Telling people they have to improve their social skills is just a way of walking on someone. Usually it means taking the same views towards them as their parents have taken.
Seriously; “rough anal” is typically done between two people one, the man, the perpetrator, broadly sociopathic and violent sadist and the other a deeply emotionally dependent a masochist woman, the victim.
Sexual sadism and psychopathy have been theoretically, clinically, and empirically linked to violence, to predatory violence
Sadism is most frequently defined as the range of cognitions and behaviors associated with deriving sexual excitement from inflicting physical and/or emotional pain.
Ugh no. When a girl lets you have rough anal or any kind of rough sex its her way of submitting to you and valuing your pleasure. These women like the blurred line between pleasure and pain.
I think Icey is a rapist in real life. Typical progressive: talk the talk, but a scratch reveals Josef Stalin. Your attitude towards women sucks. Probably not a good idea to ever date a woman who has older brothers. Of course Obama doing Hillary in the ass with a barbed wire condom would be funny.
I think you have to be gay or at
Least bi-curious if you enjoy the act of anal, even if it’s with a woman. The only time I’ve done anal, which is over a dozen times, is when the female asked me to accommodate. She wAnted it but it still doesn’t feel as good as the vagina. Plus I’m not gay wanting to do anal.
I imagine you wouldn't like it much if the whole time youre thinking about mens asses and it being gay. But making love to a womans beautiful ass is beautiful
^^ no, it’s gay cause you think you want a woman but your doing a sexual act that is the only choice for a man. You’re reducing yourself to a gay act. Your definitely a latent homosexual, but in time you will realize it.
I have to concur that a lot of guys who seem obsessed with anal sex to me are closeted bisexuals. I'm not necessarily saying this applies to IceyLoco but Jim's comment reminds me of a guy I knew in high school. He claimed to be straight, but he made an astonishing number of jokes about gay sex. Whether it was fucking me, fucking our mutual friends, or just jokes about big dicks and taking it up the ass.
He was also obsessed with having anal sex with girls. I don't think he was rough about it, he talked about lubing up girls for two hours beforehand and slowly inserting. But for some reason, getting anal sex was essentially like fourth base in his head.
I don't really get the appeal. The asshole just doesn't seem like it was designed for a dick. I feel very adhesive about putting any part of my body where shit comes out of.
I also hate the idea of painful sex. Those are two things that just don't belong together.
Why would anyone experience pain and humiliation as sexually arousing?
That a person would derive sexual pleasure from the pain, humiliation, and loss of control associated with the practice of “rough anal” is against the most fundamental functions of the natural instinct: avoid pain, maintain self-esteem, and seek control.
I've thought the exact same thing. That's why the idea of painful sex freaks me out. I feel like you've got to be a really messed up person to desire pain.
I think the more easily aroused someone is the healthier. People should be able to get aroused just by looking at someone of the opposite sex in a state of partial undress. It disturbs me when you see someone who has to put themselves through so much weird stuff just to get aroused.
Cjkent. Some women like submission. Rough anal affords a different pleasure different sensation. The boundaries between pkeasure and pain are a turn on to many women.
As far as humiliation loss of control and no pkeasure during sex....well thats how hookers feel yet so many on here pretend its okay.
SirLapdancealot 41 min agoexpand_more
"As far as humiliation loss of control and no pkeasure during sex....well thats how hookers feel yet so many on here pretend its okay."
^ LMFAO you are pretending the same thing with rough anal on your paid stripper whore "GFs".
CC maybe onto something about being a closet homosexual. I mean anal sex, especially being rough, is not normal because it is considered deviant behavior. I do agree that mostly homosexual males tend to focus on anal
Sex since that is the only hole to penetrate(besides the obvious oral).
I never thought of anal as being homo until CC pointed it
Out. Thanks!
"CC maybe onto something about being a closet homosexual. I mean anal sex, especially being rough, is not normal because it is considered deviant behavior. I do agree that mostly homosexual males tend to focus on anal
Sex since that is the only hole to penetrate(besides the obvious oral).
I never thought of anal as being homo until CC pointed it
Out. Thanks!"
@Meat and CC99 I'm on board with the theory that if a dude is more into anal sex then he definitely has closet homosexual potential. I had a golf buddy for years that would go straight to talking about an anal sex fantasy, above and beyond all other fantasies like a BJ or FS, with every hot chick we saw or talked about. LOL years later he eventually came out. Not saying there's a perfect correlation here but there's definitely the potential.
Sorry IceyLoco, i didn’t mean for members to start assuming you were gay about this anal topic. It was just a thought I had. Looks like a lot of posts are running on the latent homosexuality that has caused a buzz!
Its funny how men in a forum where married men brag about paying hookers for sex feign moral outrage at the thought of consensual rough anal sex.
The homophobia is lame. "Youre a fag coz you like womens butts duh duh duh" "youre a troll ciz you don't have to pay hookers and you date dancers duh duh duh" some in here are too pathetic
I have known some women that were subs into the whole BDSM scene. It was never a good fit. Playful bondage, a little hair-pulling, or a firm spanking, no problem. When they want serious humiliation, actual pain, really rough sex, I just don't have it in me. I have often wondered about the mental health of individuals into extreme BDSM both giving and receiving. "When a girl lets you have rough anal or any kind of rough sex its her way of submitting to you and valuing your pleasure. " You pretty much just went on record admitting you derive additional pleasure from inflicting pain on your sex partners. Are you self aware enough to at least question why that would be?
Abusive people never have any insight, or self-awareness. They think their deviancy is normal. Thats why they have their own little fucked up communities. Its like alcoholics. When you star you're having a few at thge Rotz-Carlton. At the end you're at a filthy five bar because thats where you fit in. How do you know someone isa thin skinned, simploistic loser? They use words like homophobia when people express an opinion that makes them wet themselves.
^ Ugh no. Women vary what they want for sex. Some women abhor anal sex, moron. Quit making generalizations to justify only what you know as a stripper whore's GFE for you.
IceyDodo posted -> "Ugh no. Women love rough sex. It's about trust pleasure and intimacy"
^ Ugh no. Women vary what they want for sex. Some women abhor anal sex, moron. Quit making generalizations to justify only what you know as a stripper whore's GFE for you.
It’s really a matter of degree I’d say. And it’s about several factors fitting an image. My friend from high school never told me he was bisexual but if he did tell me I would practically expect it. Everyone makes gay sex jokes sometimes but it just strikes me as odd if 50% of your sense of humor seems to involve penises or you having sex with other men. The fact that he has an obsession with anal sex just adds to that.
@iceyloco
That’s because there’s nothing immoral about paying a hooker for sex. But sex that causes pain... Well, causes pain. Thus I would say if it is intentionally done to be painful that it is immoral to a certain extent depending on the severity of it. The problem though is that a lot of people having rough sex probably do it over and over again which will cause damage to both of your mental health regardless of whether it’s consensual or not.
Prostitution is immoral when married men cheat on their wives with hookers for example.
Rough sex is just acting out on pure lust for each other. Pleasure and pain are blurred often. Like playing with pierced nipples or putting ice cubes in her pussy. Her biting you. Its not about wanting to cause pain.
IceyDodo FYI moron you can put an ice cube in a sex doll's pussy.
And just like you pretend that your stripper whore "GFs" (to which you PAY) like the sex that you like, if one chooses, they can pretend a sex doll likes the same thing.
It's all what you want to believe in your own head. Just like you want to believe the stripper whores that you pay are "GFs" 😂😂😂
Icee is a woman she admitted it last night and she wants the Dugan dick in her ass Queer as folk and Dugan actually likes fucking women in the ass because he’s a faggit himself
25 has gone into full meltdown now, lol. I knew he was obsessed, but I'm a little concerned about his new sex fantasies involving me. Maybe they were always there. It would explain a lot I suppose, but I just always assumed that the degenerate preferred underage girls.
===> "Anyone notice how RickiBoi is always defending Icee Homo, they are both the same poster, and both faggits"
Huh? 25 I only waded in because you fixated on my penis. Kinda' creepy btw. Argue with juice, er, I mean Icey, all you want.
But I do have to add that your incessant need to seek out affirmation from other grown men is also a bit creepy and a sign of deep emotional insecurity. You don't need to see if anyone else believes something - just man up and take your own stand. Next you'll start back into that whole "so how many people have you met from here?" schtick. Idk, but if you keep behaving like a needy and angry troll, I suspect that far fewer will want to be associated with you in the future.
Cjkent work on your reading comprehension skills. I said it's about trust and intimacy and these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain. It isn't about inflicting pain but your view of it as such defines you
Funny both of you start posting at the same time, both make ad hominem attacks on me using the same tired old canards, you are fucked up beyond normal seek help , for the record you are the jackass starting in with me I must be ever present in your head for you to be so fixated
And RickiBoi beat up any trannys lately, no how about cigar smokers?
No, I didn’t think you could, chances are you’d be the one getting the shit kicked out of you. 😂 LOLOL
25, are you really that proud when someone responds to one of your asinine posts? It doesn't bother you that, despite your review contributions, you are known primarily as an off kilter troll? I ask that last question out of genuine curiosity. 😊
Haha this is funny shit two guys who’ve never met another TUSCLer setting up shop together to troll me and anyone that doesn’t put up with their stupidity
I offered to meet Icee in Vegas in two weeks but we know that’ll never happen as far as meeting dugan he’s been All over the place telling y’all about me, but many of you know me, who knows RickiBoi anyone ever met that slimeball.
^ And there goes 25's need for affirmation again. ;0
@FLF: It's prima facie dude.
@25: If objecting to your fixation on my penis means that I'm "setting up shop" with juice's troll account then so be it, though I think smarter people than you (which is most) would simply read it to mean that I'd prefer you not to be obsessing about my penis. Just ewww dude.
ummm 25, I don't have any troll accounts on here - I can barely keep up with one. I also don't write reviews for Vegas clubs 'cause I haven't been there for many years. I guess you missed another thread where multiple screen names were cheering juice on for trolling you. You really need to take a step back now 25 and clear your head - I say that as genuine advice.
Cjkent work on your reading comprehension skills. I said it's about trust and intimacy and these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain. It isn't about inflicting pain but your view of it as such defines you
Dugan you and your sock poppet are hardly in a position to give advice about trolling all of the trolling here over the last round has been initiated by the two of you and the nastier you guys are
The nastier I’ll be OTH if you left me alone I wouldn’t waste a second on you and your stupid trolling and it’s well documented and has been commented on by dozens sending me PMs don’t think for one minute that the majority here like you, those days are long over, most here think you are an arrogant prick, and wouldn’t waste their time on the likes of you and Icee.
25, I don't control Juice's troll accounts, nor was I part of this thread until you threw my name around, just like you did in 2 or 3 other threads yesterday that I wasn't posting in. You're swiping at shadows now 25.
Maybe you really did receive those dozens of PMs, but honestly I couldn't care less. I come here to brag, read strip club adventures and maybe mix it up a bit in a lively chat, nothing more. Using this place, full of degenerates, trolls and/or other unusual types (myself included, lol), for primary social or affirmation reasons is just not healthy and is exactly why you're having these meltdowns now. I really do hope that you take a step back and maybe reset your head - just a thought.
“these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain.”
Pics and videos or didn’t happen.
Sexual sadism and psychopathy have been theoretically, clinically, and empirically linked to violence, to predatory violence
Sadism is most frequently defined as the range of cognitions and behaviors associated with deriving sexual excitement from inflicting physical and/or emotional pain.
A sexual sadist (IceyLoco) must experience persistent and intense sexual arousal from causing or fantasizing about the physical or mental suffering of another person, with or without their consent.
Cjkent work on your reading comprehension skills. I said it's about trust and intimacy and these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain. It isn't about inflicting pain but your view of it as such defines you
I'm glad to finally see somebody else who realizes that S&M activities are a complete perversion of everything sex should be. Sex is an activity of fun, pleasure, and happiness. People trying to corrupt it with pain and violence are doing everybody a disservice.
A sexual sadist (you) experiences a feeling of power for someone who normally feels powerless in day-to-day life; a release of suppressed sexual fantasies; or progressive acting out of sadistic sexual fantasies over time.
It is uncommon for people with sexual sadism disorder to seek treatment on their own.
Treatment for sexual sadism disorder typically involves psychotherapy and medication.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy can help an individual recognize patterns of sexual arousal and learn new and healthier responses
Cjkent youre the deviant paying hookers. Fuck off with trying to make people liking rough sex sound weird. Some of you sound like youve never had a girl want you
Your sadistic fantasies are linked to lower self-esteem, attachment anxiety (fear of being abandoned), and more sexual problems.
Your sadistic fantasies may be a way of exerting control that you don’t otherwise feel you have, or perhaps compensating for a perceived deficiency or something you feel is lacking in your own life.
Some sadistic acts are inherently masochistic; hurting someone else can actually hurt you—because for some humans it’s painful to witness others’ pain—so maybe what turns, the sadist in you, on isn’t necessarily someone else’s pain, but your own.
For some reason in some humans, inflicting pain on others brings emotional pain to them, because after all they are humans.
I hope, like some alcoholics and drug addicts, you recognize you have a problem and get help and also hope your victims get help too.
@CJKent just to further your point, IceyDodo has admitted to losing her father at a young age (I can't remember if he left or died) and also at one point she admitted to being suicidal. It's buried in her posts now but I'm pretty sure she admitted to both things which explains that pain and internal issues you mention that she bears. Plus her angry response to you calling out her issues is telling too. And lastly she clearly has issues with men that enjoy FS with strippers. She's got a lot of mental baggage and that's just from her own posts. Who knows what other demons she has in her head. Anyway, your post explains a lot about her.
In recent years ass-related sex has taken on mainstream appeal. “Pop-culture acolytes”
proclaimed 2014 the "Year of the Booty,"
So it has become much less shocking to talk about and engage in the “real acts” of anal sex.
As long as commercial media is glamorizing anal sex without proper education, there will be plenty of confusion.
Anal sex remains more of a power play for guys than it is about sex. To them, it's about convincing/coaxing girls into doing something some girls are not cool with.
Despite the fact that there is a high concentration of nerve endings around and just inside the anus—so in theory the ass has the potential to be a stimulating erogenous zone—there's also plenty of room for error with anal play.
The majority of young women who had engaged in anal sex said the encounters were riddled with pressure and were often painful.
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I like fucking bitches up their asses roughly
Hope you use a self lubricating dildo.
SJG
You wrote:
“I like fucking bitches up their asses roughly”
Pics or didn’t happen.
Seriously; “rough anal” is typically done between two people one, the man, the perpetrator, broadly sociopathic and violent sadist and the other a deeply emotionally dependent a masochist woman, the victim.
Sexual sadism and psychopathy have been theoretically, clinically, and empirically linked to violence, to predatory violence
Sadism is most frequently defined as the range of cognitions and behaviors associated with deriving sexual excitement from inflicting physical and/or emotional pain.
I hope your victims get help.
On the other hand, if Betsy DeVos and Kelly Anne Conway get anally abused by BBC I would find it hilarious!
Have to be careful with anal.
SJG
Least bi-curious if you enjoy the act of anal, even if it’s with a woman. The only time I’ve done anal, which is over a dozen times, is when the female asked me to accommodate. She wAnted it but it still doesn’t feel as good as the vagina. Plus I’m not gay wanting to do anal.
SJG
He was also obsessed with having anal sex with girls. I don't think he was rough about it, he talked about lubing up girls for two hours beforehand and slowly inserting. But for some reason, getting anal sex was essentially like fourth base in his head.
I don't really get the appeal. The asshole just doesn't seem like it was designed for a dick. I feel very adhesive about putting any part of my body where shit comes out of.
I also hate the idea of painful sex. Those are two things that just don't belong together.
Congrats IceyLoco on receiving this most distinguished award on proving your disgust for womenkind!!
Just think and ask and answer this question:
Why would anyone experience pain and humiliation as sexually arousing?
That a person would derive sexual pleasure from the pain, humiliation, and loss of control associated with the practice of “rough anal” is against the most fundamental functions of the natural instinct: avoid pain, maintain self-esteem, and seek control.
I've thought the exact same thing. That's why the idea of painful sex freaks me out. I feel like you've got to be a really messed up person to desire pain.
I think the more easily aroused someone is the healthier. People should be able to get aroused just by looking at someone of the opposite sex in a state of partial undress. It disturbs me when you see someone who has to put themselves through so much weird stuff just to get aroused.
As far as humiliation loss of control and no pkeasure during sex....well thats how hookers feel yet so many on here pretend its okay.
^ LMFAO you are pretending the same thing with rough anal on your paid stripper whore "GFs".
ROFLMAO you are projecting now. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
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SirLapdancealot 41 min agoexpand_more
"As far as humiliation loss of control and no pkeasure during sex....well thats how hookers feel yet so many on here pretend its okay."
^ LMFAO you are pretending the same thing with rough anal on your paid stripper whore "GFs".
ROFLMAO you are projecting now. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Sex since that is the only hole to penetrate(besides the obvious oral).
I never thought of anal as being homo until CC pointed it
Out. Thanks!
^ LMFAO the keyword here is "act".
That's what a good stripper whore does for a well paying RIL trick bitch. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Sex since that is the only hole to penetrate(besides the obvious oral).
I never thought of anal as being homo until CC pointed it
Out. Thanks!"
Lmfao ^^^
Bacon!!
The homophobia is lame. "Youre a fag coz you like womens butts duh duh duh" "youre a troll ciz you don't have to pay hookers and you date dancers duh duh duh" some in here are too pathetic
SJG
Dave Brubeck Quartet - Jazzwoche Burghausen 2001
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhx7guit…
^ Ugh no. Women vary what they want for sex. Some women abhor anal sex, moron. Quit making generalizations to justify only what you know as a stripper whore's GFE for you.
@iceyloco
That’s because there’s nothing immoral about paying a hooker for sex. But sex that causes pain... Well, causes pain. Thus I would say if it is intentionally done to be painful that it is immoral to a certain extent depending on the severity of it. The problem though is that a lot of people having rough sex probably do it over and over again which will cause damage to both of your mental health regardless of whether it’s consensual or not.
Rough sex is just acting out on pure lust for each other. Pleasure and pain are blurred often. Like playing with pierced nipples or putting ice cubes in her pussy. Her biting you. Its not about wanting to cause pain.
If a woman did that to me during sex I would breakup with her.
I have no idea what having ice cubes in your pussy would feel like.
The sensation of an ice cube in a hot wet pussy feels good to women.
These things you can't do with a.sex doll
And just like you pretend that your stripper whore "GFs" (to which you PAY) like the sex that you like, if one chooses, they can pretend a sex doll likes the same thing.
It's all what you want to believe in your own head. Just like you want to believe the stripper whores that you pay are "GFs" 😂😂😂
SJG
Just answer the question:
Why would anyone experience pain and humiliation as sexually arousing?
(To help you, notice the key word in the question is why)
Huh? 25 I only waded in because you fixated on my penis. Kinda' creepy btw. Argue with juice, er, I mean Icey, all you want.
But I do have to add that your incessant need to seek out affirmation from other grown men is also a bit creepy and a sign of deep emotional insecurity. You don't need to see if anyone else believes something - just man up and take your own stand. Next you'll start back into that whole "so how many people have you met from here?" schtick. Idk, but if you keep behaving like a needy and angry troll, I suspect that far fewer will want to be associated with you in the future.
And its nice to have pedo 20fag on ignore lulz
And RickiBoi beat up any trannys lately, no how about cigar smokers?
No, I didn’t think you could, chances are you’d be the one getting the shit kicked out of you. 😂 LOLOL
No FLF, we're certain that you are. But at least you don't pretend to be anything else. 😊
I offered to meet Icee in Vegas in two weeks but we know that’ll never happen as far as meeting dugan he’s been All over the place telling y’all about me, but many of you know me, who knows RickiBoi anyone ever met that slimeball.
@FLF: It's prima facie dude.
@25: If objecting to your fixation on my penis means that I'm "setting up shop" with juice's troll account then so be it, though I think smarter people than you (which is most) would simply read it to mean that I'd prefer you not to be obsessing about my penis. Just ewww dude.
Once again just answer the question.
Why?
Cjkent work on your reading comprehension skills. I said it's about trust and intimacy and these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain. It isn't about inflicting pain but your view of it as such defines you
: the cause, reason or purpose for which.
The nastier I’ll be OTH if you left me alone I wouldn’t waste a second on you and your stupid trolling and it’s well documented and has been commented on by dozens sending me PMs don’t think for one minute that the majority here like you, those days are long over, most here think you are an arrogant prick, and wouldn’t waste their time on the likes of you and Icee.
Maybe you really did receive those dozens of PMs, but honestly I couldn't care less. I come here to brag, read strip club adventures and maybe mix it up a bit in a lively chat, nothing more. Using this place, full of degenerates, trolls and/or other unusual types (myself included, lol), for primary social or affirmation reasons is just not healthy and is exactly why you're having these meltdowns now. I really do hope that you take a step back and maybe reset your head - just a thought.
You wrote:
“these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain.”
Pics and videos or didn’t happen.
Sexual sadism and psychopathy have been theoretically, clinically, and empirically linked to violence, to predatory violence
Sadism is most frequently defined as the range of cognitions and behaviors associated with deriving sexual excitement from inflicting physical and/or emotional pain.
A sexual sadist (IceyLoco) must experience persistent and intense sexual arousal from causing or fantasizing about the physical or mental suffering of another person, with or without their consent.
I hope your victims get help
Got it Dugan
I’m bringing sexy back brace back....yup! You mother fuckers better watch your back....yup! Cause if you don’t watch it
I’ll steal your bitch.....yup!
Bacon!!
Cjkent work on your reading comprehension skills. I said it's about trust and intimacy and these women like the sensation between pleasure and pain. It isn't about inflicting pain but your view of it as such defines you
I am not into that, but I don't see it as wrong when between consenting adults.
But all human interactions have ritualized plays with dominance and submission.
SJG
I'm glad to finally see somebody else who realizes that S&M activities are a complete perversion of everything sex should be. Sex is an activity of fun, pleasure, and happiness. People trying to corrupt it with pain and violence are doing everybody a disservice.
A sexual sadist (you) experiences a feeling of power for someone who normally feels powerless in day-to-day life; a release of suppressed sexual fantasies; or progressive acting out of sadistic sexual fantasies over time.
It is uncommon for people with sexual sadism disorder to seek treatment on their own.
Treatment for sexual sadism disorder typically involves psychotherapy and medication.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy can help an individual recognize patterns of sexual arousal and learn new and healthier responses
I hope you and your victims get help
Your sadistic fantasies are linked to lower self-esteem, attachment anxiety (fear of being abandoned), and more sexual problems.
Your sadistic fantasies may be a way of exerting control that you don’t otherwise feel you have, or perhaps compensating for a perceived deficiency or something you feel is lacking in your own life.
Some sadistic acts are inherently masochistic; hurting someone else can actually hurt you—because for some humans it’s painful to witness others’ pain—so maybe what turns, the sadist in you, on isn’t necessarily someone else’s pain, but your own.
For some reason in some humans, inflicting pain on others brings emotional pain to them, because after all they are humans.
I hope, like some alcoholics and drug addicts, you recognize you have a problem and get help and also hope your victims get help too.
proclaimed 2014 the "Year of the Booty,"
So it has become much less shocking to talk about and engage in the “real acts” of anal sex.
As long as commercial media is glamorizing anal sex without proper education, there will be plenty of confusion.
Anal sex remains more of a power play for guys than it is about sex. To them, it's about convincing/coaxing girls into doing something some girls are not cool with.
Despite the fact that there is a high concentration of nerve endings around and just inside the anus—so in theory the ass has the potential to be a stimulating erogenous zone—there's also plenty of room for error with anal play.
The majority of young women who had engaged in anal sex said the encounters were riddled with pressure and were often painful.
Why is it folks use the term - up the ass - when talking about anal?
Is it really up? Depending on the position - it could be fucking down or to the side.
Rough is as rough does..
SJG
SJG