popular in club vs friends being banned true story

I am/become popular. Girls outloud shout my praises. I look to get multiple numbers from strippers lets say. I am stopped from doing this or are told to do this after the club is closed. Next weekend a mutual friend who I was with goes there on His own. Chats about why I'm not with Him happen and stuff. He starts to get phone numbers of strippers. Next weekend after he decides to go on His own and is barred entry. Hmmm what is your opinion.