Years ago I saw a cartoon of a naked woman sitting up in bed with her man’s head between her spread thighs. The caption says, “Eat, eat, eat. Doesn’t anyone fuck anymore? In the 60’s I ate my first pussy and between not knowing what I was doing and pulling long black curlies out of my teeth, I didn’t do much muff diving for awhile. Then I remember an episode of The Sopranos where the older goombahs are denying eating pussy cuz it’s unmanly. Well in the intervening years many women have chosen to bare their pussy and many women are far more vocal about what they like, want, and expect. Now it seems as if anal play is the newest sexual thrill. Sure there’s always been some anal penetration, but it just seems as if couples “ eating each other’s ass is a lot more accepted and popular. I see more in porn than I used to, I’ve had dancers offer to eat my ass for a price of course, but it was almost unheard of ( in my experience). A GF recently showed her and her BF in a homemade video, in the most awkward 69 I’ve seen because they had their tongues up the partners asshole. I told her I’d pass on kissing for now Is it me or is this more common? And how is cleanliness addressed? In the video shared, after the guy pounded his dick up her ass for quite awhile, she then knelt and cleaned his dick with her mouth. Is it just me or are others observing this?
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Never had anal sex and probably never will. I'm a porn aficionado but never got into anal sex videos, except where there's ATM (ass to mouth). It's so fucking raunchy that I love seeing a hot babe clean a guy's cock with her mouth after it's been up her ass bareback. Wouldn't kiss her, but would salute her. And anyone who thinks eating pussy is unmanly must be a closet pipe-smoker with a 3-inch dick.
@gawker, also, I assume the lady in the avatar was the girlfriend of 10 years or so that you often write about? She looks like she'd be a treat to eat out, in that photo.
Rimming is standard in Asia WL.
Anal play in general has gone way more mainstream. Thank porn and the general acceptance of gay men telling their straight girl friends that taking a dick up the ass is no big deal. I'm personally not a fan of salad tossing either way, but I do enjoy taking a special lady up the ass now and then.
I agree that variations on anal play have become more mainstream. I've had a small number of dancers offer anal in the club. I've never had a dancer offer me rimming in the club but that experience is frequently offered at the AMPs, post table shower.
In the porn industry, there's a whole hygiene routine that is required by many producers and performers. It's not very different from prepping for a colonoscopy (sp?) from what I understand. I can totally understand why...
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Not into butt stuff either; that's where poop comes from.
I had a girl rim me once and it was both exhilarating and disgusting at the same time because I didn't prepare for it.
I've gotten the impression that in the 60s, even oral sex was considered slightly taboo like wanting a girl to suck your dick was seen as kind of perverted. Weirdly enough, my generation completely flipped the script on that. In middle school, almost all the sex that happens is oral sex and in high school, its still probably at least half of the sex that happens. Most people's first sexual experience in my generation, whether female or male, is somebody going down on them. I wonder if this is Bill Clinton's fault lol.
^ don’t believe everything you read I got plenty of blowjobs from GFs in the 60s what was more taboo was having sex girls in the 60s were very often technically virgins.
Oh ok, I got the impression most girls would have vaginal sex but were not necessarily into oral. What about going down on a girl? Did a lot of guys do that?
i didn't. i was a insecure self righteous wall flower prude.
MisterWonderful, no disrespect, but why was the rimjob disgusting? If you hadn’t cleaned well because you weren’t expecting I can see it being disgusting for her, but assuming you actually showered I suspect it was fine for her. Should have been brilliant for you! ;)
A full colonoscopy-style prep is far from necessary for anal action. In porno they don’t want folk to see the santorum (feces + lube) and that would ruin ass to mouth. But in real life you do to things. First, don’t worry about santorum. Second, don’t ask girls to do ass to mouth! ;)
If you're talking about porn then yes. There is so much available now and so much of it free that producers are trying everything to find their niche. It's not working for me.