Fort Wayne stripper said to me: "they don't allow me to talk about that stuff h
rickdugan
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When I was clubbing in Fort Wayne Indiana the other night, I ended up on a smoking patio with a young dancer who caught my interest. When she mentioned that she had worked in some clubs in another state during our get to know you chit chat, I was interested in knowing which ones. She responded with "they don't allow us to talk about stuff like that here."
OK, I get it, she didn't want to disclose that. But this was really the best she could come up with? Anyway, I just got up, told her that I'd leave her to her cigarette, and walked back into the club.
Sadly, I wouldn't be surprised if that shit normally flies in Fort Wayne clubs. It was very odd clubbing there. The girls were as skittish as any I've come across in some time. I could already tell with a couple that fun could probably be had if I was a known quantity, but as a traveling hound I was at a severe disadvantage in that town.
OK, I get it, she didn't want to disclose that. But this was really the best she could come up with? Anyway, I just got up, told her that I'd leave her to her cigarette, and walked back into the club.
Sadly, I wouldn't be surprised if that shit normally flies in Fort Wayne clubs. It was very odd clubbing there. The girls were as skittish as any I've come across in some time. I could already tell with a couple that fun could probably be had if I was a known quantity, but as a traveling hound I was at a severe disadvantage in that town.
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I assume you were perhaps trying to gauge what type of dancer she was by the clubs she had worked at and maybe it frustrated you that you couldn't get the info you wanted to possibly aid you in your ultimate goal.
None of the above. First, gauging a new girl in a conservative club as a potential OTC prospect is a process, not a single round. Second, trying to judge a girl based upon historical club history is often a mistake as there are reasons why she didn't last long in her old club(s). Third, I usually don't begrudge a girl for having a reason not to talk about something - maybe she has a history she isn't ready to get into.
My problem was with the excuse itself. She has to be able to do better than a goofy excuse like "the club won't let us talk about that stuff." In that brief moment, she instantly transformed from hot fun prospect to boring, weak, silly, and dull. I walked away because her making up that silly excuse told me everything I needed to know about how the rest of my conversations and interactions were likely to go with her.
It's not logic, but rather experience talking. The second a girl dips into the "club won't let me do it' well for something that trivial, it's all over Johnny. I leave skittish baby strippers for those who like that sort of thing.
i.e. I "try" not to set the bar too-high where one particular thing/statement makes me think she's not worth dealing with - of course there *is* a bar - e.g. if she tells me she'll do a CBJ for $1000 then I'm pretty-much done w/ her; etc.
If I can ask, what do you mean by that? Not a rhetorical question, I’m actually curious. I just read your two most recent reviews, but those explained more the club structure than the people.
Of course, the problem can't possibly be that you asked a nosy, impertinent question, could it? No, of course not, there must be something wrong with her.
You can bet if she'd just come out and said, "None of your business," he'd be whinging about that too.
@Papi: I hear ya'. And just like some girls are intimidated by chemical engineers, it would seem that some customers are intimidated by private backrooms in the Miami clubs. We all have our thing I suppose. 😉
SJG
But for some reason this particular excuse instantly rubbed me the wrong way. Either she was dumb enough not to realize how absurd it sounded or she thought I was stupid enough to buy it. Either way she was dead to me the moment she uttered it. Hence a special thread for an especially ridiculous excuse. No "dogging" intended - it's not like I've identified the chick or even the club.
I remember one time a dancer told me the same thing about what extras she offered in the VIP room, I told her "I won't tell if you don't" and quickly moved on.
That's different than asking a generic question - your question has to do with the negotiation process where $$$ is involved.
The response of "they don't allow me talk about it..." to me is so lame, like the club has her miked up and listens to her every conversation.
Plus in a known extras club, management at least tacitcly supports the actions, so to say that is lame.
I have to say gmd that you're an odd duck. You take great exception over a guy asking a girl a question that most would normally consider fairly safe territory for get to know you chatter, but have no qualms about subjecting your loved ones and those of your paid cocksucker to days of histrionics over her passing. I truly say this without rancor gmd, but your compass as to what is and isn't appropriate is really out of balance.
So says the guy who is now complaining that strippers don’t tell him better lies. What a retard.