I would tell them to not have unrealistic expectations. That if he uses money to get attention that that's all that will be seen. Which can make for a very empty experience. But to have fun and go with the flow.
If I didn't care, I would laugh behind his back and make subtle sarcastic comments.
If I did care, I would explain that there's nothing more shallow and idiotic than attracting attention, with money, in a strip club. Then I'd recommend psychiatric care.
Someone I know, I'd explain the law of diminishing returns as it relates to strip clubs.
Someone I don't know, I don't care and I'll forget him the second he moves on. As a general matter, I don't criticize how another man spends his own money, foolish or not.
If that person has the money to spend, and it won’t jeopardize his marriage/relationship, then I’d tell him to enjoy it.
I’d offer some basic boundaries- just in case he’s not aware of clubs. No use of plastic, use protection, don’t give your real phone number out, don’t drink too much.
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last commentIf I didn't care, I would laugh behind his back and make subtle sarcastic comments.
If I did care, I would explain that there's nothing more shallow and idiotic than attracting attention, with money, in a strip club. Then I'd recommend psychiatric care.
Someone I don't know, I don't care and I'll forget him the second he moves on. As a general matter, I don't criticize how another man spends his own money, foolish or not.
I’d offer some basic boundaries- just in case he’s not aware of clubs. No use of plastic, use protection, don’t give your real phone number out, don’t drink too much.
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