Reason Dancers May Be Ignoring Your Texts
NJBalla
New York
So I havent been on as much as I have, but I have noticed a trend where a lot of dancers are not responding to calls or texts from regulars. I have had a few favs who dont even respond to friendly "how are you doing?" texts without the inkling of OTC requests. This is perplexing as my assumption was girls would be a little desperate to get more money during COVID. Anyone with reasons why this is happening? So far I have the following insights.
1. Girls are riding out COVID with a "boyfriend" aka high paying regular who may restrict thier ability for OTC.
2. Girls might be getting unemployment and desire for additional funds isn't there.
3. Girls are concerned about thier health and riding out COVID with family/friends
4. No real need for money since girls can go on extravagant vacations
5. They restricted thier OTC list to a few and have to stay inside to take care of kids
1. Girls are riding out COVID with a "boyfriend" aka high paying regular who may restrict thier ability for OTC.
2. Girls might be getting unemployment and desire for additional funds isn't there.
3. Girls are concerned about thier health and riding out COVID with family/friends
4. No real need for money since girls can go on extravagant vacations
5. They restricted thier OTC list to a few and have to stay inside to take care of kids
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7. A more prominent reason with young people, in general, is that telephone anxiety seems to be on the rise and the thought of having to have a perfect response back to any sender could be nerve-wracking for them - delaying their response or not responding at all. Especially true if they tell you to text and don't call.
8. There's a 2% chance they almost never have their phone on them because they prefer face to face interaction, but in this present case where face to face interaction is discouraged, they're just keeping themselves busy with whatever to keep them off the phone all day and slowly but surely get muscular dystrophy.
That's a bunch of bullshit. There are legitimate reasons why a lot of girls aren't doing OTC or have fallen off the grid. I have the numbers of four of my favorites and here's what happened when I reached out to them via text. Note: I didn't directly ask for OTC, just wanted to start a conversation that might lead up to it.
1. She said she's doing fine because she saves her money. She remembered that I had back surgery and asked how I was doing. Said she hopes to see me once it becomes safe. Her facebook page has all kinds of posts about "Stay home - stay safe" and stuff like that. Actually she has some angry vitriolic shit about people who don't respect the shut-down.
2. No response but her facebook page has videos of her hanging out with family and making "Happy Mother's Day" videos and stuff like that. Some stuff about "riding this thing out." Guess she's just taking a break.
3. No response at all.
4. Pleasant response to my first text but no indication she was open to OTC. Left her alone for a month or so and then sent another "how ya doing" kind of message. She responded immediately with an offer of OTC. We hooked up and I asked her about girl #3 because I know they are in touch with each other. She said she found a "boyfriend" which I assume means she shacked up with a sugar daddy.
What the fuck is wrong with you people? Lots of us have made the assumption that OTC would flourish under the circumstances and then found it not to be so. It's a legitimate question.
Thank you, @Eve, for a constructive and thoughtful response.
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Is it hard for you to believe that some of these girls actually have families and lives outside of working at the club, you fuckin prick?
Send a link to a sexy dress and ask her size. You'll get a reply.
11. Taking advantage of business being temporarily way down by getting boob job. No solution short-term, hope they are good. Not optimistic. Fail!
12. Staying with family/friends out of state. No solution, unless you want to fly. That would be a serious PL move I would not do. Fail!
(previously noted) Staying with Mom/family. Solution: she tells them she is visiting a friend or running errands. Success!
13. Gives up her place to stay with real boyfriend while cash is tight. Solution: she tells boyfriend she is visiting Mom. Make a stop on the way. Success!
Just bringing it up as it does cross my mind every other month. If she doesn't like me it doesn't make me lose any sleep. You cant make a ho a housewife.
BBBC - don't hold your breath fruitcake.
However in covid environment they have no interest in risking covid or spreading it to her family. Covid has killed 100k plus Americans only a fool would be out risking getting it from strip clubbing / meeting up for sessions.
For the general healthy population the risk of dying is in the low 0% range, statistically neglegible. Its important to keep in mind that there are 330 million people in the US, 328 million are not in nursing homes. That means there are only 50,000 deaths out of 328 million people. That may sound like a lot but compare with the 40,000 that die on average per year in motor vehicle accidents for perspective.
Not at all. That’s why they don’t engage with someone they don’t like and don’t need. What’s hard to believe is how worked up some get when a stripper doesn’t return a text. But this thread is proof it happens.