Dancer Communications
DougS
Florida
Tuesday, October 31, 2006 5:00 AM
Keeping in communications contact with my fav dancers has at times been a real chore. I need to be able to arrange times when I will be in the club to assure that they will also be there. I also need to arrange OTC or what have you. Plus, I like to maintain contact just to keep things friendly, so to speak.
This probably only is a concern when you can't go to the club that frequently, and especially when the club isn't close by.
Normally, we exchange phone numbers but with the hours they keep, and sometimes their lack or reliability, there are times when connecting on the phone isn't as timely as I'd like it to be. Also, the phone connection can sometimes be difficult if the girl has an SO, plus I also have an SO.
Other methods used... calling the club directly - usually a pay phone at the club, can sometimes work, but obviously it has to be ok with your girl. If it's a pay phone number, you obviously have to rely on someone answering it, AND cooperating enough to go snag your girl to come to the phone. If it's not a pay phone, the chances of success rely on how cooperative the answerer (most likely the doorman or bartender) is.
I've also found that giving your girl a pre-paid phone card works very well in increasing chances that she will call. Especially if she can't call from her cell phone because the phone number shows up, etc.
I've also found that I can send a letter to the club, attn: dancer name. That method seems to work great at the current fav's club, as long as you don't need a timely response.
Another possiblity... buying a pay-as-you-go cell phone and sending it to her. I have a buddy that has had good success with his girls, with this technique.
Does anyone else have communications issues? Any other ideas on how better to keep the communications lines open?
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