Your fingers or your tongue?

My mind.

Tongue works better than fingers. Why? Because men cannot speak while DATYing???

Depends on the girl and what she likes. I have been able to get girls off both ways.

Fingers inside, tongue outside

Shadowcat has no idea because he is used to trying to get dudes like Ron Jeremy aroused.

All women are different, so I prepare for all contingencies.

I prefer to tease with the finger and let my tongue do the majority of the work.

But mostly, I try to read her signals and follow her lead.

I don't recall where but I read once why women prefer tongue to fingers.

the tongue is softer but still firm. the tongue has more surface area. it can move easily in any direction. a guy usually gets distracted with kissing or sucking tits when he fingers a woman. he can lick her clit and put a finger in her.

most guys would choose to be pleasured by her mouth/tongue rather than her hand. Women are no different.

Tongue is better majority of the time. When guys are all worked up, myself included, we tend to be a little too rough with our fingers, or rub a little too fast before they are ready for it, and it hurts them a little. Too much pressure on the clit too soon is no good.

Men are like microwaves and women are like a slow heating oven. You have to allow them time to get aroused before they are ready for more pressure or faster rubbing on their clitoris. The tongue does a better job from beginning to end.

A few women have told they like dick but don't like being fingered - and probably more don't like it and haven't told me so

Best to undress women in stages. So start with fingers, but through her clothes or through her undergarments.

Go do tongue then after her skin is bared. Use fingers to help as you are doing this.

SJG

If you don't maintain your nails appropriately women usually don't want you shoving your fingers into their lady parts.

But since I have both a tongue and fingers, I use both accordingly as the situation dictates, although I prefer using my tongue

Tongue wins every time, as long as the tongue's owner has a clue as to what they are doing.

I always prep my nails, clipping, and filing or grinding down on something improvised, when I will be with a lady.

I start with fingers, nipples and pussy. I think tongue has more effect because of heat transfer and being wet. But I always like to tease girls along, make the whole thing go slower and take more time. Fingers fine working through her clothes, but flesh has to be bared for the tongue.

Not really necessary to have any discussion about all of this, it just happens.

SJG


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Tongue, definitely, for me. I use it to talk to them on the phone, asking them what they're wearing while I masturbate.

I also over the telephone like to ask girls what they are wearing. Sometimes I know that they are exaggerating, but that is still good. I want them to know that I like.

SJG

^^^^^ Can't really talk about what you want a girl to wear, when you are with her. Need to just adore her as she is. So best over the telephone.

SJG