One of the Cutest Things I've Read Recently.
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Say yes to the sex industry!
On another forum, I saw a discussion posted about flat chested girls. And one guy who likes flat-chested girls posted saying "think about it this way, when you hug a girl with a flat chest, that means you're closer to her heart."
I hadn't ever thought about it that way but now its really cute when I think about it. I do really like the feeling of boobs pressed up against my chest too though.
I hadn't ever thought about it that way but now its really cute when I think about it. I do really like the feeling of boobs pressed up against my chest too though.
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A. You skip the flat ones.
I guarantee that guy's line would make a girl he's not seeing or hasn't caught feelings, feel awkward. My line about her being fun sized would make her laugh and would make her feel more comfortable.
If I say "X" is my type, then it's inevitable that the next woman I see who I think is smoking hot is not "X".
- I do think sexual assault/harassment is a major problem and have sympathy for people trying to fix it.
- I do have issues with the prevalence of degrading content in porn.
- I also want to dismantle power dynamics in relationships.
- I also don't like the expectation that men be macho. I'm not macho and quite frankly, a lot of macho behaviors just look like being a dick to me.
Feminism lost me as an ally though because they appear to have just become a movement dedicated to hating men. Everything a guy says or does or feels gets demonized by feminists in some way as sexist.
Say you want a cute girly girlfriend? Feminists will say "you're looking for somebody weak to dominate."
Say you want a girl to emotionally nurture you? Feminists will say "so you just want a girl who will rescue you and act like your mommy."
Even when you do things that they should like, like saying you try to be gentle with girls and not push them into sex. They just say something like "you're treating girls like a child, who's so delicate you can't disgrace her with your sexuality."
Man wants to show a lot of affection to his girlfriend and call her cute and stuff like that? Feminists will say you are infantilizing her.
Every fucking thing you do is perceived by feminists as evil. They always assume you have some kind of malicious intent, or despite talking about how guys should support feminism because feminism will eliminate the burden of being macho and unemotional, feminists are just as bad about ridiculing or making fun of any kind of male vulnerability. They're so obsessed with women's independence from men that they are ruining the entire idea of what a romantic relationship should really be like. Instead of two souls coming together to be one person where all her problems are your problems and all her wants and goals are yours, and her feel the same way about you; instead feminists seem to be subtly trying to push this idea that romantic relationships should happen somewhat at an arms length and men and women should ultimately be independent of each other. To force this to happen, they celebrate women cheating on and divorcing their husbands. For some reason, a man and a woman becoming extremely attached to and loving towards one another really bothers them and they constantly try to figure out what negative things they can say about it. Either the man is a patriarchal sexist or the woman is a bad feminist letting down all her "sisters" or whatever by being so "submissive" when she isn't even being submissive she's just being loving.
Also, feminism is terrible at achieving their actual goals. Sexual assault is probably a worse problem now because feminism was so determined to destroy the code of chivalry and because they rant against "nice guys" even more than they do against guys who act like cavemen and are committing sexual assaults all the time. Feminism has destroyed the harmony between the sexes by telling men their natural affection for girls was sexist and that girls' shouldn't have a natural affection for guys because most guys are potential rapists and sexists. For as much as they rant against 1950s America, I didn't see any misogynistic movements in the 1950s and most men were actually very kind and loving towards their wives. Feminism has ruined all of that, now we're slowly hating each other more and more because feminism has taught both genders to see the other as the enemy instead of as a source of love and joy in their lives.
Saccharine can be cute though.