Help me process this...
mhend69
New York
Tuesday, July 14, 2020 4:19 PM
Ok, need the experts opinions here. Here's the story: met a dancer about 3 years ago and built up a strong rapport with her. Last year a friend a I met her and a friend outside the club (no sex). I met her once just me and one of her friends as a chaperone so to speak, and then again with my buddy and her friend again. Each time, no sex or funny business.
She was out of work due to covid so I reached out for a dance 1 on 1 and we scheduled a date. That date came and she had a fever that day, so we rescheduled. As penance, she sent me some mastubation vids she made. Super hot, very seductive. So, our rescheduled date comes, we've confirmed the time and place but she let's me know she's pretty tired cause she didnt go to bed the previous night. Then, right when I get to the hotel, she says she has to take a family member to the hospital and has to cancel again.
Ok, great. I reply that I'm disappointed and that shit happens and make a few offers to push the time back later into the night and this is the part I dont get: she now proceeds to completely ghost me.
I get having cold feet with meeting up 1:1 and offered her that out. But she insisted she was all good. I apologized for being inconsiderate and wished her and her family well and that was that. I really dont see where I committed such great sin that she would suddenly cut off all communication. I'd also understand if this was a romantic relationship, but this should be strictly business. Hell, she was encouraging me to cross some limits earlier in the day.
Bottom line, it seems so weird to build me up just to drop the floor out from under me completely. What do you guys think happened? I'm willing to provide more details if asked.
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