her serving other tables. I finally stop her by blocking her after almost ten minutes of trying to flag her down while she seemed to purposely avoid my table or look in my direction. I tell her I paid with a $20 and was expecting change. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but this seemed intentional. I talked with another clubber on TUSCL and the exact same thing happened to him with the same waitress, only he never pursued the waitress to get his change back. Twelve bucks isn't a big deal, but I hate dishonest people and scammers.
Something similar happened many years back at another club. I gave a waitress a couple $20 and told her to get me singles. She then started serving tables around the room. After almost ten minutes I had to get up and walk to the other side of the club to confront her. She claimed she did not forget about me while red in the face, and I went with her to the bar to finally get the singles. From that point forward, I will almost always go directly to a manager or bartender myself to get singles and not use a waitress as a courier.
I think a reason some waitresses get in on the ROB action is most strip club customers are total cucks who would rather take the loss instead of standing up for themselves. I have heard many guys on TUSCL advise to just pay an overcounting stripper for the songs she added on to the count to avoid confrontation or getting kicked out. I would surmise a majority of the time dancers or waitresses defraud customers, they get away with it because pathetic losers don't stick up for themselves.
Have you ever dealt with a server or bartender that was a ROB in a strip club or elsewhere?
surprisingly it only happened once.
drink was a $6 soda. i gave her $10. she went to the bar to get the drink, comes back to me, and says, "here's your drink, i'll be right back with your change."
after that i watched her like a hawk. so whenever she would come by me she'd say, "i didn't forget you." after a while i said fuck it. if the cunt really needs the $4 that badly let her have it.
next visit she is my waitress again. i order same $6 solda. she returns and i give $6. she stands there. o look at her. i ask:
'what's going on?" "you only gave me $6" "yeah i know. that's how much the drink costs, rrrriiiiiight?" "yeah it does. but how about a tip? "tip? ok yeah wel... this is how this works. the last time i gave you a ten for this drink. you said you would get back to me with my change and never did. so here's the deal: your tip is the change you fucked me over and kept."
about a month later, same bitch comes to me. $6 to her for that drink. "how about a tip?" i turned away and just stared at the stage. after that she never came to me again.