PROS of dating an erotic dancer (stripper)

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• nicespice

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  4 years ago

  —>“I do love me some erotic dancing females. If covid-19 wasn't an issue, I'd probably blow 3 grand on every woman in the club, even the less attractive ones.” (Several of) the clubs in Colorado are still open. Jes saying
• Bavarian

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  4 years ago

  Listing the cons would be much easier. Pros: She can easily score you some drugs if you’re into that She is more sexually adventurous and will probably be into butt stuff (again if you’re into that)
• wallanon

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  4 years ago

  "She is more sexually adventurous and will probably be into butt stuff (again if you’re into that)" You would think that. The last stripper I dated was mostly lousy in bed. Every once in a while she'd be motivated, but not enough for me to keep riding that crazy train. It didn't help that her friend was insanely talented in the sack.
• BabyDoc

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  4 years ago

  Well the last time I “dated” a stripper was several years ago. She was working in one of the mid-tier Denver clubs and told me she had just quit dancing at the Diamond Cabaret having aged out and was now planning on retiring. Diamonds was a meh club with an inflated reputation for girls (IMO) and an even more inflated price structure. When I told her I thought the club making girls wear gowns was like putting lipstick on a pig she just about died laughing. Anyways she invited me on a date to go for a run early the next morning. All went well until we were finished with the run she invited me home to shower. Well to shower and to meet her three year old. Well that and to meet her parents. Needless to say I didn’t go or ever see her again. I may be a lot of things but I’m not a retirement plan.
• Hank Moody

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  4 years ago

  The original post reads like someone’s ideal of what it would be like to date a stripper who has never dated a stripper. Or maybe never dated a real live girl.
• Tiburon

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  4 years ago

  @JimmyMcNulty lol I can see that. But don't worry, I've "dated" strippers. I use the term date loosely btw
• nicespice

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  4 years ago

  One thing I’ve noticed about dudes who date a dancer is that a lot of them tend to end up dating or hooking up with a blitz of them, whether it’s one-after-the-other or it’s simultaneously. If one has the personality for it, that might be considered a plus.
• Hank Moody

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  4 years ago

  @Tib. I’m glad you were able to read what you wrote and see where I was coming from. 👍🏼
• winex

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  4 years ago

  walanon> You would think that. The last stripper I dated was mostly lousy in bed. Every once in a while she'd be motivated, but not enough for me to keep riding that crazy train. It didn't help that her friend was insanely talented in the sack. Actually it sounds like it did help that her friend was insanely talented in the sack...
• IceyLoco

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  4 years ago

  Its not really like that. That's more fantasy than reality. Most don't take their work home with them. I think a lot of times its the opposite of the list. You get to see her without makeup. Not dressed up. Deal with every day stuff. You listen to her problems and see her when shes down depressed stressed out. You see her as a regular girl not a dancer
• Tetradon

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  4 years ago

  I agree with Icey again, the world must be about to end. I've never dated a stripper, but one of my best friends did a business venture with an A-list porn star. She admitted to hating men, and neglecting her boyfriend between shoots. She just wanted to ice down her cooch and watch Game of Thrones. She hated escorting and her heart wasn't in it, and charged an ungodly amount.
• IceyLoco

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  4 years ago

  Ive dated plenty of dancers. They never talked about customers. If they did talk about work its bitching about management and gossip about the girls. The best part of their day was coming home and showering. Many didn't want to be touched or anything after work. They just wanted to decompress. The more they liked me the more shy they'd get. Like not wanting me to see them dance. Or theyd open up about body image problems. Some would work at all nude clubs but would have sex in the dark. Took a while for them to get comfortable being fully naked in bed. None of them liked their jobs. It was pretty much the allure of fast money. Lack of decent paying jobs. When ive gotten dances at home it was them stripping from their regular clothes which I kinda find more sexy
• Muddy

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  4 years ago

  I have dated a stripper and had opportunities to go on dates a few more. Yeah they’re crazy but women in general are crazy so...
• winex

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  4 years ago

  You guys go to strip clubs too much. What happens inside a club is about fulfilling erotic fantasies. What happens in a relationship with someone who happens to be a sex worker is about real life. Free dances? What are you thinking? That’s what she does for work. I work with computers/software. Though people in my personal life don’t approach me with the types of problems I solve for a living, and I do get approached to help solve the type of computer problems that are well below my pay grade at work outside of work, the last thing I want to do away from work is work on other people’s computers for free. The dancers I have dated in the past have all enjoyed relaxing and getting massages by me far more than doing anything that resembles work. The biggest pros in my opinion is that generally they have above average attractiveness and interesting personalities. Beyond that, each woman is different. Biggest cons? By the nature of their jobs, a lot of guys will be seeing them. If you are confident in yourself and/or don’t trust her, there will be work related problems. Beyond that, things vary by the woman.
• Jerzyfam

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  4 years ago

  I wholeheartedly disagree. Having dated a few. I got the best home dances from non dancers. Dancers don't want to do that when they are off.
• winex

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  4 years ago

  @JerzyFarm - I was also amused about the comment about never having to buy lingerie. That’s like saying that you never have to buy your girlfriend who works as a florist flowers. Life doesn’t worm that way.
• jackslash

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  4 years ago

  Q. What's the difference between dating a stripper and a car battery? A. A car battery has a positive side.
• DeclineToState

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  4 years ago

  ^Nice to have you back in the game jokeslash
• Nidan111

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  4 years ago

  I would date an AMP provider long before a I would a stripper. Clarification... personally, I would never date either. AMP providers who give FS are very good at making you feel like “the man”. The AMP gals I have been with appear extremely genuine in their desire for you. Strippers are ok in the moment, but immediately following the moment, they are all business. AMP providers actually beg for return visits. I’ll take AMP over Stripper ANY DAY, ALL DAY.
• Tiburon

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  4 years ago

  @Iceyloco never have I once said how often she will use these tricks on you. I'm sure every single one of us has dated a stripper or two in our time. Some more than others. I just highlighted the few pros that can exist with these erotic entertainers from what I have experienced. If I listed the cons, then this would be a depressing, moot point and kick the PL right out of a person. BUT I'm all about the HAPPY, not sad.
• blahblahblah23

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  4 years ago

  I feel like dancing has made me less sexual and cover up more in public and glare more. But sometimes I go the opposite and look more hoeish in public 🤷🏼‍♀️ and i am more murdery than b4 dancing although always murdery. I can be upside down on the pole w no hands and open legs too since dancing- def wife material. Summary of difference between civilian me and stripper me
• winex

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  4 years ago

  I am almost afraid to ask, but what do you mean by “murdery”?
• blahblahblah23

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  4 years ago

  I don't actually go around killing people 🤣 I'm just mean and have a very bad attitude especially with the man species. But some think I have a great attitude so I am tricky!
• winex

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  4 years ago

  Well, I’ve never met you, but you don’t seem that bad to me.
• winex

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  4 years ago

  She certainly seems to have an interesting personality.
• Nidan111

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  4 years ago

  @ blabla. .... you can beat me anytime. Could be fun. You just never know until you try it.
• blahblahblah23

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  4 years ago

  I have hit men plenty of times before, but rarely paid for. Damn I am giving too much away for free. These bitches on stripperweb would have a field day with my past behavior.
• skibum609

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  4 years ago

  One thing I will never get is defining the people you'd consider dating by their job. If I like a woman and enjoy spending time with her. her job matters not.
• gammanu95

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  4 years ago

  comparing your average civvie as a gf to an average stripper gf, is like comparing Texas crazy to Florida crazy.
• rogertex

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  4 years ago

  ^^^ LOL crazy be crazy !