Crazy obsessed in love / stalker stories...

PaulDrake
Off again on again PL
So what are the craziest stories you have heard in the club of customers who got stalker-ish or were in love to the point of crazy obsession. This was inspired by a story nicespice posted a long time ago about a customer of hers so hopefully she will come retell it.

Here are mine:

1. A dancer told me she had a guy who was obsessed in love with her and would text her 50 times a day. Eventually she blocked his number so he somehow found her mom's number and started calling her mom to try and get in touch with her.

2. A CF of mine who is (sweet but dumb) kept talking to this old guy at the club who comes in and never spends much money. She also gave her number to this guy and he would text her occasionally. And she met him for a platonic lunch once. Apparently this guy got the wrong idea and thought that meant they were dating.

So this guy shows up at the club with a $40,000 engagement ring and started telling the managers and other dancers that they were getting married. At this point my CF told the guy that she was not dating him and was not interested in him at all. He got angry and started stalking her culminating in seriously physically assaulting her at her apartment.

21 comments

  • ATACdawg
    5 years ago
    There was a dancer at the now closed 1320 Club II in Springfield VA who had to change the days she was on and had management delete her name from the published schedules. The guy was so obsessed with her that he threatened to beat the crap out of of any guy who had the effrontery to talk to her, let alone get dances from her - that would have included me given that she was one of my favorite dancers ever.

    She was actually in her 40s, a grandmother, and one of the absolutely sweetest women on the face of the earth. She gave me one of my most memorable lap dances ever about two weeks before their lease ended.
  • jackslash
    5 years ago
    My ATF had a number of stalkers. She told me a stalker was texting her a 100 times a day. I didn't believe that, and so she showed me her phone. He had sent her at least 50 texts and it was not yet noon.

    A different stalker of hers sent me a message on Facebook. He threatened to punch me in the nose if I didn't leave his "fiancee" alone. He was younger and bigger than me, but I don't think he was faster than my Glock.


  • crazyjoe
    5 years ago
    Not sure I have a good story about a dancer being stocked but I have one of my own...

    I was close to going through a divorce and two girls who were sisters I went to school with had become good friends with a family member. The younger one decided she had a thing for me and she was married and her husband was a little shady. I had heard from a family member that he had shown up at church one time in a trench coat and wearing a strap on under it. He was flashing old ladies with the strap on. Her entire family was in on her delusion that she was going to marry me. I did not want anything to do with her in that way.

    It was not long before my divorse was started she was stopping by my house late at night. I only knew this because of what I heard from my family. I just happened to be out walking my dog during those times so I never did see her. Then I catch eind that her husband wants to talk to me because he thinks I am after his wife. I heard rumors he was waiting outside my house for me to get home on multiple occasions and was warned to watch my back. This situation ended up dying down after a while with no confrontation.

    Fast forward a couple years... the husband was involved in a bad drug deal where someone owed him money. Him and a couple of his friends ended up taking the guy owing the money for a ride to a desolate place. Husband pulled a sawed off shotgun out and completely unloaded it into the dude. He reloaded a couple more times and kept pumping rounds into the dead corpse. Because of the rage involved husband got life in prison. Now she is married to her ex husbands first cousin and they are both complete losers that are trying to live off their kids.
  • crazyjoe
    5 years ago
    The redneck family tree grows straight up
  • GoVikings
    5 years ago
    100 texts a day? I wouldn’t have believed that either. That’s crazy. Why would a guy do that? That’s obviously only gonna make the woman not wanna ever talk to you again.
  • ATACdawg
    5 years ago
    Well, that is crazy, and very consistent with obsessive stalking. 🙄
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Ha. This just gives me more confirmation bias against keeping regulars past 3 times or so. My stories are pretty tame for the most part.

    Tho in my case, I wouldn’t call it fair to refer to him as a stalker. It was just that that particular customer had 3 or 4 job offers in four cities. He considered the work in one city to be likely the most interesting. In another one to be the highest pay. But he said he was likely to choose Austin because that’s where I was.

    Once his internship was completed and he left Austin to finish his last year at school, I “broke up” with him so to speak.
    ——
    Tho, I did deal with one weirdo. Not OTC stalking, but I guess you could call him creepy.

    One time I was working and onstage and he walked up to me and outright started pitching to me to go to VIP and “eat pussy”.

    I shrugged it off and ignored him. Later on, when I danced for a couple of customers, he creeped them out and they stopped buying. Ugh.

    Then he reaaaly wanted a dance later and I was dumb enough to agree to it, thinking he will lose interest if I give him a shitty dance. Then a minute in when my face was turned he immediately whipped out his dick and shot precum at me.

    Normally, I am pretty poker faced at a lot of customer antics, but I flew off the handle that day and yelled at him. And demanded an extra tip, which I got. He was nonchalant after handing the money over and asked me if I’d fuck him for $100. I went to the dressing room, cleaned myself up, warned about him to a couple other dancers, and thankfully he was gone when I emerged back.
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Actually, there was that ex regular who figured out my first name. And messaged me addressing me as such. But I blocked him and never heard from him again.
    ——
    And then the customer at the end of the night who non-chalantly told me he would be waiting in the parking lot for me. A bouncer walked me to my car and I didn’t see him so it worked out just fine.
  • ATACdawg
    5 years ago
    I wouldn't be so quick to get rid of a customer just because you've danced for him 3 or 4 times. If the guy isn't creepy or possessive, you may be turning away literally thousands of dollars of no risk cash.

    With my ATF I have always made it clear that if she is offered a dance(s) on her tip round, she should dance for them. I want her to make as much money as she can, and she is absolutely worth waiting for.
  • ATACdawg
    5 years ago
    Of course, whether or not you accept regulars and under what conditions is entirely up to you. After all, it's your safety that is at stake.
  • wallanon
    5 years ago
    I think I went to the 1320 II club once. It was pretty decent. I'm not in clubs enough anymore to hear about crazy RIL stories or see the drama unfold. Can't say I miss those days, either.
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Ooh! And don’t forget the TUSCLer who told me that I was dumb for running my mouth off because people know what club I work at. And that one day I was going to be spiked with GHB.
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    @atacdawg yeah sometimes I wonder that too. But then every time I try, I give up again and decide it’s not worth it. I like the idea in theory.

    But since I’ve decided to now become a travel hobo, it’s not too much of a concern anyways now 😁
  • Muddy
    5 years ago
    For me totally it’s all these dancers that can’t get enough me. Following me to my car, hiding in my backyard tree, stalking me on social media. It just kind of comes with the territory of being so damn sexy. 😎
  • GoVikings
    5 years ago
    ^ lol
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    Muddy you don’t have a backyard tree! 🧐
  • nicespice
    5 years ago
    ...Not that I know that for sure 😅
  • Muddy
    5 years ago
    Ohhh Nice that was you last night! Not again. God damn alright girl that’s it no lap dances for one weekend!
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    Yeah, this kind of a thread is about things which are not good.

    SJG
  • Icey
    5 years ago
    At least the obvious stalkers are obvious and girls can take precautions.

    One of the weirdest stalker stories I heard was about a guy who was a 40 something year old virgin and thought that by going to strip clubs and telling strippers about it,one would fall in love and take his virginity.... he was a really fat white guy only into thin Latinas under 21.... so yeah.

    He ended up becoming overly attached to a girl but she never knew til he did weird shit. She texted him saying she wasn't working coz she was sick. So he wanted to find out if she was really sick or if it was stripper shit. So he ended up finding her FB through another dancer they knew. Then found the girl's mom, and started calling the mom asking if her daughter is really sick.

    This guy followed another girl home from the club and looked in her windows, her boyfriend beat him up.
  • san_jose_guy
    5 years ago
    ^^^^^ bad scene indeed.

    SJG
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