Three strippers talk about being a good strip club customer.
The thing I disagreed with most was this: "All three dancers talked about how uncomfortable they feel when customers try to get them to engage in gossip about other dancers."
In my experience, dancers are always gossiping to me about other dancers, and the gossip is mostly negative. They tell me a dancer is fat or is on drugs or has a pimp. They criticize other girls' looks or habits or tats. I don't engage in much gossip myself.
I think the negative comments are often an attempt to pry a customer away from a competing dancer. Once a few years ago when my CF was on stage, another stripper sat down at my table and told me my CF was sleeping with the DJ. This, I later learned, was true. But why would I care? She wasn't my wife or girlfriend, and a hot stripper is sure to be sleeping with someone. As long as she was having sex with me, I was happy.
I suppose they don't want to hear that Bambi gives better blow jobs than they do. :)